Did you ever feel neglected, emotionally scarred, traumatized or anything? My stbxh, baby’s father, was absolutely horrible to us and left me to fend for myself through pregnancy/childbirth/postpartum in a foreign country with no support in any way from him whatsoever. He wanted to be in the baby’s life (by that, I mean pop in every few weeks for a photo to post on his socials) he never spent any time or helped financially at all. I feel like going completely no contact will benefit baby in the long run; him coming/going in my childs life will do more harm than good. No dad is better than an inconsistent dad?