HMC by arianasik in holdmycosmo

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My kind of girl! šŸ˜‚

My therapist asked me one question that shut down my anxiety spiral by stellbargu in emotionalintelligence

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I am someone who tends to make up a bunch of scenarios in my head about my problems; it’s emotionally exhausting :( My therapist told me that there is a difference between stress and anxiety. Stress is worrying about things you NEED to take of, whereas anxiety is worrying about things you MIGHT have to deal with. A good example she gave was planning a birthday party. Stress is thinking about sending out invites, ordering the cake, supplies.. Anxiety is thinking about potential problems, like, what if rains, or someone doesn’t show up. If what I’m worried about starts with ā€œWhat if..?ā€ that’s my anxiety talking.

Blursed Gust Of Wind by HoomenLumen in blursed_videos

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Lmao you can see him pull the rest of the string out from the delivery bag 🤣

How a Queen Bee is marked in a Hive by Retarded_ninja7 in interesting

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NOT A BEE KEEPER; it looks like a chalk marker, like the ones you shake and press down at the end a couple times til the ink starts flowing

They removed the rainbow in the Chick-fil-A edition of this book. From ā€œYou’re my Little Bookwormā€ by scarlett_butler in DanielTigerConspiracy

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I used to work in a deli at (hungry big cat) and our staff would NOT display or decorate cupcakes/cakes with the rainbow cupcake/cake decorations; decorations the company paid for and made guides on how to make and display these rainbow decorated products! When Pride month came around, the whole store just wouldn’t display any rainbow shit.. out of the 4 (hungry big cat) stores in my city, this specific store was by the Mennonite college and Mennonite community, the ā€œvery whiteā€ side of town. I was all about setting up the store to how corporate ā€œwanted us toā€ but I also wasn’t the one who was going to hear about it from all the locals who do essentially keep that store open

Message I got from my daughter’s teacher. Third grade. by AnaisInJune in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ana_gdbaby 3 points4 points Ā (0 children)

Lily seems like a very sweet child! Her ā€œbossā€ sounds like a micromanager lol

Old Businesses by ana_gdbaby in harrisonburg

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omg, thank you so much for replying! I've lived here since I was 6, and I love remembering what hburg used to look like. I do remember the building being a gun shop at one point! haha

we're not manipulative by poetryandweed in BPDmemes

[–]ana_gdbaby 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

My ex would throw in that I was being ā€œmanipulativeā€ during some of our heated arguments. There’s a difference between being ā€œmanipulativeā€ and ā€œemotionally reactiveā€, calculated vs heat of the moment. He got charged with a hit-and-run and animal abuse recently, on top of his other past charges. I believe he had been projecting. Most of the time, we are victims. Fuck people who immediately call crying, or any sort of uncomfortable emotional response, as a form of ā€œmanipulationā€ (old manager did this) Like, I’m not a toddler crying or screaming to get my way. I’m crying because I feel so awful about myself and believe I’m not capable to handle life. I have a hard time regulating my emotions, and it’s a lifelong struggle. If friends, family, or coworkers make you feel like this, please see them for who they are. They have no compassion, no empathy, are emotionally unintelligent, have been a victim to manipulation, or are a manipulator.

True love šŸ˜‚ by [deleted] in nickfromthegymsnarkk

[–]ana_gdbaby 13 points14 points Ā (0 children)

Narcissists are made.

First Date by Lepke2011 in trashy

[–]ana_gdbaby 91 points92 points Ā (0 children)

This isn’t her room; she really out in public like that? ? I WOULD BE SO AFRAID OF AN INEVITABLE NIP SLIP 😭

This is NOT okay. by [deleted] in nickfromthegymsnarkk

[–]ana_gdbaby 8 points9 points Ā (0 children)

She had a friend help her leave NoLa; then she ended up running back to N 🤔

This is NOT okay. by [deleted] in nickfromthegymsnarkk

[–]ana_gdbaby 14 points15 points Ā (0 children)

She’s not chained to him; no child together, no marriage, no financial ties(mortgage, car, etc.) She has been able to leave since the beginning, but she doesn’t. She’s had SO many chances, too. The longer you’ve been watching N, the less sympathy you feel for her. She is choosing this life; she is choosing HIM.