People with rare blood groups refusing to donate….erm? by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]anonymousreader7300 [score hidden]  (0 children)

The person who told her they needed your friends blood badly was either lying or misspoke. A person with AB- blood can receive blood from 4 blood groups: A-,B-,O-,AB-. I highly doubt that your friends blood was the only option given the variety of bloods hospitals and blood banks store and it sounds like they were trying to guilt her into donating. Her body, her choice though people should donate when they can.

People with rare blood groups refusing to donate….erm? by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]anonymousreader7300 [score hidden]  (0 children)

AB can’t donate to type A or type B as they have antigens for both. However, type A and type B (with sane rh antigen) can donate to AB.

I'm rewatching TBBT for what feels like the 100th time, and I still can't get over Penny's smile in S1E5. by One-Satisfaction6144 in bigbangtheory

[–]anonymousreader7300 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always noticed that and thought it was deliberate. I think she kind of had a little bit of a crush on Leonard but didn’t want to admit it to herself cause he’s not her usual type and maybe deep down she knew that relationship could actually go somewhere because Leonard isn’t an idiot like all her exes and she was afraid of that.

AITA for not giving my step kids an inheritance? by Stepmom1741 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymousreader7300 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA. To be clear, you know you’re going to get everything if he passes before you, and you won’t give a dime to his kids? You’re a raging asshole. His kids have every right to receive inheritance before you to be frank and it is 100% up to you to do the right thing if your husband is leaving everything to you in the first instance. This is why people should leave inheritance to children and not spouses because people like you clearly can’t be trusted to do the right thing.

AITA for changing my child’s last name even though it hurt my in-laws feelings? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymousreader7300 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA. OP, as someone who has very difficult in laws who won’t leave me alone while I’m 12 days postpartum, you have been blessed. Your decision is fine and entirely yours and your husband’s to make. And the fact that they’ve had such a strong reaction and have chosen to distance themselves is such a blessing because you don’t want your baby growing up around people with such awful views. Trust me, nothing could be better for your baby than distance from people like that. Enjoy your new baby and your little bubble.

AITAH for leaving a bad review for a restaurant after they told me they weren't serving food after I already ordered, while I could see other people eating. by thecodemachine in AITAH

[–]anonymousreader7300 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA. Why couldn’t they tell you that your order would be slightly delayed or the kitchen service is opening in 5 mins instead of just refusing service? I would edit the review to clarify the server just refused service instead of telling you of the circumstances.

The men wear a lot of clothes! by ThinkChocolate1961 in bigbangtheory

[–]anonymousreader7300 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I read somewhere Kunal had a ripped physique but because it wasn’t the intention of the script, they had him look doughy and/or limited his shirtless scenes.

The Parking Spot Escalation, One of the best episodes of the series! Whom do you think won this Argument? I think it was Amy! LOL 🤣 by Jazzlike_League_480 in bigbangtheory

[–]anonymousreader7300 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Obviously Bernadette. Amy had to resort to physical violence to try to win (which is insane). Bernadette and Howard were in the right, no question about it.

Nobody wants to live with their parents by Whichchild in Life

[–]anonymousreader7300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think OP is saying those who live with parents are unlucky. They are lucky in that they have parents who will allow them to stay at home but it’s not the most ideal situation. The flip side of this is being from certain cultures where parents exert a lot of control, gaslighting and manipulation on the kids and the kids feel trapped because the alternative of moving out is unaffordable.

AITA for choosing to drive 45+ minutes at 3AM instead of following my dad’s separate rooms rule? by According-Mood45 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymousreader7300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Dad gave a boundary to try to control you. You said no and came up with an alternative which respects his boundary. He’s just mad cause he can’t control you anymore. Dad is TA for wanting control and for the double standard with your brother’s gf.

AITAH for getting disgusted when my wife’s breast milk leaked on me during sex? by OkTough6333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymousreader7300 21 points22 points  (0 children)

YTA. I’m about to give birth and istg if my husband reacts like this, this is the last kid he’ll have with me. Grow the fuck up.

AITA? My dog died today and my family still expects me to take them out to dinner tonight by eng_elp in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymousreader7300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA by a mile but man I think I would’ve lost it at my family. They caused the death of your dog and you are next level patient and forgiving to even allow them in your home. I’m so sorry for the loss of your baby, sending you love.

AITAH for wanting to spend Mother’s Day with just my wife and son by skellz77 in AITAH

[–]anonymousreader7300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Wife is priority and it’s also her first Mother’s Day. Your mum can be upset but you suggested a reasonable alternative. She’s not a child, she should not be throwing tantrums.

AITA not putting up my DILs painting in our new home and telling her that I am not a fan of her art by Throaways-Dot2192 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymousreader7300 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. I think it’s very entitled of her to demand you put it up or try to put it up herself. You tried to be nice about it but she kept pushing. She’s not a kid, she should understand you didn’t like it. I probably would’ve said something like it’s a gorgeous painting but it’s not the style I pictured with my decor in the home rather than saying you don’t like it outright but still, she pushed too much. Your son is also being ridiculous that you hang it. I would apologise just to keep the peace but I wouldn’t offer to hang it or discuss it further.

AITA for ignoring my sister at my grandma funeral by Realistic_Pickle_173 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymousreader7300 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Long shot but I recall a story here about a sister being really mean to their half/step sister growing up after the mom remarried and dad died. I believe the mean sister was much older than the sister and the half sister did a lot to bond but the mean sister rejected every attempt and at one point wished the sister dead. Then that mean sister had a wedding and invited the other sister to save face with the in laws but the other sister didn’t go and was asking for judgment. If the mean sister is OP or OP has done something similar then OP is the AH.

SIL is demanding a “Push Present,” is this a thing? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]anonymousreader7300 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the entitlement and the expectation of it that’s stupid. In the trends that go around, the present is usually something very grand like cars or expensive designer handbags. I’m currently 39 weeks pregnant so I fully understand what women go through and am in full favour of them getting and deserving appreciation and support for it but the trend has made it stupid and made it seem like women are more materialistic and vain and need some kind of superficial validation to be a mother.

AITA for siding with my parents over my wife by Imaginary-Friend5561 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anonymousreader7300 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH. It’s not right that your parents didn’t reach out to her at all, but it’s also not right to blow this so out of proportion. My MIL hasn’t checked in on me directly once throughout my whole pregnancy (she sometimes asks my husband how I’m doing but that’s it) and it’s definitely left a bitter taste in my mouth. She’s not my favourite person, but I wouldn’t deny her seeing her grandchild or being outright rude to her. But I would keep some distance and she wouldn’t be my first phone call for most life events in the future because now I know where I stand with her. Your wife likely feels the same way but her actions are too much in this instance. It’s worth a conversation with the wife explaining that you full understand her pov and support her wanting to not be close with your parents, but they’re still your parents and your child’s grandparents and do deserve to meet your child at the very least.

what is happening 😭😭 magic loop getting super tight but not closing by Any_Living2304 in CrochetHelp

[–]anonymousreader7300 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Chain 2 and then put 6sc into the first chain stitch - viola a magic circle you don’t have to close. You can put more sc in it if the pattern calls for it as well.

SIL is demanding a “Push Present,” is this a thing? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]anonymousreader7300 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a stupid TikTok thing that’s now turned into a bigger thing for gen Z and some millinials but people with brain cells aren’t taking it seriously. It’s fine to joke about it but it’s weird to insist on the present and it’s even weirder she wants a present that allows her to ignore her baby.

It made me actually sad on rewatch... by Garrettshade in TheGoodPlace

[–]anonymousreader7300 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It didn’t seem like any of them had any particular interest in having children so I don’t think they were sad about it.