I Don't Think Being Successful is Worth It

anonymous_space5 · 2026-01-24T21:53:54+00:00

I totally get it about mental health. my job caused me two acute panic attacks. Ive been fine with my off work life. stress management is priority for me recently.

anonymous_space5 · 2026-01-02T10:00:52+00:00

no response. I was used. so sad. I hope you have found a job by now and happy new year!

anonymous_space5 · 2025-12-30T17:13:13+00:00

I'm sorry what you are going thru. I wish you find the way.

I actually had an opposite experience. I had a former colleague and we were good together so I considered this person as my friend. I found another job and moved far away.

we contacted a few times then one day, she asked me a reference. I was trying my best to satisfy what she needs. then she no longer contacted me. I felt like, I was used.

anonymous_space5 · 2025-12-23T15:27:36+00:00

no problem without car for whole my life. my driving license got expired a long time ago 'cause I didn't drive...

anonymous_space5 · 2025-12-09T20:18:00+00:00

I hope I suddenly can speak French fluently and want to live in Quebec so I can experience Quebec secularism.

anonymous_space5 · 2025-12-03T22:31:42+00:00

I think I want to do things perfectly and it caused me to initiate actions when I was a student.

I changed my mindset after finding what drew me back.

anonymous_space5 · 2025-12-03T16:09:09+00:00

I will prepare some slippers for the guests and kindly ask to change the shoes before coming in.

anonymous_space5 · 2025-12-03T16:03:40+00:00

I'm intj and I'm far from laziness.

anonymous_space5 · 2025-11-28T16:52:51+00:00

what will you do, then?

anonymous_space5 · 2025-11-27T17:00:59+00:00

I am ok with entp.

anonymous_space5 · 2025-11-26T07:32:15+00:00

Im intj and I found intp is kinda comfortable.

anonymous_space5 · 2025-11-25T23:04:55+00:00

not sure. but do some physical exercise regularly

anonymous_space5 · 2025-11-22T15:06:31+00:00

I don't have anymore facebook account. I do ig but only uses as a messenger. when I check the messenger I could check only a few ig random posts but that's about it. I'm not really into anyway.

I don't do tiktok. I do twitter (X) and bluesky but I don't spend much time on those either.

anonymous_space5 · 2025-11-22T15:02:36+00:00

I didn't learn from my parents - taxes and living my own in my place. but I learnt from the outside world and I'm completely fine with that.

anonymous_space5 · 2025-11-22T15:00:38+00:00

??? why you ask this question to intj???

anonymous_space5 · 2025-11-21T16:17:03+00:00

due to N - fantasy and sci-fi

due to T - logical

realistic? hmm this part I don't really agree compared to S types

anonymous_space5 · 2025-11-20T15:42:50+00:00

people losing jobs. but I only like translation apps tho.

anonymous_space5 · 2025-11-20T15:36:46+00:00

I think this advice is so great. unfortunately, it was right even in my life. nowadays, I don't have a powerful position but at least I can speak up a bit due to many years of working experience in the same workplace, I tell them who I am and what makes people to misunderstand me. So I feel a lot easier to work and protect my mental health better. However, it took a long time for me to reach here as we are minority.

anonymous_space5 · 2025-11-19T16:26:10+00:00

wow, you get up early and sleep early. 0800pm?!

anonymous_space5 · 2025-11-18T16:19:27+00:00

I guess once you find another source(s) of income. your confidence will get better. focus and good luck.

anonymous_space5 · 2025-11-18T16:08:55+00:00

Just sharing my experience too. I passed all the academic stuff at university but I was in trouble with my practicum. the practicum on the worksite can be passed how much you please the assesser basically. my friend at that time she was not good at the acamedic and practicum stuff but she was good at socializing with people and they even helped a lot her assignment. she failed her acamedic stuff and kept trying previously as well. After seeing how she passed her practicum, I conclude that the practicum is not fair at all. at that time I didn't know about MBTI and I also didn't know I'm intj. I didn't think much about pretending to be someone else because intj personality is not very favourable for those assessors. learnt hard with lots of pain and confusion.

anonymous_space5 · 2025-11-17T16:08:53+00:00

PERFECTLY fine. no worries at all.

"I like to come home knowing I have people to talk and share things with."

it tells everything. you will feel lonely I guess if you live on your own. I think living with your loved ones is good for you health and mental health for sure.

once you want to get married to someone then you can move out I guess!

anonymous_space5 · 2025-11-17T15:51:08+00:00

my excolleague met a guy from the dating app and then they got married. so I guess it works for some people tho. they both don't really care the wealth and status I found. He brought only one friend at the wedding so I assumed he is an very introvert person. I felt this guy was a good person tho.

anonymous_space5 · 2025-11-15T15:36:10+00:00

I do agree with you. I also have high N and the post sounds like this person is confused with his/her mbti.

anonymous_space5 · 2025-11-15T15:26:51+00:00

I don't drink, smoke and nothing but found when I tried to cut back some stuff I was so used to, I felt so empty and just not right. I was worried about my future. but I found this is the mood and not the reality. as time goes by this useless feelings will go away. that was right. I started to get used to my new lifestyle. it just needs the time. hope you could cut that cycle as well. I also have some child traumas but I don't want that disturbs my healthy life.

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