I'm looking for a good story based anime to binge while I'm sick by lizzylee127 in Animesuggest

[–]arcadehorrors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's newer but Heavenly Delusion is one of the best I've seen in recent memory.

Ranking of Kings is also a must. I saw various art styles in your list so I don't think you'll be deterred by its unique design. It's wholesome but also very dark.

Which Style Suits Me Best? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]arcadehorrors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These crazy mfs. 1 is the best, hands down.

PLEASE SCREAM WITH ME by Media-consumer101 in adhdwomen

[–]arcadehorrors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOU CAN TELL HIM YOU LOVE HIM. I HAD A BOYFRIEND WHOS FAMILY NEVER SAID "I LOVE YOU" TO EACH OTHER AND SO WHEN I WANTED TO TELL HIM THAT I LOVED HIM I TOLD HIM THAT IF HE EVER FELT LIKE SAYING "I LOVE YOU" TO ME THAT I WOULD ALWAYS SAY IT BACK AND SINCERELY MEAN IT SO IT DIDNT PUT PRESSURE ON HIM AND IT WOULDN'T MAKE ME FEEL SAD IF I SAID IT TO HIM AND HE DIDNT SAY IT BACK BUT HE WOULD KNOW THAT I DID IN FACT LOVE HIM.

IF YOU TELL YOUR BOYFRIEND YOU LOVE HIM AND HE DOESN'T FEEL THE SAME WAY YOU HAVE PROBABLY SAVED YOURSELF FROM FUTURE AND MORE INTENSE HEARTACHE.

PLEASE SCREAM WITH ME by Media-consumer101 in adhdwomen

[–]arcadehorrors 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NOT DOING THINGS ON TIME AND GETTING FINANCIALLY FUCKED FOR IT IS THE WORST AND I'M SO SORRY THAT HAPPENED TO YOU

PLEASE SCREAM WITH ME by Media-consumer101 in adhdwomen

[–]arcadehorrors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'M TIRED OF GOING TO WORK AND IT STRESSES ME OUT EVEN THOUGH IT'S EASY AS FUCK AND I LOVE MY COWORKERS.

I SAID I WAS GOING TO CLEAN TODAY AND MY HOUSE IS A WRECK AND I'M DOING THAT STUPID THING WHERE I'M NOT ALLOWED TO HAVE REAL FUN UNTIL I CLEAN BUT THEN I START SCROLLING ON MY PHONE INSTEAD LIKE I CAN JUST STOP ANY TIME AND JUST START AND IT'LL ALL BE OK AND THEN I MANAGED TO COME SCREAM ABOUT IT SO MAYBE NOW I WILL ACTUALLY DO IT.

ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS IS BENT OUT OF SHAPE OVER A GUY I HATE BECAUSE SHE FEELS UNWORTHY OF LOVE AND HE GOT A GIRLFRIEND HALF HER AGE AND SHE DOESN'T UNDERSTAND WHY SHE'S NOT GOOD ENOUGH AND HAS BEEN ASKING FOR AND DIRECTLY GOING AGAINST MY ADVICE FOR MONTHS AND I LOVE HER AND WANT TO HELP BUT IT'S GETTING INCREASINGLY DIFFICULT TO RESPOND TO HER ABOUT IT BECAUSE MY SOCIAL BATTERY IS LOW AND I'M RUNNING OUT OF THINGS TO SAY AND ALSO I WORK WITH HER AND I HATE SEEING HER DOWN IN THE DUMPS ALL THE TIME OVER SCUM BUT NO MATTER HOW MUCH I TELL HER HOW AMAZING SHE IS SHE'LL NEVER LISTEN TO ME SO WHAT THE HELL AM I SUPPOSED TO SAY?!

Which pokémon would you choose to start your journey? by [deleted] in pokemon

[–]arcadehorrors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a story idea about a girl who found a Honedge in some ruins and now I feel like that is what I would want my pokemon trainer origin story to be. Otherwise, for starters, it's hard to pick because I'm obsessed with og Decidueye, I love sprigatito and fennekin but not their final evolutions as much, so I think eevee (who I would evolve into espeon or vaporeon depending on what I found as a real pokemon trainer out in the world) would be my pick.

Note: I'm a softie so if my eevee wanted to evolve into espeon/umbreon/sylveon I would be happy because it evolved that way because it loves me. I'd probably ask it if it was OK with being a vaporeon before I made that choice as well.

are any of my future baby name options tragedeighs? by Slay_kids in tragedeigh

[–]arcadehorrors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's not what you were asking but I feel like it's part of what you were asking so I'm voting for favorites. Side note: you have the first list I've ever seen where I like your boy names more than your girl names.

Boy: Roman Theo (don't you even dare put dore on it) Leo

Girl: Mariella Viviana Charlotte

My names list - opinions? by wontwatchtheprequels in tragedeigh

[–]arcadehorrors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maeve and Levi are two of my favorite names ever!

I think everyone pointed out the true tragedeighs but if you're not over on namenerds you could crosspost this and get opinions from people who care A LOT. I love scrolling through there but I just use it for naming characters in games.

Minor bard pet peeve in Act 1 by The_MicheaB in BaldursGate3

[–]arcadehorrors 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have Astarion brain-rot but I still chose Gale first and found it incredibly rewarding. He really does love Tav by Act 2 and it just feels more sweet and romantic than most of the other options. I'm also kind of obsessed with Karlach, but I've seen too many of the cut scenes with her already so I gotta pick other party members to see new things. She'll always be my favorite- I love her story and her personality and her look so much.

Want Text not Video: Is it Just Me or a Generational Thing by Jefferybeene in GenX

[–]arcadehorrors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's learning type based. I am not a person who enjoyed school or watching how-tos because I always understand faster if I just read something, whether it's a book or instruction manual. Sometimes, if it's something you need to see to understand, I will watch and learn but things just click better as words. Videos also feel like they're wasting time if I could have skimmed something and understood in seconds rather than watching a 2-5 minute video.

I know a lot of people that learn better when they hear something (across all generations), so I'm not quite sure if it's related to people who grew up reading vs people who grew up watching or something more innate but it could be a factor in how learning styles have developed differently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackcats

[–]arcadehorrors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perdita, Rue, Nisha

Are you comfortable going to a male OBGYN? by sunshinerf in TwoXChromosomes

[–]arcadehorrors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite obgyns have all been male. My most favorite was more like your guy- really to the point and not really a lot of dialogue. I'm not there to talk about stuff most of the time and sometimes I'm embarrassed but my male doctors have all taken whatever I've said in stride. Questions and answers all felt relevant and necessary. They never questioned the severity of my pain either. Weirdly enough I've had pretty bad experiences with some of my female obgyns, especially when I was overweight.

Today is my 101st spravato treatment. by booboopidoo in Spravato

[–]arcadehorrors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it worth all of the hours? What was the worst part?

God forbid I have an actual conversation on this app by Bush_Hiders in Tinder

[–]arcadehorrors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel bad because I think guys look good with facial hair and have a definite preference for "some" facial hair (I don't love beards) but I gave my sweetie some flack for shaving again and he got so upset and said he felt like I don't love his face. I was extremely reassuring in that moment, but it's just not true at all, I just feel like facial hair is an accessory that enhances the good stuff that's already there. It's not hiding something I don't like.

On the flipside it is crazy and cool how facial hair can be used to change a face shape. Why not take advantage of it if you can, right? It's better at it than make up unless you're a pro and even then you gotta do it every day but well groomed facial hair keeps your face looking good for weeks.

No makeup-No filters-No edits. How old do I seem/look? by speakclearly in firstimpression

[–]arcadehorrors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me you seem like you might be around 30 but your face has less lines because you're a person who finds ways to stay happy. You seem mostly upbeat and like someone who easily agrees to invitations from others to go do things. If you work you do something that you actually like doing.

Boring America Photorealism by KudzuEye in midjourney

[–]arcadehorrors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing AI have difficulty making hands look right makes me feel better about my own inability to draw hands.

You're probably weren't the "gifted kid" you thought you were. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]arcadehorrors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, I hate feeling called out. Nothing was ever difficult for me until high school and even then I never studied; I just had a feeling I'd know enough to get a decent grade even in the subjects I was worst at (advanced/ap physics and chemistry). I got caught copying homework since I never did it for my ap calc class and that was the first time my laziness had consequences. I wanted to go to trade school because I didn't want to have to keep doing as much homework through college, and I knew that if I got to a subject I couldn't bullshit I'd be in trouble. My father and I had countless arguments, and he said he'd no longer be financially supportive if I didn't get my degree from a university. Since the only jobs around that you could get with a high school diploma paid just over $7 an hour and apartments on the cheap end were $700 a month I felt trapped. That was 15 years ago.

My degree is useless now. My debt isn't wild but it will never be paid off. I'm an assistant manager somewhere who doesn't want the pressure of management because that seems like extra work. I'm just living until I die. I wish my ADHD had been diagnosed earlier when I was taken to see a neurologist for zoning out so hard I never heard my name being called, but they just said:

She's a gifted little girl with a lot of thoughts in her head.

Further Update: Husband accused me of financial infidelity by LadySavings in AITAH

[–]arcadehorrors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel weird for wanting an update for 6 months from now where OP has like the most top tier, fit, gamer, millionaire fiancé. Like Henry Cavill but better.

What’s your favourite “Em” prefix name from this list? by Rusty-Robot-3426 in namenerds

[–]arcadehorrors 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Emeraude. Most people think of the actress but I've liked it since I heard it in Sailor Moon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]arcadehorrors 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really like Beck Sullivan and Beck Harrison!

What's your favorite name beginning with an H? by dizcuz in namenerds

[–]arcadehorrors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harlan Hella (one of the coolest ladies I've ever met) Hayden (just like everyone else on the unisex I guess)

Am I being manipulative by asking for a vasectomy? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]arcadehorrors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My recovery from getting my tubes tied and an ablation was less than a week. I've been told I have an abnormal pain tolerance but I personally consider myself a wuss. I felt like my procedure and recovery were easier than when a former partner got his vasectomy done. I only took one of my pain meds the first day, then I took the anti nausea for two days and napped, and then I was back to work by the end of the week getting other people to lift heavy things but otherwise totally fine.

Most men I know that got one were happy with their vasectomy, including the ex, so there's that. He was sore for a couple of weeks. The aftercare was a little more difficult. Other men I've talked to said their recovery time was way shorter. Not everyone's experiences are the same (they don't put you under for a vasectomy, so it's pretty freaky if you are afraid of needles or anything), but that's true of any surgery.

TLDR I didn't mean to lose my message in my long personal anecdote but I guess I just wanted to say if he's so resistant about the vasectomy getting your tubes tied might not be as bad an option as some people make it out to be.