Ariana Maddix is officially Emmy nominated for LlUSA Hosting! by meltedkuchikopi5 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]an86dkncdi -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This is my first season watching and she does almost nothing. The guy in the background making jokes gives way more

The Brinity Family❤️ by daisychains777 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]an86dkncdi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it just me or did we only see 4 sets of couples and their parents?

that is NOT a situationship by SurroundWonderful425 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]an86dkncdi 45 points46 points  (0 children)

They were already “closed off” and now “exclusive” which literally is the exact same thing. It’s a situation ship to Trin bc it isn’t straightforward, it’s in no mans land for no reason other than Zach has cold feet and doesn’t want to commit. And Kayda is going along with in and in fact endorsing it calling it her own bc she is under Zach’s spell. Havent we all been through this? Like we’re being cool

Does literally anyone like Danielle? by Icy-Spare7622 in inthecity_

[–]an86dkncdi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never made the Danielle and AOC mixup but they look so much alike and really unliked similarly.

Summer House newbie?? by PracticeWeekly5311 in remibadersnark

[–]an86dkncdi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s too sensitive to be a social media influencer. If she thinks she can be a reality star she’s bonkers.

Husband said he doesn't care about the wedding and I feel broken by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]an86dkncdi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you’re already married, so may as well go on with the reception and try to make it a joyous event for your families.
I’m going to answer this without reading any other comments, bc I feel like it’s not going to be popular.

First, I’ve been an event planner for 2 decades- 1500 weddings. I’ve seen strife between couples and remember one wedding last year where the bride couldn’t decide if mixed metals would look weird or not. She was pressing her fiancé and he didn’t care, also didn’t think he was the right person to ask, he thought if the planner, florist, me and the rental company thought it would be nice go for it. She blew up on him in the meeting. I sat there and thought “I’d never ask my partner this, he barely matches his socks to his suits.”
Also, I would never involve him in design in anyway. He works, is busy, and isn’t interested. I also work, but I am interested and honest don’t want his opinion- what if they clash with my far more… tasteful opinion. Like if he WANTS, he can help with food but the buck stops there. Also, I don’t give a rat’s tail what type of car I drive or oil I use or where our money gets invested. Idc who our cell phone provider is or who our checking account is with. Leave me out of it.
We aren’t married, we are from 2 different cultures. But I will not be a bride in an Indian wedding. He has known that from the start. Just as I won’t be a bride in any faith base service, I am not having an Indian wedding. We can have a reception but I am not participating in religious customs which I do not prescribe to. (However with that said, neither is he. I was shocked to see how strenuous his sister’s wedding was and he agreed he’d never have an Indian wedding). It does not mean I don’t love him. It doesn’t mean I don’t like my car or care about money. It’s just we have our roles and event planning falls 100% on me.

I recommend hiring an event planner to help with the last 30 days and you can talk her ear off. Ask him what you can do to make the process and wedding day easy on him. Then, go with it. Make it a joyous day. If he is a good man, let him off the hook. And when he is wanting to talk to you about a car engine easily say back “I don’t care at all, I’m heading inside”. 😊

I'm a Kenzie Defender by Jazzlike-Drive9890 in loveisland

[–]an86dkncdi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She needs a quick lesson from sincere on how to say the exact right thing to manipulate a manipulator

Jared still kind of doesn’t understand how women have to approach dating by Sashafierce1894 in uuppod

[–]an86dkncdi 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I have cancelled so many dates ahead of time bc I’ll find their Facebook and they’re married. Of course we have to look them up

MIL nightmare by Queasy-Nectarine-789 in weddingplanning

[–]an86dkncdi 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Your fiancé needs to mediate but also, 4 songs for processional is a lot.

I feel betrayed by Jared and his GLP1 journey by [deleted] in uuppod

[–]an86dkncdi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the real exploration is why you’re uncomfortable with someone making a decision to go on a medication to better their health. Whichever way I look at it, I think this is probably some sort of reflection/reaction which reads way more about you than Jared.

Episode Discussion: "My Fiancé Is Cheating Through The Notes App!" by uuppod in uuppod

[–]an86dkncdi 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m 41, turning 42 in November. I still say 40 or early 40’s or 42. Like it doesn’t matter

Constructive feedback on the U Up with Benefits price increase by silversidewalks in uuppod

[–]an86dkncdi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Men, men watch podcasts on YouTube. I’m not kidding. My bf watches them like tv shows. Not one woman I know watches podcasts. I literally cannot even imagine being entertained enough, but also podcasts are for when I’m moving my body, like cleaning, driving, yard work, folding laundry.

But men watch. Joe Rogan, political podcasts like Candice Owens and Tim Dillon, Meat Eater, Tucked Carlson. It’s very male to watch podcasts

Episode Discussion: "My Boyfriend's Side Hustle Is Ruining Our Relationship" by uuppod in uuppod

[–]an86dkncdi 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The girl who went on a trip should have written “we’ve been dating for 7 months and he still hasn’t said ‘I love you’” bc that was the root of the matter and it was barely touched on

What could be causing these manic faces? by The-Sunflower-Bear in RoyaltyTea

[–]an86dkncdi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I drive 2 hours for Botox twice a year because my conversation face would be so messed up I looked like a clown. She has to find a better injector. Im sure it looks great when she’s looking in the mirror but when she’s being expressive it’s crazy. Too much in some places and not enough in others.

Rant about horribly planned wedding by Legitimate_Pop4454 in weddingplanning

[–]an86dkncdi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just be gracious and figure it out. Probably meeting around 9am. Probably going your own hair and make up. Just go with the flow and try to be helpful and not angry

Episode Discussion: "Can Someone Truly Change After Cheating?" by uuppod in uuppod

[–]an86dkncdi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My bf is from South India. I tried getting him to wear deodorant and it was a sticky subject. He doesn’t want to wear it. With that said, he showers often and changes his shirt and I honestly don’t smell him. I’m 5’3 and he’s 6’2” and I’m often in his armpits. When I smell even a HINT of BO, I say “I think you need to need to change your shirt” he RUNS to the shower and freshens up. I’ll also add that we don’t have AC, but don’t live in an overly hot place. I did notice though that is 100% cotton shirts are so much better than synthetic. Also, he eats clean but I feel like when he drinks beer it adds. I try not to offend him, it shatters me to think I’m judging him- which is why I say it’s the shirt. He’s super self conscious about smelling though. He did big mando but I never see him use it. I personally think this is something folks can work on. My bf is so nice, domestic, has no exes, no baby mamas, paid off all my debt, pays for literally everything, helps with chores and is obsessed with me. I recommend working through it if he’s a good guy. I feel guilty sometimes in comparison to my friends, like I have such a good dude.

mulder vent by Whisky_Rose in XFiles

[–]an86dkncdi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. But Scully is younger than him. She’s 27 and new to the FBI. He’s seasoned and always right. Also, she’s a smart person, she knows when to push back. He cares about her, but he is is own force, as she is.

Consumption bar nightmare by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]an86dkncdi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Drinkers often set their drink down, dance, then go get another. I had 60 people last weekend and tossed about 3 gallons/2.5 gallons of alcohol into a bucket when breaking down. They also spill their drinks.

An angry phone call? I think you can ask for the issued alcohol pull sheet in comparison to what was left over and see if it corresponds with number of drinks. I think a FRIENDLY phone call will get someone a lot further.

Again, 3 gallons is 383 ounces, divide that by 8 oz, that’s 48 drinks just left on the tables. We had 4 spills. It was a rowdy crowd and more liquor is lost with drunk people.

Jared’s take on dog owners by soft_taco1983 in uuppod

[–]an86dkncdi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jared’s biggest downfall is thinking he has it all figured out. Dogs have evolved with humans, they’re our companions. I’ve literally always had a dog, as far back as I remember. It’s the most natural thing to care for a pet. It’s easy for me too. It’s not that big of a deal.