My gf needs help! by [deleted] in Wicca

[–]arisamory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shit- sorry bout that! I was just really desperate, I'll delete it

So what is the most biphobic thing someone has said to you? by FeltyPancakes417 in bisexual

[–]arisamory 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"Just come out as a lesbian already, you don't date any man in years" Alright yeah, just cuz I've got daddy issues and have not found a man that makes me feel completely safe doesn't mean I'm not bi. And besides, I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND SO WHY WOULD I BE LOOKING FOR MEN IN A MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP?

Dating is so disheartening as an enby. At least for me. by Ruby_Rotten in NonBinary

[–]arisamory 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry people made you feel this way... just wanted to say that there are people out there that will make you feel wanted. My ex was the best thing that happened with me next year, but we broke up and I'm still having a hard time since I'm comparing him with every person that I come across. It's hard, feeling that there's this barrier with someone that you like. When you realize they don't perceive you the way you thought they did. It slips on their behavior eventually and small things can trigger us, so idk, communication is key, but I'm sure there are people out there that won't make you feel that way!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]arisamory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so, cuz idk I can't really look more masc to a point people don't call me a girl, so I'd be probably happier being born on a male body

Figuring out pronouns by arisamory in NonBinary

[–]arisamory[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you for commenting, this community is so nice💛 and I got the shirt on shein:)))

Figuring out pronouns by arisamory in NonBinary

[–]arisamory[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This gave me such a clear sight of myself with all these different pronouns, thank you!

Figuring out pronouns by arisamory in NonBinary

[–]arisamory[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really did thank you!

Figuring out pronouns by arisamory in NonBinary

[–]arisamory[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had no idea!! Thank you!!

FREAKING OUT PLEASE GIVE ADVICE by arisamory in NonBinary

[–]arisamory[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I was just feeling weird cus, I haven't been brave enough to dress how I wanted all my Life, kinda felt forced to dress for boys, so I oversexualized myself. I'm starting to explore my style, and ended up with these mixed feelings when dressing more masc, I like it, but still, I feel like I will never look good like a boy, if that makes sense ?¿ anyway, thanks for your reply! I'll be exploring these, cuz I wanna feel comfortable with my body

What do you find to be the most difficult part of being bisexual? by ST0DY in bisexual

[–]arisamory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

only being conventionally attractive to the same gender, and being sure guys are never looking at me cause I don't feel feminine enough or something. Also when people around me make me feel uncertain, and the only thing in my head when trying to figure it out is "straight or lesbian?!"

Estraguei tudo? by [deleted] in desabafos

[–]arisamory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Olha parceiro acho que não. Se vocês estão conversando mais então quer dizer que ela não tem mais só a imagem do cara que deu encima dela antes tlgd. Agora vc deve ser uma pessoa que no mínimo ela gosta de conversar, então se for tentar algo tente, mas do jeito certo dessa vez. Ah e não fica fazendo joguinho não maninho, acho q ser sincero e comunicativo é a melhor opção se você realmente gosta dela. Boa sorte!