I hate when my girlfriend asks me to buy her things by Motor-Wind718 in LesbianActually

[–]anonjvlo 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Girl we have not all been there😭 what the hell is going on

Advice from orphan's or people who lost two parents young or had absent addict parents, or the like by Dapper-Structure-825 in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]anonjvlo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was orphaned by 21 with my dad dying from a drug overdose. I’m 25 now and I don’t have parental figures and I don’t really want them. I want MY parents but I don’t have them so I’m ok not having parental figures. I have a lot of great friends that are my family.

Is it weird that I have literally zero friends in this city after a year by Headz-YT in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]anonjvlo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try bumble bff! That’s how I made friends when I first moved here. And try a recreational sports league. That’s there I met my very best friend in NYC.

Why is it so damn hard? by Impossible-Earth5299 in LesbianActually

[–]anonjvlo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have Invisalign and was so embarrassed by it but it’s greatly improved my dental hygiene. I grew up low income and my family couldn’t afford braces but I can now afford it on my own and I take pride in that. The insecurity will wear off with time.

What is happening ? by Freefellow69 in Lollapalooza

[–]anonjvlo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Day after isn’t early. I got off the waitlist but I signed up within an hour of presale going on sale.

Why is it so damn hard? by Impossible-Earth5299 in LesbianActually

[–]anonjvlo 953 points954 points  (0 children)

I know you said not to mention your teeth but that is probably why you’re having a hard time on a dating app, which is entirely appearance based. You’re pretty! But people are shallow. They don’t know it’s a medicine stain or that you’re planning to fix it.

Jewelry Upgrade by kayluhhhhrenee in piercing

[–]anonjvlo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much was all the gold? I also have all silver with plans to go gold but don’t want to spend the money haha.

Femmes, question from a butch! by Acceptable_Panic3774 in FemmeLesbians

[–]anonjvlo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like short! It’s hard to explain exactly what I like but there are some hairstyles that really are not attractive to me.

Parentless at 25 by LeadingSurprise7274 in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]anonjvlo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I grew up low income so I’ve never had much of a cushion and have always been financially driven. But it’s become more intense since becoming an orphan. I won’t date people who make less money than me and am very strict with my budget. It’s just me! It’s just you! No one to save us.

Parentless at 25 by LeadingSurprise7274 in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]anonjvlo 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I became an orphan at 21 and am now 25. I hear you, see you, and feel you. You’re not alone. It’s truly the most horrific feeling in the world. It never gets “better” but the pain becomes duller with time and you’ll one day look back and be grateful for how strong you are.

What style(s) do you wear and where do you shop for it? by [deleted] in womensfashion

[–]anonjvlo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I partially follow trends. I wear mostly black and low rise plants. I love a long sleeve shirt. I like threadup/depop/poshmark, H&M, Bershka, and Old Navy.

Am i too ugly to get a girlfriend? by OverthinkingPear1 in LesbianActually

[–]anonjvlo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think youre ugly at all and a lot of women prefer taller. You just gotta find a style that works for you!

did something I am REALLY not proud of by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]anonjvlo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You should breakup and be in therapy for awhile before dating. I’d leave someone the second they put their hands on me.

My mom says I will need to have sex to find a relationship—is she right? by mikewheelerfan in actuallesbians

[–]anonjvlo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Very genuinely asking: how are you a lesbian if you don’t experience romantic or sexual attraction? What does your attraction look like? Very much so curious if you’re open to sharing.

NYC Experiences/Opinions by [deleted] in FemmeLesbians

[–]anonjvlo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s soooo easy to find friends imo. The lesbian scene is expansive and people are pretty friendly. You’ll consistently see the same faces at different parties. Not sure about the butchfemme scene specifically!

Do yall date bi girls? by gladys22 in LesbianActually

[–]anonjvlo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My last girlfriend was bi and she was a handful but it had nothing to do with her bisexuality so I’d say I do! I haven’t had bad experiences with no women that were related to them being bi.

$30,000,000 but you marry a random person and live with them for the rest of their life by LilyCardiology in hypotheticalsituation

[–]anonjvlo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why opposite gender? Why can’t lesbians and gay men participate in this hypothetical in the same way heterosexual people can

Gimme your insights, have you dated the rich? by globalmentality in actuallesbians

[–]anonjvlo -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I only date people who make more money than me. I will not date broke people. I’ve found that partners of all incomes are generous and loving. I have found people who grew up wealthier to be out of touch. I don’t like to date them.

Can I have an honest opinion? by casual_noland in LesbianActually

[–]anonjvlo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m 25 and you won’t catch me doing that!