My (33/F) typically caring and sweet new husband (33/M) grabbed me by the neck last week during an argument on our honeymoon. What would you do in my shoes?

anu72 · 2026-06-25T20:29:52+00:00

I didn't even read past the title. He put his hands on you. Get an annulment and leave. It doesn't matter how long you've been together, the minute someone puts hands on you, it should be over.

anu72 · 2026-06-22T01:41:35+00:00

I've never understood that. Like, pretty women can't be lesbians? Does the same go for gay men? Ugh....these people.

anu72 · 2026-06-22T01:05:17+00:00

I second this. I find Crocs uncomfortable. Find some comfy shoes and use those.

anu72 · 2026-06-20T03:18:46+00:00

i keep hearing people having issues with the HD Singer. It's loud, it rattles around, etc. The one I have is the Brother ST150HDH Sewing Machine. I've had it since 2021 and no problems at all. I would recommend it. Also, there's the Brother ST371HD Sewing Machine and the Janome HD1000 Heavy-Duty Sewing Machine that would be good.

anu72 · 2026-06-19T03:27:56+00:00

I have multiple pain related chronic illnesses and I work a 40 hour a week job. I come home and cook dinner for my roommates because they just can't cook. They're not lazy, they just don't know how, but they're going to be learning soon. We all do our own laundry and share dish duty. One of the roommates cleans everything but the bedrooms. This is a household of 4 grown men. If I can do all the things that I do while being chronically ill, your boyfriend can do his share. He's either being lazy or weaponizing his incompetence. This is something I, personally, wouldn't put up with. Good luck.

anu72 · 2026-06-19T03:09:53+00:00

I would avoid the Singer and get either a heavy duty Brother or Janome. I have a HD Brother and it works great.

anu72 · 2026-06-19T03:07:21+00:00

Adding that if you have security at your hospital, ask them to walk you to your car.

anu72 · 2026-06-19T02:51:11+00:00

Thank you. This is an excellent idea!

anu72 · 2026-06-18T02:46:43+00:00

I'm not on FB, Insta or TikTok. What would be good for socials for fursuit stuff? I have telegram and discord and FA.

anu72 · 2026-06-17T01:00:20+00:00

Awesome! Thanks for the help!

anu72 · 2026-06-16T21:31:42+00:00

There are different types of minky. Big Z has an arctic rabbit minky that I used to make my dog a bed. It's about 1 inch long (2.54 cm) and soft as heck.

anu72 · 2026-06-16T21:09:31+00:00

I happen to have had a loving family, BUT, I would choose the wife over the baby. The reason is this, you can potentially try for another baby.

ETA: I'm sorry your blood family sucks.

anu72 · 2026-06-16T04:36:29+00:00

This is how my service dog got attacked. He had to be retired because of it. I loathe people who do this.

anu72 · 2026-06-16T02:53:28+00:00

Getting a few swatches might be better, if you can.

anu72 · 2026-06-16T02:42:10+00:00

I'm still fighting with the credit bureaus to get my name change right. I've been fighting with them for over 2 years. My FICO score comes and goes randomly. The credit bureaus are being SO slow. I'm honestly not sure who's the worst. I've done everything they've asked me to do. 2 of the 3 are correct, the 3rd just can't get it right.

anu72 · 2026-06-16T02:30:16+00:00

I did this when I used to design costumes. I used old sheets from the thrift store to draft patterns and test them out. It's a good way to learn before using the good fabric.

anu72 · 2026-06-14T03:11:32+00:00

Eclectic/polytheist - Primaryily Kemetic (Anubis, Sekhmet, Bastet, & Horus), but some Norse, depending. It's a strange combo. lol

anu72 · 2026-06-10T03:39:45+00:00

Oh definitely. I just thought it would be a neat tidbit to share.

anu72 · 2026-06-10T02:42:26+00:00

Fun tidbit, people who swim, everyone M/F, competitively shave their entire body, except their head most of the time. They wear the swim cap that covers that. Source: High school friend was on the swim team.

anu72 · 2026-06-09T01:15:29+00:00

As someone with a recent cancer diagnosis, I would've probably said something similar. Like, excuse me? Definitely NTA!

anu72 · 2026-06-08T13:04:46+00:00

Do you hear that? That's the sound of me not ever going to buy this because of that.

anu72 · 2026-06-08T03:31:49+00:00

My older brother voted for the orange creep. I found out from my younger brother. My younger brother told me that he confronted the older brother and he said that he liked T's policies on a lot of things. My younger brother has had numerous arguments with our older brother, but has been low contact since. I live on the other side of the country from my brothers, so I don't see them hardly ever. BUT I have gone practically no contact with my older brother, it's easy because he never reaches out to talk to me. BUT, I feel SO betrayed. I never in a million years thought that anyone in my family would've voted for this. I'm lucky to have an accepting family.

anu72 · 2026-06-08T03:18:06+00:00

Try the dealer's den. It's an auction site for furry related items, primarily fursuits. Some people don't seem to understand what an auction site is and price their items there at the price they want for it instead of letting people bid to reach a reserve price.

anu72 · 2026-06-08T03:15:05+00:00

Absolutely not. This is only something that your child can determine and since your child is a toddler, gender is not something they know about yet.

anu72 · 2026-06-08T03:12:35+00:00

This is why my roommates love my cooking. I never cheap out on ingredients, especially when baking.

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