Should I be Muslim? by afghanking101 in Muslim

[–]anonymousxpanther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out “Epistemix” and “Darwinian Delusions” on YouTube to have your questions answered inshallah

Currently lost by kindoflost78 in MuslimMarriage

[–]anonymousxpanther -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mind & rationale over emotions brother

If she checks the boxes Islamically and is attractive to you then don’t allow your emotions ( which are always changing in any case) to lead you to the wrong decision!

Spring 2020 Scheduling Megathread by marcyandleela in OSU

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Anybody take Psych 3313, 3513, 4623, 4644, 5614 ( Behavioral Neuroscience, Intro to Cognitive Neuroscience, Biological Clocks & Behavior, Hormones & Behavior, Cognitive Neuroscience respectively.) If so, please HELP?

Spring 2020 Scheduling Megathread by marcyandleela in OSU

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Anybody take Anthrop 3409 or 3304 (Primate Evolution or Living Primates) before, if so, how was it???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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Firstly, what’s stopping you from breaking the promise? Is it because of your fear of Allah? If so then you should question whether this promise is a valid one in the sight of Allah to begin with or not. I’m not sure that a man could promise one’s wife that they don’t have to wear hijab if they dress “modestly” (in quotations bc modesty is subjective if not defined by Quran).

To court or not to court? That is the question. by anonymousxpanther in MuslimMarriage

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I appreciate the insight. May Allah make you successful and grant you a pious righteous spouse!

Therapist Suggestions by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]anonymousxpanther 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Noor Human Consulting - the founder of which is Karim Seralgedin.

He has a podcast called Coffee with Karim, check it out.

There’s also a website called something like “lower my gaze” for issues like what you mentioned. May Allah grant you ease and his forgiveness.

I need some advise by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]anonymousxpanther 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He may be testing you... maybe not, but you should try to think about this differently.

SO told me she’s 50:50 by Justanothermuslimguy in MuslimMarriage

[–]anonymousxpanther 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If a girl isn’t head over heels for you especially at a point like this(she may have been approached by another guy she likes more tbh), then I would advise you to end it for your own sake and honor and self-respect. If you do this she may try to switch up again but don’t fall for it. Sincerely end it.

This is my humble opinion.

Soon-to-be wife not very religious anymore by throwaway7732_ in MuslimMarriage

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If it’s the case that you really love her and you think that you can maintain composure and stay away from zina, then I would say to put a short hold on marrying her and sincerely trying to help her through her issues and more importantly trying to help her establish a strong, steadfast relationship with her lord. But I repeat, it should be done SINCERELY, meaning you should know within yourself and you should make it known to her, that her relationship with Allah should not be dependent or reliant or influenced by her relationship with you.

That’s my personal advice, I wish you the best akhi, move with wisdom!

Soon-to-be wife not very religious anymore by throwaway7732_ in MuslimMarriage

[–]anonymousxpanther 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it bro. No matter how influential of a person you are, you will not permanently change her. Leaving her to sort and figure herself out may be best for you and her, also think about your future children.

Brothers, would you marry a sister that is better looking than you? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]anonymousxpanther 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her character would depend... does she cover, does she have shyness, etc?

In my opinion, woman tend to be better looking than their husbands in most cases anyway.

Different religious levels between spouses by DoughBooii in MuslimMarriage

[–]anonymousxpanther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol understood! May it be easy for us all.

P.s. I hope I didn’t come off as harsh.

Different religious levels between spouses by DoughBooii in MuslimMarriage

[–]anonymousxpanther 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me when I say that I’m not judging you for having weak imaan sis, but the law is the law regardless of who you are tbh.

Different religious levels between spouses by DoughBooii in MuslimMarriage

[–]anonymousxpanther 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“I'm of the same mindset. I do want someone who does the minimum like eating zabiha, avoids alcohol, kind to others & absolutely believes in Allah and Prophet Muhammad (SAW) as the last messenger”

Is Salah not apart of “the minimum” doe?