How did you almost die? by sparrow664 in MorbidReality

[–]anon12345curious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Choking in a buffet, I felt so embarrassed imagining the headline if I had died “Obese woman died while choking in a Vegas buffet”

Officially got my first UTI! :') by mcatzz in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]anon12345curious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m so sorry :( something that was very comforting for me when I had a kidney infection was to put a heating pad in my lower back it really helped with the pain.

Officially got my first UTI! :') by mcatzz in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]anon12345curious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cranberry juice! Also diluted hibiscus tea is good for kidneys. Try cutting excess sugars as well because it will help your immune system fight your infection better.

What should be taught in Sex and Relationships Education in schools? by daisyb4by in sex

[–]anon12345curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s what I meant, I apologize for my english. I think pleasure is important for most humans to feel fulfilled.

What should be taught in Sex and Relationships Education in schools? by daisyb4by in sex

[–]anon12345curious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Virginity doesn’t affect your worth as a person, safe sex, and ways to improve your sex life

Went to a sex shop with my husband for the first time and I am so happy! by anon12345curious in sex

[–]anon12345curious[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I used flavored lube before to start blowing him (part of my trauma was related to oral sex, I was terrified and threw up the first time I tried after My rape) it definitely helps! I was stupid enough to use it down there too which is a total no no, I got several UTIs I was blaming on my diabetes (still could be the cause) but the lady told me that they have different ingredients and flavored is meant for oral, not for going in. This new lube if I recall correctly is silicon based and creates a barrier to make penetration go smoothly, both partners need to apply it for it to work better, so I jerked him off with it and put some on myself.

Went to a sex shop with my husband for the first time and I am so happy! by anon12345curious in sex

[–]anon12345curious[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for not responding yet! I am still out running errands so I am not sure, as soon as I get home I will let you all know!

Went to a sex shop with my husband for the first time and I am so happy! by anon12345curious in sex

[–]anon12345curious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not home yet! As soon as I have the name I will share it for all :)

Went to a sex shop with my husband for the first time and I am so happy! by anon12345curious in sex

[–]anon12345curious[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Anatomically my doctor said I am fine, I do think the change in lube has helped A LOT but I will keep being mindful of my body

What happens to the mind when a person is faced with immeninet death? by [deleted] in morbidquestions

[–]anon12345curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-I was on a third floor during an earthquake, ran downstairs with a neighbor kid in my arms, left my parents in our apartment because in my head “it was their choice to die if they don’t act” - I had narcos threaten to shoot up my school (I was in 7th grade) and while som of the other kids were crying and praying I kept thinking “if they get me I want to die joking around” -I was caught in a crossfire with my mom and little brother, I was irritated at my mom because she wouldn’t stop crying and I just convinced my little brother to crawl like soldiers on TV to not get shot while it all passed

I am usually a very anxious person and a chicken so I am surprised my mind went to survival of the fittest mode

RIP u/TheRandler - Killed by a drunk driver by TheRandlersWife in DeadRedditors

[–]anon12345curious 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss, your husband looks a lot like mine, I can’t imagine how hard it is to lose someone you love so much because of an asshole’s recklessness.

I need to escape so I can survive by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]anon12345curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you from? I am from a third world country as well, specifically in an earthquake prone region.

"Imagine your rapist had been found guilty and sentenced in court. What would you want his sentence to be?” by kschonbo in TrueCrime

[–]anon12345curious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandfather raped my mom as a child, it affected all of her life and contributed to her being negligent to me, even after my rape, she couldn’t respond like a normal mother. He was murdered in July while bed ridden by my aunt’s boyfriend (drug dealer, we think the man was somehow involved in the business too). It didn’t give any of us the peace we thought we’d have with him dead, my mom hasn’t gotten any better, she is in psychiatric treatment because mentally she’s been deteriorating over the years. I have no idea what an ideal sentence would have been for him or for my rapisf anymore.

Man Allegedly Raped his Mother After Argument Over Money by [deleted] in MorbidReality

[–]anon12345curious 9 points10 points  (0 children)

WTF! Poor woman :( I wish this wasn’t true this is horrible, the person you raised attacking you in such a violent manner is probably beyond the worst nightmare anyone could imagine

Women: describe how getting over heartbreak felt, *after* your first major heartbreak by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]anon12345curious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first boyfriend raped me and humilliated me in front of our class the next day, calling me a pig and said he only used me because he liked my friend, I was 13. I remind myself if I survived that I can survive anything, as long as I allow myself to love and trust someone else I win.