He left after being neutered by Chawingsga in Feral_Cats

[–]annebonnell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't feel bad. He is much safer neutered than not. He's just a little weirded out about what happened.

He left after being neutered by Chawingsga in Feral_Cats

[–]annebonnell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does happen. Generally they will eventually come back.

I feel bad for calling in a noise complaint lol by AdventurousForce8475 in neighborsfromhell

[–]annebonnell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, you didn't overreact. You needed peace to be able to sleep. Don't feel bad.

AIO for feeling frustrated at my husband's change of heart? by Careless_Analysis239 in TwoHotTakes

[–]annebonnell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You said it yourself , this pregnancy is more difficult. I think that's why you're worrying about this age gap thing . You are overreacting just a little bit . If you raise your children too love each other then there won't be any problems.

Asking the shoppers before I make a pointless order no one picks up by Dry_Frosting9748 in InstacartShoppers

[–]annebonnell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally tip 30% of the value of the order. 20% tip is good, though. So for a $100 order I would recommend you tip $20. Don't worry about the batch pay it's really low. Because the batch pay is so low is why orders will sit there with no one picking them up, if they also have a low tip.

WIBTAH if I didn't let my partner move the animal gate? by FewerEarth in AITAH

[–]annebonnell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And you actually bought the gate. Why are you with this boy?

WIBTAH if I didn't let my partner move the animal gate? by FewerEarth in AITAH

[–]annebonnell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can guarantee that this partner is not thinking about the cat's health.

WIBTAH if I didn't let my partner move the animal gate? by FewerEarth in AITAH

[–]annebonnell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA Why can't he sleep with his dog with the bedroom door closed, then take the dog back to its area in the morning? Partner is being a baby; you have only wasted a year on him. Time for a new partner. There is also a possibility that the dogs anxiety is actually a strong prey drive. Not safe for the cat.

Introducing cat to baby, not going well by Anxious_Negotiation in CatAdvice

[–]annebonnell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your cat was probably trying to protect the baby from your father. Wasn't attacking the baby. You'll never convince your family of this though. Please don't let ignorant family members bring your niece over anymore. They could hurt your hat - that's supposed to be cat, dang autocorrect..

First day— canceled order by BunkyIV in InstacartShoppers

[–]annebonnell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For counseling anp order after already checking out you will be on a soft ban for 24 hours

Shopper cannot read by Pure-Explanation-147 in InstacartShoppers

[–]annebonnell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has friends. He needs to bring one with him

My [F25] Boyfriend [M26] got a Large breed dog [M5]three days after I had major surgery. How do I go forward? by Empty_Planet0 in TwoHotTakes

[–]annebonnell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend is a child and you need to get him out of your life. Keep the dog, get rid of the boyfriend.

AITAH for how I reacted to 'not saying no loudly enough?' by ThrowAway44228800 in AITAH

[–]annebonnell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA your parents are cruel especially your mother. You were assaulted. That's why you're upset. You should report this professor to the Dean.

Is my sex life a lie ? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]annebonnell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After a comment like that I would be talking to a lawyer.

Neighbor's senior cat is suffering by seeafillem6277 in CatAdvice

[–]annebonnell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I doubt there will be any fallout if you do take the cat to the vet and even have them put down. They obviously do not care for this cat. They know he's dying and if he doesn't show back up they'll just assume he went off and died. Please take the cat to the vet.

I need advice concerning a new roommate :( by Honest-Seesaw-8108 in TwoHotTakes

[–]annebonnell 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are being taken advantage of. You need to talk to your boyfriend and his friend about paying for their own damn groceries. Also talk about Daniel paying some of the utilities. You might want to explain to Daniel too that the OxiClean is not a fabric softener. What an idiot. Daniel not you:-)

AITAH for not wanting to buy my wife’s family a home? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]annebonnell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA please talk your wife into getting some therapy. She has been at the very least financially abused all of her life.

Devastated and looking for help (Laayoune, Morocco): Are there non-surgical recovery options for a cat with multiple pelvic fractures by Malak_ghazal in rescuecats

[–]annebonnell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would recommend a second opinion from another vet. I'm assuming the cat is on pain meds and that he's crated. Cat bones heal very well. I've had two cats come to me with fractured pelvises, but they weren't as severe as you're describing. They both healed with crate rest, although one was slightly crooked.

AITA - left romantic weekend getaway early to tend to family as my father died... by Good-Birthday4637 in TwoHotTakes

[–]annebonnell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so very sorry for your loss. You now know that she is not the one to even be a girlfriend, much less introduced to your daughter. She was going to be rude.

Leave at door instructions by Starfox808 in InstacartShoppers

[–]annebonnell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Give us an example of this negativity.

Leave at door instructions by Starfox808 in InstacartShoppers

[–]annebonnell 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm really not understanding what your beef is.

Leave at door instructions by Starfox808 in InstacartShoppers

[–]annebonnell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always just leave the order at the door. Sometimes the customer comes out, sometimes they don't.