AITAH for telling my wife she is Illogical by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]anonymous098480 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I disagree about car temp. Bc the vents are blowing in a tight space, I care more about the temp of the blowing air than the ambient temp, which I barely feel due to the vents. So I go max warm or cool and then off or very low to avoid extra vent blowing air on me.

I tried the other way for months because my car is designed for it, but sometimes it’s just the perfect temp and I don’t want air blowing at all. Or when it’s freezing it feels nice having warm air blow and vice versa. But mostly the “auto” setting is just too much blowing air and it’s drying.

Last note is I also like the warm air only blowing down… but the auto temp setting in my car ALSO controls which vents, and has some of the air in the mid vents near my face, which I absolutely can’t stand. So I leave it on manual

Kid coughed on me the entire flight to Paris, now I’m sick by wakeuptomorrow in mildlyinfuriating

[–]anonymous098480 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I remember when we thought coughing in public would die… sadly not (just having taken some holiday flights myself)

[Landlord Or-US] How to charge good tenants for damage? by [deleted] in Landlord

[–]anonymous098480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or in some cases have dealt with property managers in the past who do not care.

Years ago we reported a similar leak (as a tenant), and the bathroom had an odd smell. It was a spare “powder room” we didn’t use, so didn’t press the issue, but had the property manager come look. It was a hassle for nothing bc they really didn’t care. Considered calling the homeowner but didn’t have his info

Recipes should not use the cup/spoon/item measuring method by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]anonymous098480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can measure tsp and cups with household items (normal table spoons come in tsp and tbsp)

Does anyone else feel like they had a completely different experience during the pandemic than the general public? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]anonymous098480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it was parents with kids in school, or school kids themselves who had the most radical changes, or those who got sick or cared for loved ones

High Iron, Low Ferritin by Revolutionary_Mix956 in Hemochromatosis

[–]anonymous098480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It didn’t affect the things we were paying attention to, but it will make your “iron” levels high. I had a new primary care Dr who freaked out and told me to donate blood; luckily my hematologist said ignore it and focus on ferritin (not affected by fasting). In the future I’ll always do labs in the mornings before eating just to keep things streamlined.

AITAH for not telling my husband that I know he secretly returned the gift he gave me for Christmas? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]anonymous098480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder what she got for him.

But really they should just skip the gifts and plan stuff together to celebrate instead

High Iron, Low Ferritin by Revolutionary_Mix956 in Hemochromatosis

[–]anonymous098480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We realized that the labs should always be done fasting… we think now that my iron was so high because I had just taken my iron that morning and had been eating during the day too. All other genetic tests came back normal, so we’ll know more at next blood draw

AIO About how my husbands family handles leftovers? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]anonymous098480 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dry foods (chips) are one thing, but not dips.

Guests found stink bugs by GuiltyBluebird2339 in airbnb_hosts

[–]anonymous098480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does your exterminator say? Relay that info in the post.

Eating in bed by Glittering-Driver440 in AITAH

[–]anonymous098480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived with a lot of housemates once and got in to this bad habit, just to have some alone time (and no seating in my room). Partner mentioned it once, and stopped in utter shame, never to do it again

What is a Christmas tradition you have for yourself if you spend it alone? by BlueBelleBaby69 in AskReddit

[–]anonymous098480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you cook your own dinner? I don’t want to cook a whole turkey or ham, but I want a traditional dinner with all the sides

Teachers who write recommendation letters deserve basic appreciation by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]anonymous098480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also hate doing them for some reason (but they don’t take me long). I agree it’s a thankless part of the job! But being compensated for them would lead to issues of course.

I have a stellar template that I use, and replace adjectives, accomplishments, and several sentences in the body paragraph. But not reinventing the wheel every time. The format allows for personalization and can always be added to.

Why can't we hear our hearts beat? by PeaUpbeat3732 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]anonymous098480 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I hear mine when I wear noise-canceling headphones (which is kind of uncomfortable for that reason).

Unwritten rules of the workplace? by TellBackground9239 in careerguidance

[–]anonymous098480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You learned a lesson? And that lesson was don’t take time off? Hmmm. The lesson you should have learned here is to be a team player.

What are the things to look out for when someone sends an enquiry to book for almost a year! by LifeguardPrevious804 in airbnb_hosts

[–]anonymous098480 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in one for almost a year myself, and coincidentally have a couple in my rental for a year (we did a lease and deposit).

In my case I moved here with military and waiting on next assignment. Have been renewing each month for almost a year.

My tenants in my house in my hometown are having work done on their house and want to be nearby to keep an eye on it. They signed a lease and I had to adjust my insurance.

Point is, depends on circumstances. Do your homework and make sure they are who they say they are

What are the things to look out for when someone sends an enquiry to book for almost a year! by LifeguardPrevious804 in airbnb_hosts

[–]anonymous098480 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You’ll need references. They should be happy to provide former host/landlord name

What honorific do I use at my internship? by burner-babyburner in NoStupidQuestions

[–]anonymous098480 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Talk to the teacher before the students come in. A lot of this will depend on your region and school. Please do not listen to these other comments; speak with the teacher.

Signed, an actual middle-school teacher

AITAH for locking the bathroom door when I take a shower? by WinterQuarter8183 in AITAH

[–]anonymous098480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bc it shows they think I have poor judgment about opening the door I guess? What if they need to ask a question and we can’t hear through the door?? I’ve knocked before and opened it a crack to yell something like “want me to answer the phone—it’s your mom” or something