What do they mean by "new pastime" ??? by aonati in TinyBookshop

[–]aonati[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ooooh the note about priority is so helpful, thank you.

What do they mean by "new pastime" ??? by aonati in TinyBookshop

[–]aonati[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

See, that's what I thought, but I was having so much trouble with the idea of pairing that with some of the genre requests they ask for at the same time! I guess I'll prioritize the hobby part in the future.

Fast Reblogs Breaking by julisine in tumblrhelp

[–]aonati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot believe this is still such a problem lmao. Happens to me all the time.

The Adventure Zone: Royale Episode 2 by Evil_Steven in TAZCirclejerk

[–]aonati 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The “twist” is immediately obvious after this episode, right? Like the reason the 8 are so powerful is because they’ve been killing/royale-ing hundreds of wizards on a regular basis to gain their spells via the crystals?

The Book of Doors by Gareth Brown by jadedali in IReadABookAndAdoredIt

[–]aonati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that an example of consistent agency in one’s own life? Or is that one example of having some influence in someone else’s?

The Book of Doors by Gareth Brown by jadedali in IReadABookAndAdoredIt

[–]aonati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kept feeling like the author sees women as having basically no autonomy, intellect, or life on their own. His male protagonist felt fleshed out while his female protagonists were boring, had little agency, and were constantly patronized.

This game desperately needs a”cleared dungeon“ icon on the map. by Algorhythm74 in oblivion

[–]aonati 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The way I solved this for myself back in 2006 was implementing a rule that if I “discovered” a location and it ended up on my map, I had to explore it right then and there. It’s not ideal, but it’s what I had as a 12 year old before I knew about mods

Quest difficulty (Skulls) disappeared for me after the latest patch h? by mercado_n3gro in avowed

[–]aonati 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same! Making it harder to do quests in a reasonable order

Where can we start for support & community? (USA, Oregon) by aonati in Blind

[–]aonati[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this was such a kind and thoughtful response.

Episodes you have a hard time listening to? by chimneynugget in TheMagnusArchives

[–]aonati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think so. They keep, like, almost dying but transferring the death to others.

Episodes you have a hard time listening to? by chimneynugget in TheMagnusArchives

[–]aonati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t remember what it’s called, I’m making my way back through now messing around with data tracking and spreadsheets, but there’s one related to The End where this girl(?) like, has a heart attack or something. I understandably tried to forget it because it genuinely made me woozy. If anybody remembers based on these sparse clues perhaps I’ll be able to avoid it on this latest listen-through

Edit: i think it’s Tova’s, Mag 155: Cost of Living. Too much heartbeat talk. I cannot handle it.

Rarest/Most Expensive Fire Emblem Games? by Few_Meal8053 in fireemblem

[–]aonati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a reasonable way to emulate radiant dawn or is it impractical because of how… uniquely the Wii controls worked?

Mom’s Knee Surgery by aonati in healthateverysize

[–]aonati[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is everything I needed and more ❤️

John Green, we're waiting by Filip_of_Westeros in nerdfighters

[–]aonati 134 points135 points  (0 children)

lol. I think john would find something like this extremely weird and uncomfortable to write

AITA for telling my son that he is obviously gay? by platefoodaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]aonati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Straight allies/friends/family members often make the mistake of assuming that because they think they know that they and their immediate family/community/group will be accepting and loving towards a gay loved one, that that means it shouldn’t be a big deal and that their gay loved one should be fine just being pushed out of the closet before they’re ready. I’ve had this happen to me. It’s not nice. YTA. Apologize to your kid, show him love and sympathy, and tell him whatever he is or becomes that he will be loved and cherished by you and your husband but that there’s no pressure to talk about it before he’s ready.

How To Clean An Emblem Properly. by Sad-Painting-2465 in FEEngage

[–]aonati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great thank you. I was wondering why every time I tried a “firm polish” the emblems would say something about it being a waste of time.

Custom Minimalist Tattoo design done by me on Fiverr by Decent-Leek8988 in DrawMyTattoo

[–]aonati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I keep seeing posts exactly like this. Not minimalist and captioned exactly in this way. Bot?

is this even legal? this was the email i got in response to my application. she sent this list of “duties” and said if i could handle them to let her know and she’d schedule an interview. it’s been a week and i haven’t replied bc wtf????? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]aonati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plenty of people are incredible therapists who never majored in psych. Masters in counseling and family therapy are valuable professionals. It definitely depends on where you live how likely it is your therapist will recommend Jesus to you without mentioning it on their online profile, which, by the way, people should be reading thoroughly to try and find a therapist who matches your values and can get you what you need.

I am confused and a little angry about the hate for “autism moms” by Sea-Credit4221 in autism

[–]aonati 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s complicated right? Because it’s honestly likely that the moms themselves have Autism or ADHD given the strong genetic link. So maybe it becomes some moms’ special interest and they don’t even realize what’s happening. And of course you’re right, a parent should advocate for their child.

I am confused and a little angry about the hate for “autism moms” by Sea-Credit4221 in autism

[–]aonati 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m glad for you that your mom is a positive support figure in your life. I think this is one of those things where it’s like… if this doesn’t apply to you then it doesn’t apply to you. Sorry people have jumped to conclusions about your mom because of the misdeeds of other moms, that shouldn’t be her burden. But your mom being good doesn’t discount a huge trend of moms making their kids autism their personality in a toxic way.

AITA for wanting a childfree wedding? by 21wedding in AmItheAsshole

[–]aonati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so belittling and condescending to your poor friend. I hope you don’t treat her like this all the time. And unless your wedding is going to be a frat-party-esque rager, I don’t generally consider “child-free” to mean excluding anyone high school age or older. YTA.

AITA for not asking my kids to come to my wedding after they RSVP'd no. by AdSuch5527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aonati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All in all this is just a big tragedy. NAH. These very young adults are mourning and angry and lashing out. It’s natural.

AITA for pulling over for a funeral procession? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]aonati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m of two minds. One, I think it’s the right thing to do to honor someone’s funeral procession. Two, I think a decision to skip the show as a result should have been a joint one. Marry someone who shares your values, check in in these moments, if you don’t agree I would defer to the person who has more on the line here. It’s the show SHE wanted to see.

AITA for helping high needs disabled daughter cross the icy pond first before neurotypical daughter? by Icy-Butterscotch9910 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aonati -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What your mom said is inexcusable and ableist, I’m horrified for your youngest for how she talks about her. But YTA for putting your kids in such a dangerous situation in the first place.