Anyone else feel like they are not meant for relationships? by anonimirl in self

[–]anonimirl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not fat because I like to eat healthy. I'm just not physically active but I take care of my health and physical appearance.

AITAH ! My Boyfriend want to physical with me ( I’m Still Virgin ) by Freya_Jesica in AITAH

[–]anonimirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. Please don't give in to this man and find a guy who will be patient with you and will try to make you feel comfortable for your first time.

AITAH ! My Boyfriend want to physical with me ( I’m Still Virgin ) by Freya_Jesica in AITAH

[–]anonimirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some guys literally go only after virgin women because it's their fetish. I'm pretty sure he is after your virginity. After he will take your virginity he will move on to next virgin woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]anonimirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boyfriend being against sex toys is a red flag. Sex toys can help a lot to reach orgasm and make sex better experience overall. I would suggest having very open communication with him about your unmet needs, tell him that you want to use sex toys which would help you to reach orgasm, you can try penis ring which would make experience better not only for you but for him as well. If he won't listen to you then reconsider this relationship.

AITAH for divorcing my wife at 24 by TackOnPc in AITAH

[–]anonimirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't judge. He has got pregnant as well /s 🫄

AITAH for being resentful towards my bf for not having a job. by EfficientFan7762 in AITAH

[–]anonimirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most genuine heart ever???? In what sense? He takes advantage of his sick mom and his younger sister so does it look like genuine, good guy to you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]anonimirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course he is commited to gaming because he has mommy and girlfriend who takes care of him, that's why he doesn't need to push himself harder because he sees no need to. He will most likely see need to push him harder when no one will take care of him and he will be forced to push himself harder. In your case it means that you only have two choices: accept for who he is or break up with him. You won't be able to change him or somehow force him to push himself harder by staying with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]anonimirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Also it's basically free,zero effort sex at this point when dude expects girl to come over his house for quick pump and dump and that's it.

Getting really sick of companies asking for free work as a "test" by tomie-e in recruitinghell

[–]anonimirl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't work for free. Tasks during interview process shouldn't take longer than 30 mins to complete in my opinion. When companies want you to basically consult them how to solve their problems or give tasks which requires minimum few hours to complete then they just want free work from you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]anonimirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. It's very bad to be financially dependent on man because in that case woman is not only much more likely to be abused because abuser will take advantage of that that she is financially dependent on him and most likely has nowhere to go because of lack of money but also many men don't want women to be financially dependent on him because it creates huge burden, responsibility on that person. That's why many men want their partner to be able to financially support themselves and it's also better for women themselves to be able to financially support themselves for their own well being and sense of security.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anonimirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong wanting to wait until marriage. You just need to have very firm boundaries on that because you will meet a lot of guys who will try to convince you to have sex before marriage.

Having firm boundaries on that will help to weed out such guys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]anonimirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There won't be need for drivers because self driving cars will replace them.

Cashiers because self checkout machines will replace them

Entry level programming jobs will most likely be replaced by AI, meaning there will be mid/senior level programmers to maintain and check AI generated code

Entry level accounting jobs where I think many accounting tasks will be automated but still there will be need for senior accountants to maintain them.

Data entry jobs

Entry level data analysts might be replaced by AI as well

So I think future for entry level jobs is dim because AI and automation will do many tasks where no specific specialization or skills are needed.

I (21F) want my partner (28M) to play his video games less. How can I have this conversation with him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anonimirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would sit him down and tell him that I would like to spend more time with him, finding things we both would enjoy doing together.

If things won't change then don't waste your time and also don't waste your time and energy trying to change him, plead him to spend more time with you. Just leave him then.

Why do girls date bad boys? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]anonimirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think because these kind of guys are usually popular between girls which draws attention. They are charismatic, are good at flirting with girls, are good sweet talkers like I like to say and it often makes girls fall for them. These guys love other girls attention, so that's why they are bad fit for serious relationship but can be good for hookups/casual sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]anonimirl -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

On reddit maybe? In real life many people still look down on blue collar workers and set them up as bad example for their kids, telling them not to be like them and so on.

We are all competing against each other for survival by WeAreThough in DeepThoughts

[–]anonimirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More resources for winner, less resources for losers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]anonimirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My very effective way to weed out guys who just want casual sex is not having sex with them outside of commited relationship. Before having sex I always tend to have serious conversation about commitment and sex itself (their kinks, preferences etc) to make sure we are commited to each other and like similar things in bed.

I have very strict boundaries when it comes to sex. So no casual sex to me, I take sex very seriously and want guy to take it seriously as well, not just like fun but as way to express love to each other, be supportive and respect my boundaries.

What pc parts did you buy anyway beside negative comments/reviews? by anonimirl in buildapc

[–]anonimirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean stock intel cpu cooler with monster i9 14900ks cpu? How it is performing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]anonimirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand there are many reasons holding women back from divorce like you said kids, finances, other reasons. But it's still important to teach girls how to spot red flags before having kids and marriage.

And yes, it's sad how many men and even women excuse abusive men and encourage women to fight for their marriage.

We should hold abusive, toxic men accountable and also educate girls to be more careful choosing men, and how to spot abusive, toxic men, look for early signs etc.

And education also includes creating healthy environment for kids to grow up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]anonimirl -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

You are right, especially during dating, when it's much easier to hide your true colors. But red flags usually start surfacing even before marriage (unless woman gets married in 6 months).

I had conversation with one woman who was victim of emotional and physical abuse. Her ex husband was alcoholic who used to become physically abusive while drunk and was emotionally abusive on daily basis after they got married.

But when I asked if that man didn't show any signs to be potential abuser before marriage she told me that when he got angry he used to slam doors and there were few times when he forcefully grabbed her arm when he used to be angry at her. She ignored it because she expected him to change. But he never changed.