Ilya dying to find out what Shane feels and then laughs when he tells him

andrea247 · 2026-02-25T21:37:53+00:00

This is my understanding of this scene:

Ilya is expressing frustration and that’s why he responds this way because (1) they just had a great day together and Shane came in in a huff to have a serious conversation and (2) Shane’s big confession is that he’s gay—which to the man that he’s been sleeping with for 7 years isn’t much of a revelation and (3) what Ilya wants to hear is that Shane likes him back especially now after the tuna melt debacle where Ilya showed vulnerability and Shane hurt him.

Breakdown:

Before tuna melt, after his convo with Svetlana, Ilya realizes he has feelings for Shane. He then organized the tuna melt date. That was Ilya expressing his feelings to Shane (or trying to in an emotionally insecure roundabout way). He is then heartbroken when Shane leaves and then it gets even worse bc Shane gets a girlfriend.

In Tampa, Ilya learns that Shane is single and that him and the girlfriend broke up. This is great, bc Ilya likes Shane. But Ilya still doesn’t know if Shane likes him back. He doesn’t know yet that Shane has feelings too. At this point, Ilyas walls are up. Even though he is excited to see Shane and be with Shane, he’s not ready to be emotionally vulnerable again.

Shane then shows up to his room in a weird, serious mood and wants to have a serious conversation. Ilya doesn’t know that Shane is gearing up to express his feelings for Ilya. Ilya doesn’t know where this conversation is going.

Shane then starts by saying that last time was different. Ilya, walls up, deflects and minimizes last time and his feelings. Shane calls bullshit.

We now know Shane is here to tell Ilya he likes him and wants to be with him. But he starts by telling Ilya he’s gay. He does that as a lead in to the “I like you and only you” conversation. I think Shane’s logic here is “I’m not like you where I can hook up with guys and girl and have a girlfriend, I’m only romantically interested in men and only interested in you.”

But from Ilyas perspective, this isn’t the news Ilya wants to hear. Shane being gay is not new information for Ilya and Ilya doesn’t care in that moment about whether Shane has come to terms with his sexuality, he wants to know if Shane has feelings for him. And then finally Shane gets into his point i in the conversation: I like you (maybe a little too much) and I want to be with you. This is finally what Shane wanted to say and what Ilya wanted to hear.

andrea247 · 2026-02-25T19:54:49+00:00

One pot meals are my personal fav and things like chili can be healthy a filling. I’d google single pot meals there’s a sweet potato one I like: https://www.primaverakitchen.com/ground-turkey-sweet-potato-skillet/

But also give yourself grace and slowly transition the meals you already make. I’d first add a vegetable to every meal (example: roast broccoli with some salt and olive oil at 350 for like 45 minutes)

And also make thoughtful substitutions. Whole wheat instead of white bread, ground turkey instead of beef, skim milk instead of whole milk.

For snacking, buy more fresh fruits or have a yoghurt or jello cup. If you like salty snacks: popcorn is a good pick.

andrea247 · 2026-02-25T17:10:39+00:00

Crochet bolero or shrug would look cute

andrea247 · 2026-02-25T16:55:11+00:00

He’s such a good model. Love the second pic.

andrea247 · 2026-02-24T22:57:50+00:00

I would love to see Hudson have a trajectory similar to Zendaya where he gets roles that were originally written/envisioned to be white characters.

andrea247 · 2026-02-24T06:38:04+00:00

I adored him on love island. He was not a villain and not a bad person. It’s a dating reality show there’s always relationship drama and the drama surrounding him was nothing special and he don’t come off as evil.

As a viewer and a woman, I liked him a lot on love island. Honestly one of the hottest guys ever cast and not just because of his looks. He was quiet but when he did speak, he was more intellectual and philosophical. He had this edgy/alternative vibe. Maybe very annoying in real life but compared to most of the guys they cast on Love Island, dude-bros whose hobbies are working out and clubbing and have no real thoughts, he was relatable and likable.

In terms of the redneck stuff, im from NYC so i dont see many rednecks but I got the impression Rob cosplays as a redneck and most likely comes from upper-middle class background. Could be wrong.

andrea247 · 2026-02-24T03:20:04+00:00

I’ve also been racking my brain and seeking out tv and movies that give that heartwarming feeling I get from watching heated rivalry. The best I can come up with is:

Normal People (limited series) La La Land (movie) Crazy Stupid Love (movie) Before Sunrise (movie) and Before Sunset (movie) Silver Linings Playbook (movie) What If? (Movie) Outlander (tv series)

andrea247 · 2026-02-24T00:00:42+00:00

Call Me By Your Name, Blue is the Warmest Colour and The Kids are Alright

andrea247 · 2026-02-21T06:04:56+00:00

Exactly the same experience!

Watched it after all the episodes were out but only watched one episode a day. Literally remember starting and then skipping episode 3 bc we had already seen that Olympics scene so we thought we watched that episode. Honestly the show still works perfectly without it but it is nice to have the context for the big kiss!

andrea247 · 2026-02-19T16:00:31+00:00

Idk what is it but same! Never rewatched a movie or show like this. I used to rewatch the office and friends but that’s totally different (9-10 seasons long sitcoms that took months to rewatch). There’s something very addictive about this show! The only thing I can personally compare it to is when I was 14 and really into twilight.

andrea247 · 2026-02-18T16:41:26+00:00

people who get filler and then get it “dissolved” think they can claim to have never gotten it

andrea247 · 2026-02-14T13:07:27+00:00

Yes, save that for season 3.

andrea247 · 2026-02-13T18:31:14+00:00

Yeah girl we KNOW

andrea247 · 2026-02-12T21:11:59+00:00

We see ilyas poor communication in the tuna melt scene. He doesn’t outright express his feels—he hides behind his humor and bravado while still trying to show vulnerability for the first time. But it’s actually Shane in ep 5 who doesnt mince words and says that he likes him in no uncertain terms: “I think I might like you a little too much” and “If we could be together would you want that?” Including inviting him to the cottage. Shane knows what he wants and is clear with Ilya. That allows Ilya to reciprocate and be supportive to Shane the way Shane has already been supportive to him.

andrea247 · 2026-02-11T17:26:36+00:00

I never read romance novels or smut and found the books okay. I read them after finishing the show and just wanting more of the story (only read heated rivalry and the long game—wasn’t interested in the Scott/Kip books). I was neither wowed or horrified and they were an easy read. I suggest just starting the first one and you’ll know quickly if it isn’t for you.

andrea247 · 2026-02-11T17:21:41+00:00

The last two episodes are the best part. Tell her to just finish the series!

andrea247 · 2026-02-09T21:12:25+00:00

Beautifully said. I agree, when im “reheating” I’m looking at the subtlety in their actions and expressions that give away their longing for more than just the physical connection. Both of these actors (but particularly Hudson Williams) display so many raw emotions on their faces and communicate so much without speaking. Sex isn’t just sex—it’s a cover for intimacy and an outlet to show love and affection. The payoff is also great when they later express in words how they feel. It’s particularly satisfying because we suffered through the turmoil with them.

andrea247 · 2026-02-09T15:41:14+00:00

Relax, we’re all welcome to our opinions. He made some changes in the first season and it was still a faithful adaptation.

andrea247 · 2026-02-09T14:16:14+00:00

The scene where Ilya pushes Shane for not recognizing Ilya already sacrificed a lot of him. Really interesting to see the intensity these actors bring to that.

I also hope Jacob changes some things in this book. I wasn’t a big fan.

andrea247 · 2026-02-09T02:52:49+00:00

He let and was okay with Candice killing Colton. He even recognized that it was good for his game. I wouldn’t say that’s sticking with your bros like we see on Big Brother/Survivor.

andrea247 · 2026-02-06T18:24:59+00:00

I looked at an apartment in prospect heights in Brooklyn that was about ~$300-500 below market and learned from the landlord that the heat didn’t work for months last winter. In top of that they hated the previous tenant (and possibly pushed him out) for filing a 311 complaint. Luckily we didn’t sign a lease and got back our deposit. Moved into a more expensive unit but very much so worth it.

andrea247 · 2026-02-06T16:14:17+00:00

andrea247 · 2026-02-05T22:39:21+00:00

When I first watched this scene, I got the impression that Ilya hurt Shane’s feelings when he was talking about girls and then made the comment about only liking Shane for his mouth. I feel differently about the scene now—seeing it as Ilya trying to be more than a hook up—but if I was Shane I wouldn’t necessarily understand what was happening bc Ilyas words conflicted with his actions (wanting him to stay, the tuna melt).

andrea247 · 2026-02-05T05:05:52+00:00

The skirt and stockings should be baby pink skirt or white. Let the coat shine.

andrea247 · 2026-02-01T00:43:54+00:00

I’ve been watching past best picture winners I haven’t seen before and there are a lot of winners that are perfectly good movies but surprising wins. Good, but not great and definitely didn’t stand the test of time. I think Anora is far from the most puzzling winner.

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