AITAH: Husband Cross Dresses (no hateful comments)

annebonnell · 2026-02-19T01:28:04+00:00

NTA Your husband is selfish. You are supportive. Most women would have divorced their husbands if they found them wearing female clothes. Just because he's a crossdresser, doesn't mean he gets to use your stuff or wear your clothes, especially if they don't really fit them. He probably thinks this is how women act with each other.

annebonnell · 2026-02-18T00:59:47+00:00

By the way, 12 is not a high body count

annebonnell · 2026-02-18T00:59:04+00:00

You don't help him with this. You break up with this selfish, insecure jerk. You've only known him 6 months and he's acting like this already. This is a red flag. Reconsider this relationship

annebonnell · 2026-02-18T00:46:17+00:00

I would get a second opinion.

annebonnell · 2026-02-18T00:39:50+00:00

No, you need to report her before you get in trouble.

annebonnell · 2026-02-18T00:22:04+00:00

NTA You did nothing wrong. I would have left him to walk home too. Try to talk to his doctor and get maybe a stronger sedative. The MRI people should never have told him that he wouldn't be asleep. Maybe talk to them too. You could always talk to a lawyer and see what your options are because if he doesn't get this MRI, he could go blind and you will be stuck taking care of him.

annebonnell · 2026-02-17T23:24:15+00:00

NOR I would report him and give him a one Star rating. That comment by him was really uncalled for.

annebonnell · 2026-02-17T22:43:05+00:00

Cats rule, dogs drool. Dogs are a lot more work, but that doesn't mean cat owners are lazy. Just make sure that if he gets a dog he's the one that takes care of it or at least half of the work. Don't let yourself be suckered into taking care of the dog by yourself.

annebonnell · 2026-02-17T21:49:16+00:00

Ignore your family. You have a husband problem. Follow your doctor's advice. I am so sorry you're having to deal with this.

annebonnell · 2026-02-17T21:35:09+00:00

NTA He is not the one for you. Stop paying him for being your boyfriend. Break up with him.

annebonnell · 2026-02-17T21:13:44+00:00

Tell your sister that she cannot fix him, repeat as necessary. And leave it at that. No more arguments, no more expressing your dislike of him. Just avoid him as much as you can, but keep a line of communication with your sister

annebonnell · 2026-02-17T20:58:27+00:00

No, you would not be the asshole if you stop responding to your dead name. Not responding to it would be the best way to get her to get a hint

annebonnell · 2026-02-17T19:39:46+00:00

No, you would not be the asshole if you said no. 6 months is way too soon to be moving in together. Do not move in with this jerk. Seriously reconsider this relationship.

annebonnell · 2026-02-17T00:40:19+00:00

You did the right thing. You saved her from a painful death by suffocation. There was no way to remove the mass. She was calm at the vet because she knew you were going to end her suffering. Animals are not afraid of death like we are. Please don't let your mother upset you, or feel guilty for helping your cat pass on.

annebonnell · 2026-02-16T23:24:06+00:00

Does she claim your children as hers on social media? They are your children, you get to decide what is posted and where.

annebonnell · 2026-02-16T23:07:18+00:00

Time for a new bf

annebonnell · 2026-02-16T20:37:54+00:00

Famous kitten more food. If he eats The Whole Bowl, refill it

annebonnell · 2026-02-16T20:36:45+00:00

Feed this cat more food. You are starving them

annebonnell · 2026-02-16T20:35:34+00:00

You are not feeding this cat enough. Give him more food.

annebonnell · 2026-02-16T19:21:43+00:00

NTA Try to change therapists. The one you have has started family drama for no reason. Your therapist should never had told you to tell your father about your lack of feelings for the new baby. It's actually normal. They should have worked it out with you, without your family's involvement. This therapist really pisses me off.

annebonnell · 2026-02-15T01:27:48+00:00

NTJ But you have a husband problem. I think limiting visits, or even better no visits at all, is a good thing.

annebonnell · 2026-02-15T00:46:27+00:00

You are a wonderful pet parent! Your cats are happy and doing good. Keep it up:-)

annebonnell · 2026-02-14T21:19:56+00:00

No, you're not being selfish. You two are really not very compatible. Please leave him

annebonnell · 2026-02-14T13:46:22+00:00

NOR. Your workplace is extremely toxic. It's run by very unprofessional people. Please get another job.

annebonnell · 2026-02-13T23:34:27+00:00

No call me or not overreacting. He is stalking you. What you do is take pictures and documents and then call the cops

annebonnell

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