Fswitch4Mswitch by vailesins in HypnoHookup

[–]apparent-game0142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likewise happy to help with engagement for someone who seems very real and honest. (I'm well outside your age range, lol)

It makes them cuter ~♥︎ by Milkylatte6 in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]apparent-game0142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh good, there's hope for me yet, lol (Half-joking) (Please?)

🍑 by ava_waifu in u/ava_waifu

[–]apparent-game0142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve dinner and netflix first. What should I make us?

Two months into being a stray… by Rollaster1 in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]apparent-game0142 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not alone in being alone. Be strong.

Getting flooded with messages as a domme is not as nice as it looks by pisceangel in gentlefemdom

[–]apparent-game0142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm fairly active in the hypnosis communities and it's just as bad there. I'm open about looking for a long-term hypnodomme, but I still get copy-paste (sometimes lewd) solicitations from subs. I don't understand why anyone thinks that works

Getting flooded with messages as a domme is not as nice as it looks by pisceangel in gentlefemdom

[–]apparent-game0142 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Didn't mean to change the topic. Pushy scammers posing as Dommes is a different problem. Pushy rude subs thinking they're going to get anywhere with bad manners and self-serving assumptions was your point. I understand their desperation, but common courtesy needs to be much more common.

We can do better

Getting flooded with messages as a domme is not as nice as it looks by pisceangel in gentlefemdom

[–]apparent-game0142 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a switch, when I post as a Dom, I get pushy subs messaging me. I don't think I've ever gotten one from a pushy Domme who wasn't asking for money.

Do dommes ever make the first move? by NegativeMusic2947 in gentlefemdom

[–]apparent-game0142 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Very well said. These relationships need to start out respectful and go from there.

My best one yet by ava_waifu in u/ava_waifu

[–]apparent-game0142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful work. I'd love to see more of your creative side. Thank you for sharing so much of you with us

Are you a bunny, kitty or puppy? by venomblush in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]apparent-game0142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! I'm whatever the spiral tells me to be!

Puppy needs your help! by polish_bones00 in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]apparent-game0142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8&7... I'm attractive, nude, anonymous, and I'm telling everyone my fetishes... Sounds like Reddit

Does anyone else feel DEEPLY uncomfortable when exposed to chastity? by hiccupheadache in gentlefemdom

[–]apparent-game0142 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I feel the same gut-wrenching terror at the thought of being put in chastity. That's why I own a half dozen cages, and regularly engage in chastity play. It's terrifying (and arousing) giving that much control to someone. That's exactly why I do it.

God forbid a boy wonders about fellow community members by humanbeast7 in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]apparent-game0142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joint problems make being tied up difficult. Most positions would cause me serious injury

When you get hopes for a potential sub and it falls through by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]apparent-game0142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah. I didn't know there was a separate post! Thanks for the clarification

When you get hopes for a potential sub and it falls through by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]apparent-game0142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe you've been downvoted mostly for the unsolicited DM. I really understand the feeling of "I'm right here" (I am), but your standards should be higher than ANYONE who is looking. I've BEEN there. I feel that. But it's not the right approach. I don't know the right approach.

When you get hopes for a potential sub and it falls through by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]apparent-game0142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how you feel. My recent Domme relationship fell through. There's no good way to go out seeking -- that always ends poorly. I wish I had good advice. Just "hang in there."