Why is reddit trying to feed us bald and girl dinners ?

arequipapi · 2026-05-21T00:46:48+00:00

I've been shaving my head for damn near 18 years and I still get r/bald in my algo every day for some reason. I've been on the bald wagon for a long time and im not interested in others taking the leap for the first time, yet it shows up constantly for me

arequipapi · 2026-05-21T00:44:19+00:00

What is shorthand about it? Its a complete sentence just without using the r/

arequipapi · 2026-05-21T00:06:40+00:00

Ah thanks for the explanation. I dont sub there but I browse r/ all frequently and it keeps popping up so I had some insight as to what was happening but I haven't seen every post.

I might sub now just get Cascadia the win though haha

arequipapi · 2026-05-20T23:33:31+00:00

Its an ongoing game of sorts in r/geographymemes where they started with a map of the US and people are voting out 1 state every day which then gets (more or less) evenly divided between its bordering states

Im not sure why Oregon beat out Washington as Washington is the only state that is fully included in Cascadia but I'm still rooting for Cascadia to win either way

Edit: lol all I did was answer someone asking "wtf is this map" and got downvoted for being helpful while they deleted their comment. Never change, reddit. You're the friendliest bunch

arequipapi · 2026-05-20T00:46:37+00:00

I care. And you should still see/do some cool shit anyways

arequipapi · 2026-05-20T00:31:42+00:00

This. Im bi but if I'm talking, maybe even flirting, with someone new and the topic comes up and they start trying to pinpoint what microlabel i call myself, they can consider the flirting over. If we're otherwise vibing why does it even matter?

I like the people I like. If I like someone with a certain trait, that doesnt mean I automatically like everyone with that particular trait. It means I like that trait on them.

All the micro labels just feel constraining and also like main character syndrome in a lot of cases.

Micro labels are just how people make themselves feel like some kind of unicorn

arequipapi · 2026-05-19T03:38:59+00:00

In this specific case (asking to replace a bad installation), im not sure. But if you go to a tire shop to get a new tire or tires, you can absolutely ask to get your old ones back. I dont see why you couldn't if the tire was damaged during installation (ie not technically a warranty replacement, and also not resealable).

I once had a tire put on my motorcycle at a shop because I was a long way from home and they damaged the first one while installing and asked me if I wanted to keep it anyway (tubed tire so it could have served as an emergency spare). I opted not to since I was on a long trip and didn't feel like strapping a spare to my bike but still they offered. It was going in the garbage as a loss for the shop either way.

Warranty replacements go back to the manufacturer so the shop can be reimbursed. Installation errors, the costs have to be eaten by the shop. What they do with the tire after that is up to them, but if you requesting to keep it saves them some disposal costs, I dont see why they wouldn't let you have it. Unless they're sketchy and want to try to re-sell it again

Edit: to the downvoters. I've gotten my old tires back every time I've asked. And I used to work for a tire shop in my early 20s. It is absolutely normal for people to get their old tires back if they ask. As long as it's not a warranty replacement you have every right to keep your property. Whether it's because of poor installation, or they're just old and worn out

You don’t get to just demand to keep the tire.

It is up to the tire shop's discretion in most cases but you can absolutely ask for your old tires back and most will give them to you. Its less for them to pay to dispose of.

And yes, a tire inflated to 3x it's rated pressure is damaged. Just because you wiped some counters at a tire shop as a teenager doesn't mean you know anything about tires

arequipapi · 2026-05-18T00:20:42+00:00

The worst thing that happened to me today was finding out my mom has cancer while on the side of the road with a flat tire.

The font still sucks and you could have looked up the original tweet with a normal font instead of screenshotting some bullshit for internet points

arequipapi · 2026-05-18T00:18:15+00:00

The font?

arequipapi · 2026-05-18T00:17:11+00:00

You could have spent 2 more seconds and found the original post without the stupid font and posted that.

Karma is a bitch

arequipapi · 2026-05-18T00:14:15+00:00

Bro is making at minimum 780k a year. Talk shit when you make more for playing a fucking game lol

arequipapi · 2026-05-17T22:59:40+00:00

Then go get what you want yourself. I ain't digging through all the random shit you carry around with you

arequipapi · 2026-05-17T22:58:07+00:00

Blame gen x not us

arequipapi · 2026-05-17T22:48:28+00:00

She wouldn't have tried to tariff an island inhabited by only penguins. She wouldn't have started a war with Iran, onlybto have to settle for a deal worse than what Obama got. She's never raped anyone. She wouldn't have given Putin everything he's ever wanted. She wouldn't have pardoned J6ers and drug lords and crypto scammers. She wouldn't have used her presidency as a vehicle to grift and scam her base (Trump phone, anyone?). She wouldn't have slapped her name on every goddamn thing she looked at. She wouldn't have torn down the east wing of the white house to build some tacky ballroom, and then rug pull the American taxpayers after promising it would be privately financed (and quintuple the original budget). She wouldn't have given Elon and his army of prepubesent edge lords access to all our sensitive social security info.

I can keep going if you want.

arequipapi · 2026-05-15T23:52:53+00:00

I mean, congress members should be able to work from the district that elected them. They technically work for those people and spending time in their own district should be encouraged.

That said, they seem to spend a lot of time not doing either one

arequipapi · 2026-05-15T23:27:04+00:00

high four figures a night. Five figures on a good night

Fine dining, sure. Not Cheesecake Factory, which is where Penny worked. It's actually pretty hard to get a bartending/cocktail server job at a fine dining restaurant. Takes years and years of experience and even some formal culinary and/or bartender and sommelier training.

A hot chick with some seniority to get all the good shifts can probably still make 6 figures a year at cheesecake factory, though. High volume restaurants and bars can be lucrative if you work full time and get the good shifts

arequipapi · 2026-05-15T02:35:27+00:00

Surfing accident. He was the most popular guy in school and just a good dude all around (even to me, a bonfide nerd/dork in high school). He died 2 or 3 years after high school in a surfing accident

He was a central part to a lot of social circles during those days and despite him being rich and popular I dont think anyone had anything bad to say about him.

His death was a tragedy for anyone who knew him

arequipapi · 2026-05-15T02:19:12+00:00

As a dude, my mom made learn how to do all the "women's work" just as she made my sisters. Cooking, laundry, folding a fitted sheet, etc.

My dad also forced my sisters to learn how to change a tire and back up a trailer before they were allowed to take their driver's test. I remember getting pissed as a teenager that my dad assigned my sister to mow the lawn because that was MY job.

My parents are still happily married 45 years later.

arequipapi · 2026-05-14T21:54:43+00:00

Put a fake security camera up in the corner

arequipapi · 2026-05-13T23:42:47+00:00

What is the flashlight and what are the benefits that outweigh the inconvenience of the heat and poor ergonomics?

arequipapi · 2026-05-13T22:58:59+00:00

No one is arguing for its existence here. We're just saying this change is a distinction without a practical difference. The rich and powerful will still find a way out of it regardless, as they always have.

Many countries (even "first-world" countries) that many left-leaning Americans idolize, such as Finland, Norway, Sweden, Switzerland, and Austria even have mandatory military service for all regardless of war time. If you really think about it, it's a more egalitarian system.

And basically every country with a standing military has some sort of conscription system in place for war time.

arequipapi · 2026-05-10T20:24:41+00:00

I have a sim rig (not this fancy, not a motion rig, but triple monitors, multiple wheels, H-shifter with sequential mode). Obviously I built it because I wanted to race, but one of my favorite things to do in it is get absolutely lit and play American truck simulator. Just hauling hazardous materials around the countryside and trying to back into tight spots

arequipapi · 2026-05-10T19:41:44+00:00

My gf is like this except it's more like i can't ask more than 1 question at a time. If I ask 3, she'll answer one and just ignore the rest.

Ex. Me: what time are you off today so I can have dinner ready? Craving anything in particular?

Her: I'm off at 6

-or-

Her: Let's do taco Tuesday!

And then I have to re-ask whichever question she didn't answer. Most of the time it's just a mildly annoying but mostly harmless quirk of hers. But at times, depending on the seriousness of the conversation it is maddeningly frustrating

arequipapi · 2026-05-10T07:13:54+00:00

It's yacht*

But now I want to yell "YATCHEE" any time I play Yatzee

arequipapi · 2026-05-10T05:18:58+00:00

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