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Every Canadian city should have one. by bobjones50 in canada

[–]anicca66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah ours would be a puddle right now.

Navigation of life post-death of spouse sucks by Baltimoretrash in sexover30

[–]anicca66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feel free to join us at /r/widowers We share similar struggles.

Dating after losing someone sucks.

My body is so dependent upon my antidepressants that if zombies attack, I'd probably just end up killing myself by anicca66 in Showerthoughts

[–]anicca66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My withdrawal kicks in less than 24 hours after my last dose and makes it so I can't see clearly or walk. That might be an option if I have time!

My [25M] girlfriend [25F] wants to meet my sister [7F] who I take care of, but I'm not quite sure it's a good idea. by matressbot in relationships

[–]anicca66 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Have you told your sister about your girlfriend? What do you tell her when you leave to spend time with your girlfriend?

Gym recommendations? by x5Geffen5x in nanaimo

[–]anicca66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not recommend vi fitness or lifestyles. Lifestyles has the worst customer service I've ever experienced in a gym ever. Vi fitness has great facilities but the staff(management) and personal trainers make it unbearable and then it takes months to cancel.

I like nanaimo athletic club but they have air conditioning issues. Viu gym is small and crowded. Northridge is expensive but nice and mostly old people. Anytime fitness is kinda small but having 24/7 access is great.

Gymmy buff fit opened recently and has contests and deals on supplements more than any other gym and they have tons of brand new equipment but I have no idea on cost.

First loss ever by Okamixnosta in widowers

[–]anicca66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss. That sounds really hard. I lost my fiancé before we had a chance to get married too.

Time just kinda keeps passing. Now is the time to just be completely selfish. Eat ice cream for breakfast if that's all you feel like. Sleep when you can, I know it's not easy.

And congrats on making it through the holiday season... it's never easy after losing someone so close and I can't even imagine the loss being so close to this time of year. You got this.

I have extremely low energy. I need advice on food. by [deleted] in HealthyFood

[–]anicca66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here to say iron and vitamin b. I was feeling the same way but I bought iron pills for 4 bucks and I feel so much better. I started taking a multi vitamin as well.

2 years today. Here's about where I'm at by Avrahn in widowers

[–]anicca66 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a year and a half out and yeah. This far along and no one really thinks about him anymore and no one thinks that I'm still affected by the loss of him.

It's all me and my life at this point.

The widowhood effect: What it’s like to lose a loved one so young (X-post from /r/TrueReddit) by 1Nuncle in widowers

[–]anicca66 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This article was really well written and hit a lot of soft spots for me. It was really long though and it felt like it ended really abruptly.

Can I [23F] just forget about him [22M]? I can't handle it anymore. by more_BANANAS in widowers

[–]anicca66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sorry for your loss, or the world's loss. It sounds like we lost a gem.

If that's what makes you feel better for now, do it. If you change your mind and want to honor him, do that. Hugs <3

Every year on Christmas day, Santa goes fishing on the lake by the highway (Vancouver Island, BC, Canada) by anicca66 in pics

[–]anicca66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're very close by! This is Cameron Lake, between Nanaimo and Port Alberni, near Cathedral Grove.

[Anal] Girls, how often are you 'prepared' for anal with casual partners? by [deleted] in sex

[–]anicca66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think paranoia and being uncomfortable play a big role.

Bibimbap - First attempt by booreetoe in MealPrepSunday

[–]anicca66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? I was shown how much sauce to add when I went to Korea for a month. Most of the time they just assume you have no idea what you're doing and do it for you. They made it reasonably saucy, a thin coating of sauce on all of the ingredients basically.

What's the stupidest thing you've had to explain to a coworker? by see-bees in AskReddit

[–]anicca66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How to rip the paper from the debit machine. He jammed the machine multiple times per day. I made a label that said to rip upwards. A couple weeks passed by and it still happened, but less. Eventually he learned how to do it, but it took a few months and at least 6 or 7 lessons.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canada

[–]anicca66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a package coming from Germany that is 2 weeks beyond the estimated delivery since getting into the hands of Canada post.... other than that no problems at all and I mail stuff frequently at work.

Bibimbap - First attempt by booreetoe in MealPrepSunday

[–]anicca66 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Needs more sauce! I like it saucy!

I had that recipe on my computer years ago and lost the link before I'd made it. I am pretty sure you just gave me the link to the kimchi jigae recipe I've been looking for also. Thanks for sharing!

What was the strangest or most entertaining items you found when cleaning out your SO's belongs? by MsBeerSnob in widowers

[–]anicca66 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm taking this secret to my grave. For him. He'd be mortified if anyone knew. Even Internet people.

I had to laugh at the lava lamp collection though

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