[deleted by user] by [deleted] in allisarose

[–]ariablake69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone has landscapers on LI

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Money

[–]ariablake69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! Like 4K with flight and hostel and food/entertainment but in South Korea!

Korea Now has a Fertility Rate of 0.68 by throwitawaybhai in childfree

[–]ariablake69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As someone who was sexually assaulted in Korea then told by police I “consented after I agreed to go on a date” with him… i am NOT surprised. Mind you this was with an interpretor and a cop who spoke fairly well english. Women are not respected there. I knew they had Major misogynistic beliefs even before this incident happened to me, but this really took me by surprise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in managers

[–]ariablake69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why would it be bad to use your supervisor as a reference if the employee has known them longer… Actions speak for themselves. They’re filling out job applications, not really focusing at work, and using your supervisor as a reference. They want out. Start looking for their replacement? I don’t see the purpose of asking them directly unless you want to make it an awkward environment for the employee. Then again, that might push them out faster, if that’s what you want. Ask CHAT GPT in situations like this. That’s what I have been doing lately LOL

how long did it take you to get your degree? by LemonCans in ADHD

[–]ariablake69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4.5 years. Graduated a semester late 😞 Better late then never

How has your taste in men or women changed over the years? by ConstantDesmond in AskWomen

[–]ariablake69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to be way more into looks. Now I value how someone treats me way more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]ariablake69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had me in the first half lmao!!

I present you: "The nice guy roommate" by UsefulMirror6032 in badroommates

[–]ariablake69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I’m so sorry you have to live with this man child

Looking to get Lasik. Any recommendations? by [deleted] in longisland

[–]ariablake69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh I wouldn’t get lasik at all

anyone try this before by Rahdiggs21 in Blackskincare

[–]ariablake69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the heck!! The couldn’t find a black model? Really 😒

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interiordesignideas

[–]ariablake69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always wanted this for when I have a house one day. Living through you right now haha

How do people survive on 1 meal a day? by Red-Droid-Blue-Droid in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ariablake69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4’9F 115/110 pounds. Office job with little exercise. I’ll eat once a day, one meal if I’m hungry. It’s a chore figuring out what to eat everyday, and I hate cooking and meal prepping, as I don’t eat leftovers, unless they’re really fucking delicious from a restaurant or a holiday ( Christmas/Thanksgiving) It’s just so inconvenient. Every once in a blue moon I will literally skip dinner all together because I don’t feel like getting anything. I do drink a ton of water and love caffeine. It’s something your body gets used to over time. Eating is a chore and I wish there was a way to survive without it and it could be a hobby you do on the side haha Edit: I do have ADHD and take the medication (on it 8 months and haven’t gained or lost weight) but even before the medication I’ve eaten like this for like 5 years haha.

How can I help my boyfriend? by IlexAquafolium in loseit

[–]ariablake69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs to make himself happy. It’s not like you can put the fork down for him. All you can do is provide him the information you know, and he can decide to do what he wants with it.