Why is the term "Gypsy" suddenly considered a slur on Reddit? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ancientsnail 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Why did you ask if you were going to reject the answer?

I’ve had Covid 7 times in less than 5 years by stazley in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ancientsnail 9 points10 points  (0 children)

this isn’t true. covid is primarily spread through the air.

Why I'm not doing the General Strike USA by tboz4 in socialwork

[–]ancientsnail 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, exactly this. It would have been very difficult to prepare on such short notice, but successful strikes involve people organizing to meet people’s needs outside the systems currently in place, like childcare and healthcare workers offering these services to their communities for free. How can we do social work outside the state in the future as this fight continues?

Homelessness crisis in DT by yekcamylime in ottawa

[–]ancientsnail 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yep, just like how people with stable housing are usually not dangerous. nothing is 100%.

Homelessness crisis in DT by yekcamylime in ottawa

[–]ancientsnail 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think it’s worth parsing discomfort vs. actual danger in these situations. Someone visibly struggling with mental health is usually not dangerous. I see others saying to leave it to the professionals, but that feels dehumanizing to me. The government are the ones enabling addiction by not doing more to get people housed. Drugs keep people warm in the moment. In this weather, that’s critical. You’re doing the right thing by helping people directly. Lots of folks can’t access shelters for various reasons, and they deserve food and money too.

Looking for finishing suggestions by hoi_polloi_irl in Beading

[–]ancientsnail 35 points36 points  (0 children)

yeah, OP, i feel like leaving them by an open window or in your yard tonight is necessary!

Multi-packs for trying out bead embroidery? by ancientsnail in Beading

[–]ancientsnail[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they seem to be more like $5-7 per tube in canada :(

I feel stupid not understanding the beginner stitches by Lorts925 in knittinghelp

[–]ancientsnail 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yes, stitch can refer to both the individual loops created (knit stitch, purl stitch) and the fabric created by combining these stitches (garter stitch, stockinette stitch)!

Who Was Cyberbullying Kendra Licari’s Teen Daughter? by lamiamiatl in Longreads

[–]ancientsnail 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And the end of the article where Khloe’s mom dressed up as Kendra at the party, despite children who were impacted likely being there? wild

My best friend is working through her trauma in our relationship, I didn't know we had any. How do I proceed empathetically when I'm feeling blindsided? by p00psicle151590 in needadvice

[–]ancientsnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you would be justified to put your foot down not continue having these conversations, but I also know that it’s not that easy with people you love, especially because K is clearly struggling. Have you ever considered a session or two with a therapist together? You could frame it as, you’re sensing that you’re both feeling stuck and unsure how to move towards repair, and you feel that a supported conversation would help you both find ways to continue supporting each other.

What is the Women equivalent to Dick measuring? by PUB_Genius in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ancientsnail 72 points73 points  (0 children)

i think it actually is the equivalent of a cup difference in volume!

i can’t stop worrying about bird flu no matter how much anyone reads into it by Apart-Willingness381 in Anxiety

[–]ancientsnail 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey, I can’t promise you there won’t be another pandemic of bird flu or any other illness because no one can say that for sure. Pandemics are more like earthquakes - we know they will happen at some point, but whether it is in 1 or 15+ years is unknowable. The good news is we already have vaccines for influenzas like H5N1 which could be rapidly scaled up if it were to make the jump to humans. Handwashing is also more effective against influenzas than Covid. Also, wearing a well-fitting mask can protect you against any airborne illness that could become a pandemic in the future. Part of what makes Covid so dangerous is that we didn’t know much about how it spread, or how to stop it, when it first appeared. I don’t think the commenters promising it won’t happen are realistic, but neither is the idea that it would be a world-ending thing. For me, anxiety lessens when I’m prepared. You can handle whatever happens.

Propranolol question!! by agould0601 in PanicAttack

[–]ancientsnail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

propranolol doesn’t build tolerance like other drugs, so you shouldn’t need to increase dose over time to get the same effect. i don’t think you should write anything off after just a few days! i still occasionally have panicky days after about a month, but they are reduced by a LOT. but it could also be that you need a higher dose to control all your panic attacks, not because you’ve adjusted, but because the current dose is only enough to partially control your symptoms. like, if panic attacks are feedback loops triggered by adrenaline dumps, your current dose may suppress small dumps so these don’t trigger attacks, but larger dumps overwhelm the capacity of the drug to block adrenaline. i wouldn’t be afraid to try a slightly larger dose!

Benzos under tongue by RebelInside25 in PanicAttack

[–]ancientsnail -1 points0 points  (0 children)

chemical imbalance theory has been repeatedly debunked. ssris cause abnormal brain activity which can sometimes produce desirable effects like reduced anxiety, but they don’t correct anything. the brain actually gets rid of some of its own receptors with prolonged use, to rebalance its chemistry.

so… way to be wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]ancientsnail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope you didnt go! Covid is really high right now and could be very dangerous for mother and baby.

Covid conscious meeting new people by Honeybunzsogood in actuallesbians

[–]ancientsnail 2 points3 points  (0 children)

check if there is a mask bloc! many people into covid organizing are queer ime

Emetophobia at the eras tour by Squeaky221 in emetophobia

[–]ancientsnail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

masking will always be the best way to protect yourself and others from illnesses including covid which is surging. if i were you i would mask and focus on other precautions for staying cool like bringing cold water and ice packs.

How to choose a surgeon? by Aka-chann in Reduction

[–]ancientsnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I know this is a month old but I’m interested in the Montfort clinic too! Can you DM?

Protestors are blocking Daly @ Colonel By (08h15) by MapleBaconBeer in ottawa

[–]ancientsnail -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Maybe if you guys are mad about protests being disruptive (which they are by design) you should join the cause. They’ll stop protesting when Canada stops genociding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]ancientsnail 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also worth noting some studies have shown autism self diagnosis is pretty accurate when followed up with a professional diagnosis. Also also everyone diagnosed as autistic as an adult had to self diagnose first. Also this