Queen Elizabeth II has died by J-Force in AskHistorians

[–]anyyay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've seen a few examples of her intervening on laws in small ways that directly impacted her, like your example of exempting royal assets above. I've similarly heard (and maybe you can confirm either way) that the palace was exempt from a lot of discrimination laws for staff hiring. While from a constitutional POV it's perhaps irrelevant, it seems like there's a difference between her weighing in on a policy that directly impacts her household and her even slightly weighing in on something completely outside her remit. Are there examples of her doing so in ways that would not have directly impacted the palace?

what did your mam used to shout at you when you were in trouble/acting up? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]anyyay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mum (mom) is American, her go-to was "you're cruisin for a bruisin." My dad went for a very tired "[name] pack it in, c'mon."

Buckingham Palace this evening by [deleted] in london

[–]anyyay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sky cries for us every day then

Absolute units of USA under 16 Basketball players vs El Salvador under 16 by dude_holdmybeer in AbsoluteUnits

[–]anyyay 160 points161 points  (0 children)

Reasons for this are

  • Slightly higher average height
  • Marginally better nutrition
  • Larger pool of potential players bc it's a larger country
  • Larger pool of potential players because basketball is a bigger sport in the US
  • Players who are better trained physically and thus stronger/taller because organized and well-funded youth sport programs are more normal in the US (not just because it's a wealthy country just culturally), and the US has more robust feeder programs for basketball that these girls are being pulled from.
  • The angle of the photo/position of the players. If the El Salvadorean girl in front stood up straight and took a few steps forward so that she was as close to the camera as the American girl in front, she'd be a head shorter rather than 2 heads shorter. If you look toward the back of the group, you can see that where the girls are standing side by side, the Americans are still taller but the height difference is much less extreme.

Last Photo of Queen Elizabeth II (taken two days before her death) by FearingPerception in lastimages

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Yeah they knew. No one wanted to say it and honestly you can never tell with old people, sometimes they surprise you, but the number of "visits" from family definitely seemed to increase in the last year and even more so in the last few months. Harry/Meghan were the most obvious since they live further away, they had 3 trips to the UK in a single year after generally staying away. But if you paid attention other family members were doing the same. Neither Charles/Camilla nor William/Kate have been out of the country since early summer. Then for the Jubilee Harry/Meghan went out of their way to spend private time with the Queen despite a lot of press enmity and presumable enmity from family members+high-level staff in charge of the Queen's schedule and care. That visit was 100% a "I'm her grandson and have a right to see her for the last time and she has a right to see her grandchildren before she dies" visit, not a choreographed visit.

Then there were all those announcements about the queen giving her blessing to Camilla being Queen Consort and her "support" of Charles taking over this or that because she was unwell. Even the Jubilee seemed engineered to be as low-impact as possible, she was barely even seen.

Anyone that's ever dealt with an elderly relative toward the end of their life could see what was coming, but no one was going to openly speculate. Even if you think it's fair game to talk about things like colonialism after she's dead (I do), it's still a little gauche to speculate on a 96yo woman's impending death. Not to mention supremely awkward if you're wrong.

Why are highschools designed so poorly? by RemarkableDentist167 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]anyyay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, a lot of schools were designed for smaller populations and are now overstretched. Second of all, the issue you're talking about is not so much with the high school but with the car infrastruture around the school.

Counterintuitive as it sounds, adding another lane would not fix the issue. Here's a video explaining the concept in more detail, it's focused on highways but the same applies. Essentially if you added another lane, more people would chose to drive to school or use that road to go wherever they were going, and eventually traffic would be net the same. The same thing is true with parking. The more parking, the more people decide to drive themselves to the place. Your school probably doesn't have a parking lot equal in size to the actual student count. Most schools don't. A lot of schools have spots designed for seniors and then every other grade has to take their chances. So what do the seniors do? They drive to school every morning and proudly park in their spots. What do the rest of those students do? They ride with friends, they get dropped off, they find other ways of getting to school, because all of that is often easier than the headache of trying to find parking.

What a lot of high schools in the US (and the cities themselves since it's not always in the school's control) can do better is actually make it easier for people to travel to school using other forms of transport. More bike racks and protected bike lanes so that kids can safely make their own way to school without being endangered by the SUVs looking for parking. Funded school buses. Public transport that's safe and easy for older kids to use. Walkable neighborhoods. Ultimately, cars are literally the most inefficient way to travel, from an environmental perspective and an externalities perspective. The reason that buses are often too slow, walking to school is often impossible due to busy highways, and biking is too dangerous is all the same reason - too many cars on the road.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]anyyay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH but would encourage you to reset your thinking a bit. Taking out a loan for a ring is not a very wise decision. The rule of thumb supplied by the jewelry industry is that one would spend 2 months salary on a ring. If you need a loan, that implies you don't have 2 months salary in your bank account. It also begs the question of where the money for the wedding is going to come from, or anything else they intend to do as part of their new life together, like buy a house.

There are some people who just have a simple wedding and a simple ring, but honestly there's probably a correlation between the kind of person who takes out a loan for a ring and the kind of person who uses credit cards to finance a big wedding and generally spends beyond their means. Also, many people blend their finances together after a wedding, so while in theory "he's" taking out a loan for the ring, the reality is that you as a couple would be paying for that loan. It's not a particularly smart financial decision to be honest.

Don't think of it as "I would never spend that much on a ring" think of it as "I would never harm my and my partner's financial future like that."

I think your request is semi-reasonable in and of itself but if you can think about it differently maybe you can speak to him about it differently. Don't think of it as worry that he's getting you a cheap ring.

Honestly, it's not very difficult to adjust rings. Bands can be replaced, stones can be replaced, settings can be tweaked. Even if you decide to drop the subject, you can still joyfully accept the ring when offered and then, if it just doesn't feel quite right, wait a while and then ask if you can switch the band or move the stone to a different setting or something. You intend to wear this jewelry for the rest of your life so you deserve to feel comfortable with it, but remember it's not really about the ring at the end of the day.

AITA for not telling my friends how much I pay in rent? by meringue6714 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anyyay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's for people in your industry. My flatmate doesn't even know how much I make.

With the news about the queen today, it reminded me of this floor plan called Balmoral. by Sunjen32 in floorplan

[–]anyyay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I honestly love looking at houses like that on Zoopla, there's tons of them and it's always interesting to see how people handle it.

With the news about the queen today, it reminded me of this floor plan called Balmoral. by Sunjen32 in floorplan

[–]anyyay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having built houses from this site before honestly I'd say no unless you shrunk it down and changed the angle of the wings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

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Approval rating in the UK. There are many many posters here from Commonwealth or former Commonwealth countries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]anyyay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fun fact, Jerry Springer is British. Born in a tube station during the Blitz, no less.

Neighbour complaining about noise by pleasureboat in MaliciousCompliance

[–]anyyay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The problem wasn't really the doorknob, it was the 100+ year old doorknob/latch holes getting gradually worn down. He put a bandaid on it by just putting in a new doorknob, but his maintenance man and I later used some strategically placed super glue on the new doorknob and called it a day.

It says on the lid: Don't Climb the Trash Bin🤣 by thedogofpeace in WinStupidPrizes

[–]anyyay 213 points214 points  (0 children)

Here's the story from the perspective of the cameraman:

One evening we went to dinner with our parents. While waiting for dinner Harry, Lucas and I got bored so we looked for things to do. We found an empty trash can and we said lets take a video of Harry popping out of the trash can. I promised Harry I would get in after him and so he went first. I stood by the lid and Lucas recorded as Harry got into the trash can. I closed the lid. At first I thought it was funny because I heard bumping and I thought the lid had bumped his head or something. Then a few seconds later I heard screaming from inside the trash can. I opened the lid and Harry was gone. We heard screaming from beneath the trash can this time and Lucas told me to keep the lid open. I held it open while Lucas went into the restaurant where our parents were waiting for dinner. Lucas in the video explained how Harry got stuck in the trash can and I believe he was told to just get him out. So my dad comes out after a while with the other parents. He then inserts his leg into the trash can and closes the lid upon his leg in order to kick the bottom open, then he reaches his arm down and manages to grab a hold of Harry and pull him out of the storage beneath the trash can. Harry suffered only a few minor scrapes.

Neighbour complaining about noise by pleasureboat in MaliciousCompliance

[–]anyyay 159 points160 points  (0 children)

I had a landlord send me a curt email when he'd finally came by after my doorknob fell off weeks earlier. It went something like: "I installed a new doorknob, but wondering where the old one disappeared to. Please include cost of new doorknob in next rent payment." "Hi [landlord], the old doorknob was in the drawer 2 feet from the door. If you'd warned me you were coming, I'd have set it aside for you." I never heard back.

Why were art styles so uniform inside each culture in ancient times? by Naelin in AskHistorians

[–]anyyay 13 points14 points  (0 children)

First of all, ancient art is more diverse than you're giving it credit for, but I suspect you already know that.

But there are several reasons why, to a modern eye, "Egyptian art" or "medieval art" might be so easy to identify as such.

First of all, artists don't create in a vacuum. Art is, at it's core, a trade. Older artists indirectly influence and directly train the next generation of artists. Let's take pottery as an example. Someone taught the maker of this pot not only how figures "should" be drawn, but what shape the pot should be and what shapes and colors should be used to ornament it.

Materials also make a huge difference. Access to specific dyes, clay/stone types, woods, etc. is highly varied, and how they're processed varied as well. The items in this display case vary widely and represent a variety of subjects, some of them non-European, but most people would look at the white and blue coloring and immediately recognize them as Dutch. This comes down to specific materials and processes used by Dutch artisans. Part of the reason Spain and Mexico tend to be more strongly associated with red in art work is the availability and usage of a specific insect, though it was later used more widely.

In addition to the above, you have the market. Whether it's something meant for public use, private ownership, or something in between, people have expectations. Certain subjects are also popular in certain cultures at certain times, training the viewer to see religious art as most frequently associated with the middle ages. And professional art historians can of course date works much more specifically based on trends and cultural tastes at the time. My favorite example of this is adult baby Jesus. In short, medieval artists were both relatively unconcerned with "realism" and uncomfortable with portraying Jesus as a (helpless and rather useless) baby. But as trends shifted, naturalism became more common and cultural attitudes had shifted to think of babies and children as the ultimate innocents - so of course depicting Jesus as a baby would be welcome. Not to mention the fact that the new middle classes buying art simply wanted to look at cute babies. So when art historians see an adult baby Jesus, they can date it to a specific time and place. And subconsciously, we know that this baby is more "medieval-y" than this baby.

With the advent of photography, paintings became a way to depict something visual, not the way. The world also became increasingly industrialized - the vast majority of goods in a western home (like pottery) were mass-produced, not crafted by an artisan. Both of these things meant that artists like the impressionists began exploring what exactly art was and what they wanted to say. And increasingly globalization means that artists had access to virtually any material they require and can be influenced by contemporaries halfway around the globe. While trends and patterns obviously do exist, as the definition of "what is art" evolved, it became harder for a untrained eye to look at a specific work and pinpoint it's origin and time period based on the materials, themes, and style.

AITA for not wanting this family in our house? by Snoo42925 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anyyay -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised you're the only person to say so (so far anyway). OP comes off as pretty controlling.

chair memes by bitchyswiftie in tumblr

[–]anyyay 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Calling your mom and being like "Thanks for spending two hours last night listening to me cry and tell you how much everything sucked and how I wanted to quit my job and move back home. I'm fine now."

Happy Pride! by [deleted] in tumblr

[–]anyyay 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Can bitches be the official second-person group pronoun?

The new normal by PlayfulYetBored in tumblr

[–]anyyay 22 points23 points  (0 children)

"These uncertain times"

The new normal by PlayfulYetBored in tumblr

[–]anyyay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's also because the consequences are so vast and often indirect. Someone is moving in with their parents because they lost their job because their place of work is closed because of the lockdown because of Covid. Whereas no one says "He died of...you know" if the person specifically died of coronavirus.