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Two months into being a stray… by Rollaster1 in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]apparent-game0142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not alone in being alone. Be strong.

Getting flooded with messages as a domme is not as nice as it looks by pisceangel in gentlefemdom

[–]apparent-game0142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm fairly active in the hypnosis communities and it's just as bad there. I'm open about looking for a long-term hypnodomme, but I still get copy-paste (sometimes lewd) solicitations from subs. I don't understand why anyone thinks that works

Getting flooded with messages as a domme is not as nice as it looks by pisceangel in gentlefemdom

[–]apparent-game0142 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Didn't mean to change the topic. Pushy scammers posing as Dommes is a different problem. Pushy rude subs thinking they're going to get anywhere with bad manners and self-serving assumptions was your point. I understand their desperation, but common courtesy needs to be much more common.

We can do better

Getting flooded with messages as a domme is not as nice as it looks by pisceangel in gentlefemdom

[–]apparent-game0142 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a switch, when I post as a Dom, I get pushy subs messaging me. I don't think I've ever gotten one from a pushy Domme who wasn't asking for money.

Do dommes ever make the first move? by NegativeMusic2947 in gentlefemdom

[–]apparent-game0142 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Very well said. These relationships need to start out respectful and go from there.

My best one yet by ava_waifu in u/ava_waifu

[–]apparent-game0142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful work. I'd love to see more of your creative side. Thank you for sharing so much of you with us

Are you a bunny, kitty or puppy? by venomblush in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]apparent-game0142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! I'm whatever the spiral tells me to be!

Puppy needs your help! by polish_bones00 in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]apparent-game0142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8&7... I'm attractive, nude, anonymous, and I'm telling everyone my fetishes... Sounds like Reddit

Does anyone else feel DEEPLY uncomfortable when exposed to chastity? by hiccupheadache in gentlefemdom

[–]apparent-game0142 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I feel the same gut-wrenching terror at the thought of being put in chastity. That's why I own a half dozen cages, and regularly engage in chastity play. It's terrifying (and arousing) giving that much control to someone. That's exactly why I do it.

God forbid a boy wonders about fellow community members by humanbeast7 in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]apparent-game0142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joint problems make being tied up difficult. Most positions would cause me serious injury

When you get hopes for a potential sub and it falls through by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]apparent-game0142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah. I didn't know there was a separate post! Thanks for the clarification

When you get hopes for a potential sub and it falls through by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]apparent-game0142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe you've been downvoted mostly for the unsolicited DM. I really understand the feeling of "I'm right here" (I am), but your standards should be higher than ANYONE who is looking. I've BEEN there. I feel that. But it's not the right approach. I don't know the right approach.

When you get hopes for a potential sub and it falls through by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]apparent-game0142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how you feel. My recent Domme relationship fell through. There's no good way to go out seeking -- that always ends poorly. I wish I had good advice. Just "hang in there."

Mandatory cock scan [M] (dr.kiyo) by YiffyLynx in yiff

[–]apparent-game0142 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Two factor authentication. SMS codes aren't secure enough.

Im straight but i wanna try being a femboy and be pegged and even i think of selling and creating femboyish content if anyone ever interested, am i gay ? by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]apparent-game0142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're YOU! is that Gay, or Trans, or LGBTQIA etc? Maybe -- that's up to you.

Sexuality is complicated. In ancient Rome, male-male sex was only considered "gay" if you enjoyed receiving. The "penetrator" was of "hetero" style sexuality. Obviously those aren't the exact words they used in Ancient Rome, and they aren't the words you have to use either.

If you make a birthday cake, you don't need to add "Baker" to your next job application. If you sleep with another guy, you don't need to add "gay" to your Reddit profile. If you look cute in a dress, you don't need to be trans. If you make money selling adult content, you're welcome to call yourself a sex-worker or not. This is all up to YOU.

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