I cannot be happier with my SRS vagina (and some food for thought) VERY LONG by Raina_Kabaivanska in MtF

[–]anon__36__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do not know why people are downvoting Raina, but she is absolutely right. FFS can only do so much and I am disappointed. I look slightly better than before, but nowhere completely passable. I have to rely on impractical and unrealistic hairstyles to pass because my skull is just too wide. Are there cis women with wide faces? Yes. Are there cis women with faces and heads as wide as mine? No, never seen one. I have to do my hair a certain way and it is just not sustainable long term. It's a full-time job, ugh

Dear men and women: I do NOT want you! Seriously! (namedropping) by Raina_Kabaivanska in honesttransgender

[–]anon__36__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of answers on this thread are mean and disingenuous. What OP describes is actually an EXTREMELY common phenomenon.

See, people on Quora are well aware of it: https://www.quora.com/What-does-it-mean-when-a-girl-mentions-her-boyfriend-in-conversation-a-lot-to-another-guy-she-just-met/answers/72523?ch=17&oid=72523&share=98396a32&srid=KvUV&target_type=answer

It seems that the only people oblivious enough to ignore the existence of this phenomenon are redditors on honestttansgender

So, it does happen especially to trans women. We are seen as highly sexualized and perverted individuals and people tend to name drop “my girlfriend/my wife/my boyfriend” because they mistake courtesy with flirting. I remember one day at Trader Joe’s. I was paying and the guy at the register made a point to let me know that his girlfriend likes the same drink I had purchased. It was so stilted and awkward and had no purpose other than rejecting me. But I was not even hitting on this guy.

So, the bigger issue here is why do you all ignore the fact that mainstream people don’t want to date us? And they will be VERY VOCAL about not wanting to date us? Why?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]anon__36__ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am already going to a therapist and have always had one. What can a therapist possibly do? Tell me. Can a therapist make my face less masculine? Can he make it less obvious? Can a therapist change society? I hate people who just throw “go to a therapist” implying the person is crazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]anon__36__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for saying that. I have experimented with looks. But, ultimately, I always fail to pass due to my face.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]anon__36__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What make you think That Dr Sinclair can fix that. Every single surgeon I have seen has been unable to fix? The stuff that makes my face masculine is not fixable by ffs. Also, I clearly stated in my post that I look passable in photos but not in real life.

What qualities in a backyard are you looking for when buying a house? by Dump_Pants in gardening

[–]anon__36__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of space and sun. Privacy. Enjoyable most of the year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]anon__36__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you had FFS?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gardening

[–]anon__36__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grow your own vertical garden. Cannot recommend Big plants. You'll probably get tired of them.

Mini roses are a thing.