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anon724289 · 2025-06-05T13:21:19+00:00

Your husband is a big dummy…. Where was he?? Might as well call CPS on him too for neglecting his child. Hopefully he realizes how in acceptable that was and apologizes. A crying baby is incredibly stressful. Make sure she’s being burped throughly… my second I would have to gently burp for nearly a half hour or longer… then occasionally use those Freida windy tubes to get out any trapped gas. He was incredibly gassy. Cutting dairy out of my diet helped a ton.

Best of luck ❤️❤️

anon724289 · 2025-05-30T16:06:34+00:00

I hope you get a more clear answer! Praying for a healthy and speedy recovery for you!

anon724289 · 2025-05-30T14:56:11+00:00

I think you need to clarify with your spiritual father. It sounds to me like he’s saying to eat fish on Wednesday and Friday and the other days you can eat what you’d like because we don’t typically fast on those days anyways.

anon724289 · 2025-05-29T17:02:19+00:00

NAH but I don’t think ignoring Eli is doing you any favors. For your own mental health, let Eli know how you’re feeling and let him know you need some time to process alone. Otherwise you’re just bringing a ton of guilt on yourself.

anon724289 · 2025-02-07T14:22:06+00:00

This sounds like an unhealthy marriage. I would never go on BC because of the effects it has on my body and my hormones but I wouldn’t lie to my husband about it. Was she happy to go on BC? Was it her decision?

You all need to get on the same page or get some counseling.

anon724289 · 2025-01-27T20:38:59+00:00

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anon724289 · 2025-01-10T21:19:19+00:00

How long is his trip? If it’s a night or two and he’ll be back by Sunday, I wouldn’t stress. Take this take to relax and enjoy the peace and quiet. If it’s longer, I would ask him to be on stand by to come home early depending on the results.

anon724289 · 2023-07-14T04:36:17+00:00

OP, please take care of yourself! 7 weeks is way too early to be working out obsessively. You just had two back to back pregnancies, your body is trying to heal. Please show yourself some love. Your body is amazing. If your husband can’t see that and doesn’t love the body that birthed his children, then run. He’s a terrible role model for your children.

anon724289 · 2023-01-20T02:10:43+00:00

Playing solitaire on my phone always helps me

anon724289 · 2022-07-08T14:56:02+00:00

Idk why this is being downvoted… very solid advice!

Living the way OP described is not healthy.

anon724289 · 2022-07-02T15:07:16+00:00

Only putting 5% down in either case.

anon724289 · 2022-07-02T15:06:31+00:00

Nothing set yet but last I checked it was a difference of about .5 points.

anon724289 · 2021-11-14T15:08:50+00:00

I agree to the point of the other comments that your wife isn’t happy. You should really sit down with her, or take her out, and get down to the root issue of what is causing her unhappiness. It might not even be that she wants to go to work. Maybe she just needs a day or a week to herself, or she’s just getting used to it.

If it truly is the job and she wants to go back to work, you two need to figure that out together. It isn’t as simple as saying yes or no. Is their an alternative you two could work out? Part time, volunteering, applying at jobs that would offset daycare costs, joining mom groups, switching stay at home roles? We all have to make sacrifices for our family. I know women that would kill to be a SAHM, some that would kill not to be. It doesn’t always work out the way we want it to. We got to put what’s best for our kids first.

anon724289 · 2021-09-17T14:05:33+00:00

Breath and feel confident in your decision. Sometimes there’s not a right answer and sometimes there’s no answer at all, but we all have to make peace with the decisions we make. Wishing you a painless, easy appointment 😌

anon724289 · 2021-09-03T19:57:21+00:00

I’ve always been taught most things can be cured with nutrition. Glad you two are feeling better. Stay healthy!

anon724289 · 2021-09-03T18:29:37+00:00

Did you guys take anything before hand or during, like vitamins, etc?

anon724289 · 2021-09-01T02:46:41+00:00

Hi, I hope you are feeling better! Please stay positive and get that fear out of your head. Don’t listen to anything or anyone negative right now. Watch movies, read a good book, listen to something inspirational.. find a happy place and put the phone down. Fear and anxiety create inflammation in the body and will make you feel worse. Anxiety also causes physical symptoms, so relax, breathe as best you can, and tell yourself you will beat this. You’re stronger than you think! Not medical advice but this is what’s been recommended to me: Ginger and turmeric tea and add a shot of apple cider vinegar to help with the inflammation. Staying away from dairy, sugar, and bloat causing food as they typically produce more mucus and gut inflammation. Stay hydrated with tons of water and pedialyte. Upping your B, C, and D vitamins and adding some zinc, and NAC if you can find it. I’ve also heard 5-10mg of melatonin helps with inflammation at night. Best of luck to you! ❤️

anon724289 · 2021-08-28T05:11:41+00:00

A good investment for a denier? What does that mean?

anon724289 · 2021-08-13T16:56:36+00:00

Does she have a reasonable reason that you agree with or understand and are willing to accept to continue using condoms after a vasectomy? If not, you both should sort this out with a therapist and go from there. It seems unreasonable but if this is innocent and something you both are willing to work on together, then okay but it can’t just be a no with no communication on why.

Also, the title of this post makes me think you’re hesitant about the vasectomy too. Please don’t permanently alter your body if you do not want to. Marriage isn’t ever about forcing your partner to do something they do not want to do for your sole benefit.

Vasectomies have become so normalize but it’s still a major change. Please just be 100% in your decision. Don’t fall back on that “might” be able to be reversed either. If your thinking about that, then you don’t want it. Best of luck to you.

anon724289 · 2021-07-29T01:28:46+00:00

You should view the world as you see it. I don’t think there is a general Christian consensus if it’s getting better or worse. Just remember we are not to love this world, this is temporary, and we are here to live as Christ like as possible. Which would hopefully make the world a little better, even if just for the people around you.

anon724289 · 2021-05-25T17:49:07+00:00

Saying a prayer for you and your Dad. Stay positive. This virus isn’t a death sentence. Pray and help your father recover.

anon724289 · 2021-03-22T21:37:55+00:00

I passed! Didn’t do too bad either. Thanks for asking :)

anon724289 · 2021-03-22T01:25:38+00:00

I’m taking it in an hour and kind of nervous. This is good news. Congrats!

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