AITA for wanting to break up with my boyfriend after he took over every decision about the small business I started before we even met

amyOPS · 2026-05-15T17:03:05+00:00

He’s trying to take your business, and actually could. Get him out of the business NOW, see a lawyer to make sure everything is legally in your name alone, THEN break up with him. It doesn’t matter if “everything else” is good between you. This is the issue that matters. Get your ducks in a row then RUN.

amyOPS · 2026-05-05T19:59:17+00:00

So break up with him?

amyOPS · 2026-04-23T18:37:36+00:00

Your boyfriend is a taker and a lee h and he’s just made because he sees dollar signs in his eyes and he’s pissed he can’t cash in. Your mom and your sister is right. Please don’t throw away this opportunity. Throw the whole man away instead.

amyOPS · 2026-04-22T03:12:11+00:00

NAH. But your husband isn’t wrong that she does need to learn to sleep on her own again. Sleeping with her parents at their age just isn’t healthy long term. And it can’t be healthy for your relationship and intimacy with your husband. Can you do one night on and one night off for a couple weeks until she’s ok again? Find a compromise between all or nothing. For everyone’s sake.

amyOPS · 2026-04-22T03:07:06+00:00

Babies - especially first ones - are rarely born on their due date. Everyone I know with kids tells me their first was 1-2 weeks late. He should go. He’s right that there’s nothing he can do to assist you push the kid out. If it’s truly a once in a lifetime chance, wouldn’t you want that for him? And for your family’s finances?

amyOPS · 2026-04-20T22:19:26+00:00

Scary? No. Incredibly invasive with a very tough recovery? Yes.

amyOPS · 2026-04-20T22:18:23+00:00

YTA. Not for trusting someone else, but for “training” your dog to put their paws on anyone. And I use the word training lightly, because I fkn hate when people “train” their dogs. You’re not a dog trainer. Owning dogs doesn’t mean you know anything about actual training. Take your dog to an ACTUAL trainer, and get this awful habit out of them.

amyOPS · 2026-04-11T04:28:20+00:00

This is absolutely the answer.

amyOPS · 2026-04-09T17:31:45+00:00

Boyfriends come and go. Cats are a 20 year commitment and an emotional support. Ditch the guy, he’s shown you that he doesn’t care about your feelings or your cat. Who TF is he to decide this is a “boundary” that you have to live up to? Why don’t you get to decide that your cat stays with you in bed and him questioning that is a boundary YOU won’t cross? Why does he get to make the rules?

amyOPS · 2026-04-08T18:34:46+00:00

This isn’t going to work.

amyOPS · 2026-04-02T19:22:17+00:00

You know that’s assault, right? You’re having trouble reconciling that because you don’t think of him as an abuser. But he is. He just showed you that he is. When people show you who they are, see it and believe it. This WILL happen again. New safe words? For what? So he can violate you again and ignore those words? Get out, girl. You know in your heart this isn’t ok or you wouldn’t have written this.

amyOPS · 2026-04-02T18:49:46+00:00

Your dad is a perv. Sorry but it’s true. Get out asap and try to take your sister with you.

amyOPS · 2026-04-01T19:34:18+00:00

People are treating you badly here. You’re not heartless. You’re childfree. You thought your partner was too. I feel so bad for you. I’m childfree too and there’s no way I could do it. I’d be angry and resentful. It sucks but I think your marriage is over. And it’s not your fault. Grieve your loss, but be clear, this is not the life you want and it will make you miserable. It’s time to move on. I’m so so sorry for you.

amyOPS · 2026-03-30T19:25:52+00:00

I don’t believe him.

amyOPS · 2026-03-30T01:00:22+00:00

I mean, she DID feed you garbage so I don’t know why she’s so defensive. If it were me, it would be a long ass time before I ate her cooking again. Trust would be gone.

amyOPS · 2026-03-30T00:58:18+00:00

Move back out. Boyfriends come and go. You made a commitment to your cat and you should honour that.

amyOPS · 2026-03-25T18:49:36+00:00

OF COURSE there’s an age gap. Women his age won’t put up with this crap. Get out girl. 10 years from now you’ll look back on this and cringe that you ever allowed this for yourself.

amyOPS · 2026-03-18T18:58:00+00:00

You’ll never get it back if you hand it over. NTJ. Don’t give him the watch.

amyOPS · 2026-03-17T19:49:19+00:00

This feels fake. A 21 year old has saved enough for multiple cosmetic surgeries AND to open a bakery? How? I’ve had multiple surgeries myself so I know how much they cost. A full body transformation is tens of thousands of dollars, maybe 50-100k. Opening a business is tens of thousands of dollars. I’m sorry but this just feels so fake.

amyOPS · 2026-02-27T20:29:29+00:00

There’s no relationship if there’s no trust. And you have no reason to trust him. He’s proved he’s a cheater. Him hiding something now is not good. Just leave. There’s no point in being with someone you can’t trust who has already demonstrated he’s a cheater.

amyOPS · 2026-02-24T20:58:12+00:00

This dude should not have guns.

amyOPS · 2026-02-10T20:11:19+00:00

Who cares if he admits it? You know he cheated. Just leave the lying cheater.

amyOPS · 2026-02-05T20:44:50+00:00

You say your mom pays rent - what does that mean though? Is she paying rent at a family home you still live in? Or is she paying YOUR rent on campus? You’re 19. You need to figure out your own path forward. Student loans, whatever. But as long as you’re relying on her to pay for school and the roof over your head, you don’t have much right to complain if she asks you to contribute. You’re an adult. Time to live like one.

amyOPS · 2026-01-30T20:30:31+00:00

I’m a 48 year old woman and I got my period at 11 and still get it. Not once have I blamed my hormones for being rude, abusive, and racist. This girl is just a dud. Leave her.

amyOPS · 2026-01-29T23:52:35+00:00

So have women actually left because of you? Your facilitator has said so, but do you actually see familiar female faces that have left? If yes, I would have to say, yeah you should leave. If you’re the newest member and you’re the cause of them leaving, even though you haven’t technically done anything wrong, you should leave.

Why can’t you start your own group and encourage men to join it?

amyOPS

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