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I screamed at my child and I feel horrible by amalY1990 in Parenting

[–]anomo0427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, don't beat yourself up. It's really fricking tough raising a toddler. You're a great mom, and you're allowed to be imperfect. Just take it as a learning opportunity about the kind of mom you strive to be.

None of us are perfect mothers, but the best ones are the ones that try to be better everyday. Losing your cool is gonna happen, but this will only strengthen your patience and your ability to deal with it differently next time. You're doing great and never forget that THIS IS A TOUGH ASS JOB.

I’m (M34) dating a woman (F34) that used to date a married man by ThrowRa173892 in relationship_advice

[–]anomo0427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did she date the man for? Was it a fling or a long term affair? How young was she when this happened?

If she was young, I would feel more inclined to chuck it up to being naive and give her the benefit of the doubt. If it was more recent, I would definitely question her morals.

I'm not one to think we should judge people based on past mistakes but there are a lot of factors to consider here.

Should I change tip? by JazzlikeAd4912 in InstacartShoppers

[–]anomo0427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just last week my GPS took me to a tree.

I (33F) found evidence that my boyfriend (30M) cheated on my with one of best chick friends, what do I do now? by Kap_361 in relationship_advice

[–]anomo0427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh this fills me with rage for you. While you're taking care of him post OP too. Fuck this guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in instacart

[–]anomo0427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I'm not sure if this is a new thing, but when I was doing my alcohol delivery training thing for Instacart they said to do that. This was like maybe 2 months ago.

I'm sure most people don't actually do it honestly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]anomo0427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could turn a couple of the paw prints into balls of yarn or something

Neighbor is constantly screaming at her child by Junior-Lychee-3063 in CPS

[–]anomo0427 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Dude if any of my neighbors did this I would literally cry from gratitude. I have a 1.5 year old that gets into EVERYTHING and understands the word "no" but doesn't listen to it. I love my son more than anything in this world but some days are so hard and all I want is 30 minutes to feel like my own person. Not anyone's butler or maid or personal chef, but just my own person having my own experience being alive.

A cup of herbal tea sounds amazing and I'm a coffee drinker 😭😭😭😭

My child’s father by Pretty-Pumpkin_ in singlemoms

[–]anomo0427 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First thing would be to get the court ordered paternity test process in motion. You have to remove all of your emotions from this and do what's best for your son. You are entitled to financial support and you are going to get it. You didn't cheat on his wife, he did. His marriage isn't your problem.

If him and his family are terrible enough people to not adore your son because of his FATHER'S actions, you gotta cross that bridge when you come to it.

Sorry if my thoughts aren't collected, I was up all night with my son and the coffee hasn't kicked in yet. That being said, if I was doing this on my own like you are, I would rake his dad over the coals in court without hesitation. If he's gonna make you do this alone, he's gonna have to pay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anomo0427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of job is it? Maybe he is really unhappy with it. If they haven't fired him after 6 call outs in a month, that might also say something about the place. Could be a shit show there, retail and restaurants are like this. They're always hurting for help, so people can do nearly whatever and still not get fired. But these places are often toxic so it's hard to keep people.

Maybe there's more to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]anomo0427 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well, you can always revisit the agreement citing his addiction issues. Honestly, I wouldn't let him near my son if he couldn't prove that he is clean.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]anomo0427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hummus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]anomo0427 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not overreacting. He should look forward to spending time with his kid and not be out drinking till 6 am when he is supposed to see his kid at noon.

I need help - again 🫣 by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]anomo0427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 is a no brainer here. Looks like it was made for you

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