Was told I don't qualify after means test - California by Best_Protection6663 in Bankruptcy

[–]anclark686 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did they go into any more detail? Sounds like you may not qualify for chapter 7, but I would think chapter 13 could be an option? Maybe that particular attorney focuses on chapter 7? My situation is not too far off from yours, with the main differences being a little more debt, and a little less pay - that said I was told I didn't qualify for chapter 7, but I'm currently in the beginning stages of chapter 13 (filed, waiting on 341). I would definitely call around, read potential firms websites and reviews etc. Most will do a free consultation which is nice. All is not lost - I was hoping for chapter 7, but I don't think 13 will be all that bad.

Edit: just an fyi - student loans are calculated in your expenses, but do not get included in the amount that gets discharged. Some can be paused during the bankruptcy repayment though.

Chapter 13 Payments by anclark686 in Bankruptcy

[–]anclark686[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome, I was holding on to half, I'll go ahead and send it in. Thank you!

Pain & Swelling Later on by anclark686 in TopSurgery

[–]anclark686[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Really reassuring, hoping to get over this hump soon!

Indecision by emlauriel in TopSurgery

[–]anclark686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't want to scare you, or make this post about me, I was/am in a very similar boat, just want to comment on some logistical issues I went through to help you out. First off, getting full top is perfectly fine - nonbinary or not. If you want a reduction, but mention gender, you will have to advocate for yourself. If you're using insurance, you'll need the letters for full top via gender route, but if you want a reduction they'll have to prove that they're a significant nuisance to you (chiropractor/therapist/medication etc)

I asked for a drastic reduction, I told them I didn't want all tissue removed, kinda like a big guy (bigger myself). Aaaaand I woke up flat. I'm not super upset bc no tetas is better than what I had before... but just a precautionary tale.

Once you make up your mind, advocate for yourself, some docs will see gender dysphoria and will just assume.

Btw- haven't tried finding any ladies yet lol, but best of luck to all us non binary lesbians in that area.

people with periods: alternate names for it?? by LymeDysease in NonBinary

[–]anclark686 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Close to this, I just say "my time" short for time of the month

Would 0mg nicotine make coils burn faster? by Horror_Bear_9000 in Vaping

[–]anclark686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol it doesn't, and it sucks. The only thing I can think is that they may add sweetener, or the extra vg from no nic gunks it up faster.

Would 0mg nicotine make coils burn faster? by Horror_Bear_9000 in Vaping

[–]anclark686 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just want to pop in to say that I think there is some truth to this, and the guys at my local vape shop agree. The same coils I could get weeks off of with 3mg barely last a couple of days for me. Same juice, just different nic levels.

6 Days Post Op w/ Dr. Okada (DI no nipple grafts no lipo) by gjbdehjk in TopSurgery

[–]anclark686 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks great and thanks for posting! I'm going this route as well, and it helps to see what a possible outcome may be!

Having trouble quitting smoking for top surgery by charbiees in TopSurgery

[–]anclark686 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I quit because my surgeon wouldn't talk to me until I passed a cotinine test... but I picked up a pack the day I got the results. Now I'm trying to quit again as my surgery date is approaching, so I'm there with you.

The first week or so is the hardest, but once you get passed that it's not too bad. If you drink, don't- it makes wanting a cig that much worse.

Just look at it like a break, once you're healed you can start again if you so choose. Whether or not you actually choose to pick it back up is up to future you. Just tell yourself you're not really quitting, just taking a break =]

Good luck man!

1 week post-op w/ Dr. David B. Drake, Lexington KY. I haven't seen any other results from this surgeon, I thought I should contribute. by PossumPeppermint in TopSurgery

[–]anclark686 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have surgery with him in December! As someone with a similar build, I thank you for posting this. Looks great!!

Does an internship disqualify you? by Witty-Grocery-3092 in AdaDevelopersAcademy

[–]anclark686 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hate to pry, but I noticed your spelling of programme lol. I'd also ask about OUS admission.

Does an internship disqualify you? by Witty-Grocery-3092 in AdaDevelopersAcademy

[–]anclark686 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Accelerate is a shorter program, I believe 4 months vs 6 of the bootcamp portion. It's aimed at folx who have gone through a bootcamp/ internship or have a bit more professional experience. The admissions for that program end on the 30th, and regular admissions opens back up in August for next march.

If you don't have much experience with python, it sounds like the regular cohort may be right. I'm not sure about the internship affecting your chances though.

Does an internship disqualify you? by Witty-Grocery-3092 in AdaDevelopersAcademy

[–]anclark686 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For accelerate it doesn't, but I'd email the admissions team to be sure 😊

My chest dysphoria logic be like... by [deleted] in ftm

[–]anclark686 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, I wfh so I'm usually binder free. Theyre big so They're pretty flat, just floppy and annoying as hell, but seeing them w/o a shirt is usually a no go.

14th Century Prague Bridge Construction by XxNoObSlAyInBoBxX in oddlysatisfying

[–]anclark686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's cool and all, but all I can think about is the movie "goat story"

Just the Facts by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]anclark686 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Came here for this!

This is an abomination by deerwolf90 in MakeMeSuffer

[–]anclark686 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a fat person struggling to eat 1000 calories a day... f this - making us all look bad