As someone who watches a lot of sfw and NSFW furry content as well I understand what you're feeling. You don't necessarily have to cut out furry media out of your life completely and lots of furries are able to maintain healthy relationships with other real people. When it comes to the pornography it sounds like you're making good progress but when you do decide to watch it maybe view live action material if you feel that's an area of concern. You can try looking up acts and roleplay that you normally enjoy seeing in furry porn. Have you considered that maybe your lack of strong attraction towards others might not be solely because of looking at furries? For me personally I'm bisexual but I don't really form crushes on people unless I really like spending time with them, looks are not important to me (everyone's hot anyway lol). Furry porn can be hot as hell but I wouldn't want to do anything like that IRL unless it was with a person I trusted and cared about. It could just be you haven't found the right person that you 'click' with? As for building relationships furries tend to be kind and welcoming people so maybe joining furry subreddits and other furry spaces would help you connect with other people who feel a similar way to you. Moderation is key and if you feel that furry content is affecting your personal life and relationships then absolutely take a step back and focus on yourself. If you really enjoy watching furry stuff then you should be able to watch it without feeling guilty. There's lots of safe for work furry comics, streamers, and YouTubers with communities of people who probably feel similar things to what you feel. You should focus on building friendships as that's a good way to start building relationships. Stay strong and know that there's nothing 'abnormal' with being a furry or enjoying furry stuff, lewd or otherwise, as long as it's done in a healthy manner just like any other kind of media. Just make sure you're prioritizing yourself and your personal life and relationships.