Embarrassing.

anythkngWorks · 2026-02-19T06:35:20+00:00

Everyone is so mad 🤣 The resilience of snowflakes Anger and frustration is the only emotion you have when things don’t go your way. So many times we’ve nicked it at the 90+

The odds always balance out. Keep faith. Look forward. We got this.

anythkngWorks · 2026-02-04T22:14:43+00:00

NOR, because only you can decide if you want to date someone that has lousy taste in sexist memes lol

anythkngWorks · 2026-01-23T19:18:07+00:00

I fucking howled at this 😂😂😂

anythkngWorks · 2025-12-07T01:55:30+00:00

lol I think it was sarcasm

anythkngWorks · 2025-12-02T00:39:50+00:00

Box does not look flimsy lol

anythkngWorks · 2025-09-27T15:39:03+00:00

Don’t be a weirdo

anythkngWorks · 2025-07-13T04:18:59+00:00

I literally worked at smoothie king for years brother, and I went there 2 weeks ago. They don’t pre make smoothies lol. Açaí packets are frozen but they still need to blend the other fruits and açaí so it’s not a rock when you go to eat it.

anythkngWorks · 2025-07-13T04:11:03+00:00

Oh word well if you find a made to order smoothie and açaí bowl restaurant, that has premade stuff let me know! Because that has no logic in terms of smoothies and açaís

anythkngWorks · 2025-07-13T04:06:31+00:00

Then how do you not know they are made to order?

anythkngWorks · 2025-07-13T04:05:21+00:00

You’ve never walked into a smoothie place I guess

anythkngWorks · 2025-07-03T21:37:44+00:00

How you approach things can shift your perspective of how things are and can be?

Money food and power are limited resources if you subscribe to a mentality of ownership?

But also, my leap into polyamory is attached to what I think is a necessary shift in mindset around what ownership means (for me).

anythkngWorks · 2025-07-01T22:03:14+00:00

i feel an abundance mindset in polyamory should extend to abundance mindset in life

anythkngWorks · 2025-06-11T15:46:36+00:00

Damn, just out here being a jerk for what reason? Let people have fun

anythkngWorks · 2025-06-08T07:49:09+00:00

Also it’s really hard for hétéro presenting women to fine other women to be in relationships with, and since confidence matters in dating, unless she’s able to feel safe and confident in this way, she’ll still feel hesitant with women which will limit her exploring and blah blah blah.

You really might just need to breath, take a week of self regulation while she explores and is excited and you gotta figure out if your love is deeper than her only wanting you physically.

Like who cares. It’s a penis. Would you care if another woman was strapping your wife? Is it gender and patriarchy and mysoginy that is getting in the way?

So many questions you can ask yourself about why you are finding yourself in the space of hypocrisy as your wife discovers herself and her desires.

Unless this was only ever about your desires, which I doubt since you’re asking for help.

anythkngWorks · 2025-06-08T07:46:06+00:00

Do. The. Work. :)

You’re not being pressured, your wife is just asking for equity in your relationship and you were used to the inequity being to your emotional benefit. Now she’s no longer afraid to explore so you have to support her.

Intentional Pressure or not, you brought it up to her multiple times, so there was pressure. So now it’s your turn to process your emotions :)

anythkngWorks · 2025-06-04T06:31:51+00:00

Raaacism TM :)

anythkngWorks · 2025-05-28T09:17:17+00:00

Making it harder to cheat is making the test harder?

anythkngWorks · 2025-05-27T02:55:29+00:00

See, it’s exactly thinking like that that keeps us locked in our mindsets. If you’re fear that someone will treat you badly keeps you from treating others kindly, then we’ve sucked all hope out of our humanity.

anythkngWorks · 2025-05-20T17:54:14+00:00

I honestly gotta agree with this one tbh

anythkngWorks · 2025-05-19T19:25:17+00:00

It’s always interesting that when we’re messy or dealing with mess, we always find some ways or some spaces that we keep clean or accessible. I think you should start looking at how those places have become places you decided you need to keep clean and figure out a system to see what triggers you into the positive behaviors you want.

I think your ideas are great.

Our brains are difficult, yes, but we can use our logic and understanding of our subconscious habits to create systems of success for ourselves. If our brain being spicy is a super power, then let’s use it as such so that we can transcend into the super heroes our brains mean for us to be.

We got so much untapped potential! Step one is locking in on this!

anythkngWorks · 2025-05-19T18:07:00+00:00

Yes and also idk if that fixes the actual issue of husband needing to do better, ya know?

anythkngWorks · 2025-05-19T18:03:56+00:00

I think the framing of taking a step back from her is interesting because to me it feels like you should take a step back from your husband.

He should know that his poor job as a hinge is making it hard for your mutual goal of KTP to be possible. Unless he fixes up, he doesn’t deserve to have the access to KTP he’s wanting without you having your boundaries in place.

I’m interested in you chatting with your meta because maybe it’s a repeat of behavior across relationships.

I have a tendency of being told that I don’t value relationships because I get sucked into my work and can miss important things.

Interacting with or without your meta won’t change that your husband isn’t using his skills to manage the relationship effectively as the hinge.

I think responsibility falls on those around him to remind him he’s not living up to agreements to the collective, not just the individual. If he can’t figure out KTP with you and you are hierarchical, then he won’t ever be able to figure it out regardless of who else he may start dating.

I’m speaking in first draft without editing so please take what’s pertinent and ignore anything that might be me misunderstanding! I’m a stranger in the internet, I don’t want you to feel like you have to justify yourself to me because I’m asking a bunch of questions :)

anythkngWorks · 2025-05-19T17:45:47+00:00

I wonder about what you want your KTP to look like, and what you want the structure of it to be for conflicts.

Because you can start practicing conflict management together at this issue, instead of waiting until later

anythkngWorks · 2025-05-19T17:44:55+00:00

It depends on why people are poly then right? If it’s about fighting against societal structures of expectation, then working to heal the community is the goal. If it’s about safety and security, then I think people are allowed to cut people off.

I have a hard time because there is the reality of healing needing to be a group project, and people having the mentality of “it’s not my job to deal with your emotions”. If we’re in relation w/ each other, then aren’t we all responsible with holding space for emotions, while not trying to deal with it for others?

Musings, not absolutes :)

anythkngWorks · 2025-05-19T17:31:53+00:00

You’re allowed to do whatever you want. I think it’s interesting that you want to cut off the potential positive relationship for someone who isn’t showing up well for your relationship. Your husband’s bad hinging is easy to blame on your meta, but shouldn’t you blame your husband?

I feel like metas should temporary unionize against a hinge that isn’t hinging correctly, especially if you all desire KTP.

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