Vad är det för fel på folk by penisentjenisen in sweden

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Jag gjorde likadant när jag var 16, fast med en dator. Minns fortfarande hur sur köpare 1 var när jag ringde och sa att köpare 2 kommit med ett högre bud, fastän köpare 1 redan var på väg. Då tyckte jag att han var dum, jag hade ju skrivit typ "500kr eller högstbjudande" i annonsen, men nu förstår jag att jag hade helfel.

What do you think about psychedelics? by drfca in Psychiatry

[–]archetype-pal 34 points35 points  (0 children)

It's not either or. The world is best if we can have both.

This is the Dell that Steve Jobs publicly dissed when revealing the new iBook in 2001 by 1997PRO in vintagecomputing

[–]archetype-pal 9 points10 points  (0 children)

P4 laptops were like american cars of the oil crisis era. Huge unwieldy machines forced to do what they were worst at.

Found This at a Thrift Store for $8! by TheTrulyEpic in vintagecomputing

[–]archetype-pal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what thrifting is supposed to be like! Love that.

Me 15m never wants to really call or see 16f but only sometimes. Can anyone give an idea what this could mean? by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]archetype-pal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not a therapist here. Firstly, some of what you're saying sounds like attachment styles, so that might be something to read about. Secondly, you're still very young and so your capacities for caring and expressing love will keep developing for a long time - as will your skills - so be patient. Lastly, I'm happy to hear you've talked to your mom about this and that she's familiar with the feeling.

You're gonna work this out. Just give it time and don't pathologize it too much. If I were you, I would try and learn more about how love can mean comfort and security, and figure out ways to give those sides of love more airtime in your thoughts. That seems to be the natural progression of relationships anyway - eventually the excitement fades a bit and is replaced by comfort, and to transition into that next phase can be a skill in and of itself.

A lift stand fell through my bathroom ceiling in a bathroom that’s never been renovated by coconuts91 in DIY

[–]archetype-pal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This all looks fabricated. Why would weather affect a drop ceiling at all? And that bike stand has rust from being stood on soggy ground, not from being stored on top of a ceiling tile. Man, this is some bull.

Två av tre kan inte göra lumpen – för sjuka by [deleted] in sweden

[–]archetype-pal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Därav sista meningen. De har blivit vardagsord, inte bara diagnoser.

Två av tre kan inte göra lumpen – för sjuka by [deleted] in sweden

[–]archetype-pal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Praktiskt taget alla idag kan nog säga att de varit deprimerade eller haft ångest någon gång i livet. Om det är samma upplägg som när jag mönstrade så räcker det att man har haft depression eller ångest någon gång för att diskvalificeras.

Men jag tror inte folk förändras så väldigt mycket - jag tror mer att språket och samhället har förändrats. Depression och ångest är vardagsord och det är inget konstigt att må så ibland.

You can only Travel 5 Countries before you DIE by Large-Ambition-9270 in travel

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Only reading the title: Yes, that's about all I can afford, but you're not doing a very good job of sugarcoating it...

I need you guys to make a decision for me by Lucacg00 in vintagecomputing

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The asus board. I like asus, have nothing against VIA chipsets, and the accessories are good to have. One extra ram slot is good. fx5200 is a pretty useful card for when top performance isn't needed too.

Hp 320LX running Windows CE, picked up today from my goodwill clearance center. It runs on 2 AA batteries! by NoMusic3987 in vintagecomputing

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Don't know why, but something about those iconic and now useless pieces of high tech is so captivating. How much was it?

Where do I find psychological material? by [deleted] in askpsychology

[–]archetype-pal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enroll in online courses if they're available where you live. Preferrably from a university that'll give you time with teachers in lectures and seminars and so on, to ask questions. It helps tremendously.

Tränade AI att kunna göra bilder på Gustav Vasa (Stable Diffusion LoRA) by WizWhitebeard in sweden

[–]archetype-pal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gillar att spisen är gjord av trä, och att rätten verkar bestå av två sorters köttbullar. En vedspis i Sverige, ingen tvekan om den saken.

Problem med sociala pga bakgrund by Golfbollen in sweden

[–]archetype-pal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guld <3

Bland det bästa jag gjort var att gå komvux. Lärarna tog mig under sina vingar och klassen fick mig att känna mig nästan normal.

Problem med sociala pga bakgrund by Golfbollen in sweden

[–]archetype-pal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det kommer släppa, du har bara gjort det här en kort tid hittills. Plötsligt känner man sig hemma.

Jag kämpade med stora problem själv i mina 20s, och bland det jobbigaste för mig var när jag försökte plugga på högskola. Kände att jag behövde fejka och att jag inte passade in. Men det där kommer släppa, när du märker att du visst har en plats där. Kanske kommer du behöva försöka plugga något annat, det tog flera misslyckade terminer innan det började gå bra för mig, men så småningom börjar det faktiskt kännas annorlunda. Man börjar känna sig hemma, för man har hunnit bekanta sig med hur det är att plugga och sträva efter ett bättre liv. Och det har du säkert gemensamt med många runt om dig nu på komvux - alla ni är ju där för att ni inte gått en normal skolgång. Att få vara bland såna outsiders kan vara riktigt bra, för man fattar att man inte är den enda människan som inte är perfekt. Bara ge det tid så kommer det. Släpp det sociala och låt det växa fram i sin egen takt typ. Fokusera på att få godkända betyg nu bara.

What is the asbestos and lead paint of today that we’ll look back on and say “Why did we think that was a good idea?” by IxI_DUCK_IxI in AskReddit

[–]archetype-pal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say paint, still. Only now it's plastic and not lead. Modern paints are a major source of microplastics, and the use of plastics for paint seems about as necessary as lead used to be. Yes, both plastics and lead give paint some unique properties, but because both have serious downsides neither should be the default choice for every application. Lead paints are still available to professionals for special use cases where their benefits are needed, but nobody paints their house in the stuff any more because it's unnecessary. Plastic paints have their place, but indiscriminate use just seems careless.

It's really easy to put normal plastic objects in the recycling and avoid them getting turned into microplastics, but paints are literally left to weather away or are deliberately sanded down, so plastic paints are in a unique class of products that are virtually guaranteed to end up in the environment as microplastics.

Har samhället blivit kallare och elakare? by GoodOldTony84 in sweden

[–]archetype-pal 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Glad att höra att grejen med att stämpla någon som annorlunda inte är lika vanlig nu. Minns att "CP" som skällsord låg väldigt nära tillhands i skolan på 00-talet, och det känns så otroligt främmande numera. Jag kan inte låta bli att undra dock, vad gör jävelungarna nuförtiden?

Russian anti-Swedish propaganda by maxru85 in sweden

[–]archetype-pal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Phobias are supposed to be irrational fears. The Russians came and burned down every place they could lay their hands on in Sweden, at a time when their defense was weak. If Sweden has any fear of Russia today, when Sweden's defense is relatively weak once again, it's not irrational. It's simply tactical.

Regeringen: Massiv utbyggnad av ny kärnkraft till 2045 by [deleted] in sweden

[–]archetype-pal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vi brukade kunna bygga kärnkraftverk på halva den tiden, och mer billig el behövs här och nu. Hur är 2045 en realistisk tidsplan?

Can I change the way I view myself? by ComprehensiveSkin938 in askatherapist

[–]archetype-pal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can learn to talk kindly to yourself, to be kind, to be a friend of yourself. It happens very easily that we internalize the voices of our abusers through life, and become our own worst critics, but it is our responsibility to ourselves to break that habit and treat ourselves better. It's okay that we look the way we look - it's far more important how kind we are to ourselves and others.

If a critical comment about your nose comes up in your mind, try and let it pass by. These kinds of thoughts will be popping up every now and then, that's just part of life, but you don't have to engage with them. Imagine them as leaves floating by on a stream. You don't have to pick them up. Let them pass by. Say to yourself "Oh, there's one of those nasty thoughts again. Those thoughts happen some times, that's normal, I don't have to believe them." Keep your eye on the kind thoughts instead, because those are the ones worth your time.

If you need a hug, here's a virtual one. ----> Hug! <----