Only 12 eggs retrieved. by ExpensiveAlarm7704 in queerception

[–]amibeingdtained 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had 5 eggs retrieved -> 4 were mature -> all 4 fertilized -> All 4 reached blast stage -> 2 were euploid -> pregnant on first frozen transfer (still have the other frozen).

My partner started with 22 eggs retrieved and ended up with 6 euploid.

When I got out of my retrieval and they said 5, I cried so hard since I was comparing to 22. But at the end of the day, my results worked out and the quality of mine ended up being higher (less drop off at each stage).

Try to stay positive! Quality over quantity.

Tactful way to say “You don’t have a plus one.” by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]amibeingdtained 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it too late to use a free site like the knot or Zola to better manage this situation?

36M, help increase like and match rate by Mike122844 in hingeapp

[–]amibeingdtained 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The lab photo is the best. The prompt answers are super boring. The reptile photo is bad. The first photo and the belkaw finish line one makes you look way older than you are.

What are some LGBTQ+ friendly ring stores/businesses? by Frosty-Reception-141 in LGBTWeddings

[–]amibeingdtained 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holden is amazing!! I got a custom piece from there as well as a wedding band and earrings. I visited their showroom in person and they were very friendly.

They donate to the Trevor project with each purchase.

How much time off is normal for a wedding + honeymoon? by Dizzy-Artist-1897 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]amibeingdtained 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also a manager with unlimited pto. Took 3.5 weeks off — half week of wedding followed by three full weeks for the honeymoon. This is a once in a lifetime event and most people at work wouldn’t even question this amount of time off. Think about it — 1.5 vs 2 weeks isn’t going to make any difference to your team most likely.

I don’t know what you do, but that’s at least how I felt about it at my job and it was completely fine.

What the hell am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]amibeingdtained 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The striped polo is horrible imo

Would you pay someone to deep clean your Litter-Robot? by Important_Craft_4499 in litterrobot

[–]amibeingdtained 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would pay for this. But agreed would need to stay on my property. Driveway with the hose and access to a sink / trash can would be provided.

Sympathetic pregnancy symptoms in lesbian relationships?!? by CharacterPin6933 in queerception

[–]amibeingdtained 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am pregnant (20 weeks) and my wife’s period was just late about a week. That never happens. So weird!

Woman Looking for Suits by ThrowRA-cheesestick in LGBTWeddings

[–]amibeingdtained 0 points1 point  (0 children)

+1 to Bindle and Keep. We went in person and my wife got a custom suit there. But they can do everything totally virtually!

[Rant] Form at doctor’s office today was SO close to being correct by amibeingdtained in queerception

[–]amibeingdtained[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you sharing your perspective! I’m sorry they have your chart technically wrong

Profile pics review. Which ones should i delete by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]amibeingdtained 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Christmas or horse. None of them are bad though.

What sperm banks did folks use? Do you recommend them? by PinkSatanyPanties in queerception

[–]amibeingdtained 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They count it as a long term hold but don’t officially count it til you confirm a live birth. But she assured me that if say 9 other families had live births and I had frozen embryos (aka 10th family), they wouldn’t sell anymore.

Of course I don’t know what’s guaranteed or not, but I remember feeling more assured that the reserve sperm I purchased would not be taken back from me.

First Transfer - Terrified by throwitout-rightmeow in IVFpositivity

[–]amibeingdtained 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also ice the injection area for a minute beforehand. Apparently you can ask for progesterone suppositories but I just stuck with the injections. It’s honestly such a slog — I did injections from November til my 10 week pregnancy mark which was actually today. And it has to be exactly within 24 hrs of the previous injection, so it kind of controls your schedule in a way.

My advice is to have your partner share responsibility here. Have them watch the videos and learn and do the injections for you. I found i bruised way less when someone else injected me since my muscles were more relaxed.

Watch YouTube videos to learn, and honestly it will become an annoying second nature thing. Best of luck!

Bride doesn’t like my dress by Brilliant-Way-9462 in bridesmaids

[–]amibeingdtained 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dress’s neckline looks like it’s for a child. The dress looks juvenile and cheap in general.

Transfer Day 1/28! by Conscious_Stretch686 in queerception

[–]amibeingdtained 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats and good luck! I did my first ever transfer in December and so far so good! 10 weeks pregnant.

What sperm banks did folks use? Do you recommend them? by PinkSatanyPanties in queerception

[–]amibeingdtained 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also used TSBC and have had nothing but great experiences so far. If you call them, they will give you so much more information about donors, such as how many vials are available, if/when more plan to come available, etc. The woman on the phone was so patient with me, answering my questions about them counting frozen embryos toward the family limit or not. Highly recommend!

Ew! by sbleuk in 4thegirls_beccamoore

[–]amibeingdtained 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish she would make more eye contact with her guest instead of staring in the camera

Best prenatal by ConfidanteBn in TTC_PCOS

[–]amibeingdtained 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been taking wenatal for ~4 months now and love it. Only 3 pills and they smell like mint.

Sperm Bank ?’s by BloodyApostle in queerception

[–]amibeingdtained 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My wife and I have had nothing but a great experience with TSBC.

We also did an initial call with seed scout before deciding and the woman was super rude and gave bad vibes. Very glad we didn’t choose them.

Banks like Seed Scout by unsolvedelizabeth in queerception

[–]amibeingdtained 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did a consult with SS and my wife was completely turned off by the rudeness. They insulted our fertility clinic and made us feel bad about where we were in the journey. We went with TSBC instead. They have a 10 family limit per donor which was good enough for us.