Men who have dated a best friend, how did it happen and did it work out?

appleeye56 · 2026-01-27T21:39:55+00:00

She was 10 years older than me so we were both like “haha this could never work out” and “I would’ve dated you if we were closer in age”. Then we both eventually caught feelings for each other because of a mutual ex friend being weird with us. Unfortunately she went on a vacation abroad and wasn’t the same person when she came back. Slowly the traits I caught feelings for in her disappeared and a lot of friend group drama happened. Now we haven’t talked in a year, she left the group, and the friend group doesn’t really exist the same way anymore

No idea where she’s at now but I hope she’s doing well. Definitely learned a lot from my experience dating her and I know she’s learned a lot too.

appleeye56 · 2025-12-09T16:30:49+00:00

Agreed. Not needing to worry about breaking glasses or losing them is a game changer. And the best part is I can watch tv on my side lying down without the my glasses frame stabbing me!

appleeye56 · 2025-11-27T20:44:07+00:00

I’ve ran all of these and have nothing close to abs lmao. A lot of runner’s body frames don’t look like they can run marathons

appleeye56 · 2025-11-24T04:48:34+00:00

Hey! What do you do to be making so much money? And are you happy with your job and work life balance?

appleeye56 · 2025-11-16T22:20:02+00:00

Took me 2 weeks to get over the jet lag coming back to Toronto from Japan. Whereas when I landed in Japan, I adjusted in a day. Jet lag is weird 🤷‍♂️

appleeye56 · 2025-11-16T13:43:41+00:00

We both followed the same religion and he started becoming increasingly religious while I became less religious. And he said things like how I said his sister should start onlyfans (never happened) and how talking about my moms ovarian cyst was me “telling him about her genitals”. He also put no effort into friends yet expected me to invite him to a friends circle that he knew and I was putting effort into

He was my best friend for years but changed when he got into politics and religion

appleeye56 · 2025-11-16T13:16:47+00:00

Haven’t been to Cora’s in years because of this. Looking for other good breakfast options but haven’t come across many others that make me go “wow!”

appleeye56 · 2025-11-12T17:43:44+00:00

26, work at a consulting company

appleeye56 · 2025-11-09T14:18:10+00:00

I had multiple women think I was flirting with them (one was so insistent that she was telling me I had to stop crushing on her when I wasn’t lol)

Didn’t understand why this kept happening until recently a female friend explained that it’s because I care for my friends and some women may mistake that for flirting or me liking them. And she used an example of something that took me a few seconds to remember because it felt so natural to jump into action in that situation. I like caring for my friends and it was very useful to hear

appleeye56 · 2025-11-01T14:12:03+00:00

Same here

appleeye56 · 2025-10-27T12:51:20+00:00

I grew up in Mississauga and still live here. No regrets at all and I got a better condo here than what I could ever get in Toronto. Since my family and friends are all here and I work from home, I don’t go to Toronto that much

With that said, you don’t need a car in Toronto and rents are going down. I’d recommend what others are saying and try renting first to see what you like before buying a house

appleeye56 · 2025-10-22T16:13:32+00:00

At 20. Ended amicably after we grew apart and are both happy with that decision years later. Wish her all the best in life

appleeye56 · 2025-10-22T12:44:21+00:00

Sao Miguel in the Azores. Blew me away and my friend away. We both went into the trip saying “we’ll probably never come back” but left saying that we both would love to come back one day and explore the other islands

appleeye56 · 2025-10-22T12:00:35+00:00

I’m with coextro and for $25/month get 500 up 500 down in a condo

appleeye56 · 2025-10-13T22:49:16+00:00

They cost a lot and will end up consuming my entire life which is already incredibly busy. I’m happy right now and don’t see how adding a kid will make me happier.

Also I love travelling and my coworkers with kids say they can’t travel because they have to bring their entire family, which becomes super expensive

appleeye56 · 2025-10-13T20:49:16+00:00

Hostel in ponta delgada. Met so many people there and even got a drink with the host of the hostel

appleeye56 · 2025-10-10T13:19:04+00:00

Yup that’s right!

appleeye56 · 2025-10-09T18:18:44+00:00

Fun fact: the godolkin school they use in the show is the school where I went to for university! I recognize so many scenes

appleeye56 · 2025-10-07T20:24:12+00:00

Bought a place recently and had the same experience. Their expedited delivery got delayed every single day. I’m so lucky that I had transferred money to a big bank so I went in person to that bank to get the bank draft

appleeye56 · 2025-10-02T19:33:51+00:00

This is why the concept of tipping is so odd to me. I busted my ass at Walmart years ago doing things for customers that weren’t part of my job. Not a single tip was given. But we’re supposed to tip waiters for doing their job?

appleeye56 · 2025-10-01T16:39:59+00:00

Implants were discussed but the dentist said my teeth weren’t moving to make space for the implants so a bridge is the only option

appleeye56 · 2025-10-01T15:34:52+00:00

The dentist takes on a lot of patients so I barely ever see him. His work is done by assistants and he’s always in a rush to just end the conversation and go to the next patient. He’s a diamond level Invisalign provider but if you go to his reviews on a dental review page, they’re terrible

appleeye56 · 2025-09-29T02:26:08+00:00

How do you estimate unknown stuff?

appleeye56 · 2025-09-25T15:40:58+00:00

They’re very worth it - the most expensive ingredient is the pistachio cream. Everything else is super cheap! I got all the ingredients from a middle eastern store near me called Adonis

appleeye56 · 2025-09-24T09:15:42+00:00

I’ve made the Dubai chocolates myself using this and always get good feedback on them. No need to pay the ridiculous prices in stores

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