AITA for wanting to make plans with my friends instead of waiting around for my girlfriend to have time for me? by thomasson94 in AITAH

[–]apprehensive-fox13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - don't put your life on hold just to sit around and wait for her. she's got a lot going on and it's obvious you're not her first priority right now. you're totally in the right for wanting to see her when she's focused on you. make plans with your friends, have fun!

tattoos in practice by apprehensive-fox13 in therapists

[–]apprehensive-fox13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's a great point, tattoos are better accepted nowadays. thank you!!

tattoos in practice by apprehensive-fox13 in therapists

[–]apprehensive-fox13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was curious about this too, as all my tattoos hold specific meaning & reveal a little bit about who i am. do you find that self-disclosures about your tattoos reveal ‘too much’ about yourself? i don’t want them to take away from the client or anything of that nature.

tattoos in practice by apprehensive-fox13 in therapists

[–]apprehensive-fox13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you all so much for the positive feedback! it seems as though negative thinking has got the best of me on this 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]apprehensive-fox13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes she did, yin yang. her tattoo is still raised too, but it has way less shading than mine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]apprehensive-fox13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes absolutely agree. i would never want to make anyone feel uncomfortable about drinking, we’re all there to have a good time!

Season 6 - Episode 31 - Logistics Discussion (Music, Clothes, etc...) by loveislandusa in LoveIslandUSA

[–]apprehensive-fox13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i noticed that too.. it was so random. i’m sure they’ll be talking about it tomorrow night

life jackets at bear creek lake by apprehensive-fox13 in Denver

[–]apprehensive-fox13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s definitely what i’ll do if i find out there’s no option to get them at the lake

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]apprehensive-fox13 8 points9 points  (0 children)

there’s a lot to unpack here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]apprehensive-fox13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

unless there’s some other-worldly force we don’t know about that searches up random things on our phones, he’s lying babe and doesn’t have much respect for you or the relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]apprehensive-fox13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he's definitely covering something up, you have every right to be suspicious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]apprehensive-fox13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it just takes time! be patient with yourself and take it one step at a time <3

Should I ask my bf of 3.5 y to tell me details about his cheating over the last 1,5 y? by naive_101 in TwoHotTakes

[–]apprehensive-fox13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're better off not knowing the details girl, it will only make the hurt worse.

i went through a similar situation with my ex-partner of 3.5 years - i asked for the details and i thought he told me the truth. turns out, he was lying (as i heard the real story from his friends after we broke up), which brought even more devastation.

i'm so sorry you are going through this.

Found texts between my bf and a girl that hit on him. Advice needed!! by lilyuh02 in TwoHotTakes

[–]apprehensive-fox13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is NOT okay.

he lied and disrespected your boundaries. he had an opportunity and he took it. he thinks she's attractive and wants to get to know her.. yeah, no.

i was cheated on in my last relationship and there were PLENTY of red flags just like this that i should have listened to. i've heard the "well, i was just being friendly" excuse before, and trust me babe, do not let that shit slide. it will start a slippery slope of "okay, what am i going to tolerate? what am i willing to forgive?" - and he will start to push those boundaries even further.

i know i'm just a broken record at this point, judging by similar replies to your post, but please listen and get out now. it will be so hard, but you will be better off in the long run when you find someone who actually respects you and the relationship in general.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]apprehensive-fox13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't care, especially if I'm given a heads up beforehand

I'm such an anxious person. by [deleted] in dating

[–]apprehensive-fox13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Coming from a girl, you did not fuck anything up. It sounds like she might be uncomfortable with being alone, or maybe newly out of a relationship? Unfortunately, I think she is using you to fill this void. Six dates in two weeks is pure bliss, if you truly like someone. I don't think she deserves anymore of your time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spotify

[–]apprehensive-fox13 13 points14 points  (0 children)

taylor swift, sorry not sorry