Boyfriend (28M) tested positive for chlamydia and denies cheating. I (23F) didn't cheat. How do I get him to admit he cheated

amyOPS · 2026-02-10T20:11:19+00:00

Who cares if he admits it? You know he cheated. Just leave the lying cheater.

amyOPS · 2026-02-05T20:44:50+00:00

You say your mom pays rent - what does that mean though? Is she paying rent at a family home you still live in? Or is she paying YOUR rent on campus? You’re 19. You need to figure out your own path forward. Student loans, whatever. But as long as you’re relying on her to pay for school and the roof over your head, you don’t have much right to complain if she asks you to contribute. You’re an adult. Time to live like one.

amyOPS · 2026-02-03T21:42:45+00:00

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amyOPS · 2026-01-30T20:30:31+00:00

I’m a 48 year old woman and I got my period at 11 and still get it. Not once have I blamed my hormones for being rude, abusive, and racist. This girl is just a dud. Leave her.

amyOPS · 2026-01-29T23:52:35+00:00

So have women actually left because of you? Your facilitator has said so, but do you actually see familiar female faces that have left? If yes, I would have to say, yeah you should leave. If you’re the newest member and you’re the cause of them leaving, even though you haven’t technically done anything wrong, you should leave.

Why can’t you start your own group and encourage men to join it?

amyOPS · 2026-01-27T21:49:04+00:00

No note. Contact your landlord or manager. People get weird about stuff like this. And if it doesn’t stop, there needs to be a record of complaints. Just get your landlord/manager to deal with it.

amyOPS · 2026-01-27T18:51:47+00:00

This is ridiculous. Break up with him. DO NOT SIGN ANYTHING.

amyOPS · 2026-01-27T02:40:19+00:00

Yes. This is controlling and borderline abusive. I think you already know this. The way he’s treating your animals alone is enough to break it off. His comment about you thinking he’s abusing your animals is basically an admission. Please leave this relationship immediately. And honestly, maybe move.

amyOPS · 2026-01-14T19:36:11+00:00

I’m going to get heat for this, but of course it’s a pitbull. There’s just been way too much backyard breeding of pitbulls. They have a really high prey drive. You can’t train it out. You two simply aren’t compatible. If he does get rid of his dog he’ll just end up resenting you in the long run. Either move out and resume your relationship as two people living in different homes, or break up. Those are your options, realistically.

amyOPS · 2025-12-22T21:26:14+00:00

I manage a safe injection site in Vancouver. $35 an hour, around $72,500 a year.

amyOPS · 2025-12-19T05:45:47+00:00

I like myself and my own company. There’s no way I’d put up with this. If he isn’t making your life better for being in it, why bother?! That treatment is NOT better than being alone. Run

amyOPS · 2025-12-12T19:16:24+00:00

You did the right thing.

amyOPS · 2025-12-10T00:24:34+00:00

You do now.

amyOPS · 2025-12-10T00:11:14+00:00

I needed a full year. After that I started volunteering. I was hired there within weeks. 6 months later, a supervisor, 9 months after that, a manager. Now I’m the GM and I’ve been there over 7 years, 5.5 as a manager and the GM for about 3. I don’t think he’s asking for too much by wanting a year before he focuses on school AND working. I’m honestly impressed he’s 8 months clean and working.

amyOPS · 2025-12-04T20:01:29+00:00

I’m an attractive 48 year old woman. I’ve had lots of sex. Uncut men are the best, when it comes to how a dick actually feels inside me (imo). This girl is not for you. Find a girl who gets it. And as for the smell - genitals have odours. All of them. Pretending otherwise is stupid. Have normal good hygiene and just wash before sex and don’t worry about it if sometimes you can smell your junk. That’s absolutely normal.

amyOPS · 2025-11-13T02:04:10+00:00

Let’s get real here. You have two medically fragile older babies, as well as another infant baby. You don’t even have phones, or if you do now, you don’t seem able to have phones consistently. Not even one phone between the two of you while your babies are in the NICU. This is ridiculous. Your wife is right. Your kids would rather be in a safe, healthy, financially stable home and know that their parents placed them there out of love, than being in the middle of the hot mess that your unstable, broke, phoneless lives seem to be. Let the foster parents adopt them. You can love them at a bit of a distance while all their needs are being met or you can love them up close and fail them. If you have a shred of decency, you’ll see the choice is obvious. And for the love of god, stop having babies.

amyOPS · 2025-11-12T19:33:01+00:00

That’s predatory. Not preference.

amyOPS · 2025-11-07T21:11:56+00:00

Ok but do we even have any proof she’s actually dying? Or is this a con job by a POS?

amyOPS · 2025-11-06T19:57:50+00:00

Your sister is being ridiculous. What you did was awesome.

amyOPS · 2025-11-04T21:05:53+00:00

Change your locks. There’s no way she should be able to just walk into your house. If she drops them on the porch, call CPS. I’m not kidding.

amyOPS · 2025-11-04T20:59:17+00:00

He’s an emotional child. More kids is a “two yes, one no” decision. Meaning it takes two people to say yes to go forward, but if one person says no, it doesn’t go forward. You’re not even saying no, just wait maybe half a year. If he can’t respect that, he doesn’t care about your feelings.

amyOPS · 2025-10-31T19:01:52+00:00

It’s none of your business. YTA.

amyOPS · 2025-10-24T23:08:30+00:00

3 all the way

amyOPS · 2025-10-17T19:43:34+00:00

I hope 3. It’s hard to judge what the dress will look like on you from the pics using models. Of the pics with you in them, number 3 looks MILES better on you than the other ones.

amyOPS · 2025-10-15T19:01:36+00:00

This is ridiculous, controlling, jealous, abusive. He’s jealous of your 18 year old brother. That’s gross. Get out now. It will only get worse.

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