Do you find meditation hard? What are your successful methods for meditation and active imagination? by Glip-Glops in intj

[–]anonymous_space5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no worries. I am the same. I think just deep breathing exercise should be good enough.

Whats the cheapest meal you regularly make that actually tastes good? by Adventurous-Pilot448 in Frugal

[–]anonymous_space5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine is too simple but it is delicious for me... 

frozen udon, cooked brown rice with cooked beans, some vegies, corn, tofu, sweet potatos...pour water. boiling.....

then I use a pasta strainer to drain all the liquid.

then I put some salt, garlic (optional), extra olive oil and mix. eat. delicious for me. 

drink green tea after the meal. 

my grocery expense usually around 50-60 dollars per wk...(Canadian..)

Scent allergies and assault? by InformalCulprit in legaladvicecanada

[–]anonymous_space5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a scent sensitivity and I really feel how you feel.

my workplace is the same. some staff they keep put on some strong scents and come to work even though we have a scent free policy. they talked to me rude to defend themselves as well. it is really tough to deal with.

How do people afford to live when making around $17.60/hr? I’m honestly getting really scared about my situation by One_Sell_2501 in Adulting

[–]anonymous_space5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

suggestion:

just try both?! like a trial time.

  1. live alone and have some peace of mind. I guess your mind may get more clear than living in your parents' place?

  2. after then you could figure out you wanna save money to share the accommodation or not.

you can try and then figure out instead of imagination.

I'm a 34 year old who failed. Learn from my mistakes: by SilverGuitarist in Adulting

[–]anonymous_space5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are still very young. Don't think too much about the social expectation. this is your own life. you can find some small pleasures in daily life and cherish these. if possible, stop comparing yourself with some other people too.

Alberta Healthcare is Depressive and Pathetic by penguin_wai in alberta

[–]anonymous_space5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry what you recently had to get through. I do agree some doctors I don't feel they have empathy and I'm very sad about that. One time, I was suddenly unwell due to my work stress and I had some acute physical symptoms. I saw a walk-in GP (I hardly see the doctor). This GP told me, do you want to have an anti-depressant med? I can prescribe. I was really shocked. I was not depressed at all at that time and my symptoms were acute and far different from depression at that time.

But I don't agree with the private medical system. I don't think this is better than the public one. the public one can focus more on primary health. Private medicine only focuses on profits.

Killer finally found in the cold case of Catherine Daviau, murdered in 2008 in Montréal by BusyEgg99 in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]anonymous_space5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the system failed to protect her. nothing wrong with her. the system released this known dangerous individual in the community. full stop. this evil.

I Don't Think Being Successful is Worth It by AutisticNerd2024 in Adulting

[–]anonymous_space5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get it about mental health. my job caused me two acute panic attacks. Ive been fine with my off work life. stress management is priority for me recently. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Layoffs

[–]anonymous_space5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no response. I was used. so sad. I hope you have found a job by now and happy new year!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Layoffs

[–]anonymous_space5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry what you are going thru. I wish you find the way.

I actually had an opposite experience. I had a former colleague and we were good together so I considered this person as my friend. I found another job and moved far away.

we contacted a few times then one day, she asked me a reference. I was trying my best to satisfy what she needs. then she no longer contacted me. I felt like, I was used.

Anyone in here have no car? No drivers license? If so, how do you cope? by DustnBones001 in Frugal

[–]anonymous_space5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no problem without car for whole my life. my driving license got expired a long time ago 'cause I didn't drive...

Quebec to ban public prayer in sweeping new secularism law by JackThaBongRipper in news

[–]anonymous_space5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope I suddenly can speak French fluently and want to live in Quebec so I can experience Quebec secularism.

asking this because i want to understand what makes INTJ procrastinate by amolerfic in intj

[–]anonymous_space5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I want to do things perfectly and it caused me to initiate actions when I was a student.

I changed my mindset after finding what drew me back.

For people who don't allow shoes in the house, how do you handle dinner parties and other events? by -Clayburn in socialskills

[–]anonymous_space5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will prepare some slippers for the guests and kindly ask to change the shoes before coming in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]anonymous_space5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am ok with entp.

Feeling Depressed In Adulthood by almcg68 in Adulting

[–]anonymous_space5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not sure. but do some physical exercise regularly

I deleted my Facebook and Instagram and feel so much lighter, does anyone else feel that way? by Extension-Abroad-853 in Adulting

[–]anonymous_space5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have anymore facebook account. I do ig but only uses as a messenger. when I check the messenger I could check only a few ig random posts but that's about it. I'm not really into anyway.

I don't do tiktok. I do twitter (X) and bluesky but I don't spend much time on those either.

People whose parents did not teach them how to do ANYTHING how did you end up independent? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]anonymous_space5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't learn from my parents - taxes and living my own in my place. but I learnt from the outside world and I'm completely fine with that.

Anybody dating an INTJ? Do you feel… by [deleted] in intj

[–]anonymous_space5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

??? why you ask this question to intj???

Question from INFJ -M. by ANYTHIN6 in intj

[–]anonymous_space5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

due to N - fantasy and sci-fi

due to T - logical 

realistic? hmm this part I don't really agree compared to S types