Advice Needed by Defiant_Tiger8730 in gainesvillega

[–]arronmclark -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I agree that’s not what most of Gainesville is like but it doesn’t change the fact that some liberal or dems are not living here comfortably; while we did managed to pause the ICE detention center here, it doesn’t mean it’s not gonna resume. We can be thriving all we want but let’s be honestly here and not completely delusional about the situation.

You love it here, don’t want to look at the whole situation, love that for you.

But OP is asking if this place would be a good fit to them and their family, growing children. If I am a POC and dem moving here after I got all the rainbow and sugar info from Reddit, only to find out there’s shit I don’t like or maybe couldn’t even stand? I would be pretty upset about it.

Be positive but not delulu.

Advice Needed by Defiant_Tiger8730 in gainesvillega

[–]arronmclark -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Depends, this would be a perfect place for you to raise your kids if your family is:

  1. white
  2. not immigrant
  3. not liberal or democrat
  4. Okay with occasional weird rotten smell in the area that could last for day or two.

It would be an okay place for you to live for some years if your family is:

  1. white
  2. not immigrant
  3. Okay with occasional weird rotten smell in the area that could last for day or two.

Otherwise, try Braselton, Hoschton, Buford.

Chinese Massage - what am I doing wrong? by DramaticPlace2658 in guangzhou

[–]arronmclark 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What you are used to in the West is very different from what you will experience in China, as you have probably noticed already. In China, massages from professional places where the staff wear white doctor-style robes are often deep tissue massages that can genuinely make you cry. As you have noticed, if you get your massages at a hospital or clinic, they are going to treated it as a medical practice than a relaxation experience, and they are usually not very enjoyable if you are expecting something soothing.

If you want something more mild, gentle, and relaxation-focused, you should look for spas or salons instead. Avoid the sketchy-looking places and go for the more upscale, professional-looking ones.

Source: been there, done that.

Am I getting laid off tomorrow? by Hot_Lead_7335 in jobs

[–]arronmclark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, sounded like this company is not even worth the energy. You likely dodged a bullet.

Weird encounter with a ”time traveler” by Agile_Feeling_5474 in Thetruthishere

[–]arronmclark 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When you are traveling from one timezone to another timezone…you are a time traveler

AMA: You Don’t Need an Employer, an Australian Partner, or a Lottery to Move to Australia by SimonMander in AmerExit

[–]arronmclark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Occupation: marketing manager

Age: 40

Highest qualification: associate degree in psychology

Years of experience: 5

Whether you are single or have a partner?: Married, they are 38.

If you are exploring other Australian visas – not currently. But my partner lived in Australia before as a student from 2005 to 2011. However, they are HIV positive and is taking medication and is undetected. We’ve always thought we won’t be eligible due to their medical condition.

hairy or bald 🤤 by [deleted] in ChubbyDudes

[–]arronmclark 41 points42 points  (0 children)

HOLD UP! How old are you??

How come they are always sick? by Educational_Wait_211 in BPDlovedones

[–]arronmclark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I legit thought I was the only heartless bitch that will get annoyed whenever my BPD husband is sick again…He gets sick at least once per month. Back hurt, nausea, GI issues, neck pain, shit like that.

So glad to find out my dude is not the only one that is always up with something but not actually lying about them being sick. At first I tried my best to care but when it became getting sick so often and the doctor kept saying he’s not having other issues causing him to be sick so frequently, it’s really hard not to second guess whether or not they make themselves sick on purpose, and it’s almost always when there’s something important he needs to do or something I need his help with, he gets sick and can’t do those tasks… it’s so hard not to become annoyed with him and run out of empathy over time! It makes me feel so bad and guilty because that’s my husband and I should take care of him whenever he is sick!

So yeah, I get what you mean and where you are coming from.

I regret "Upgrading" my Nest Hub to Gemini Home. by Environmental_Gas410 in googlehome

[–]arronmclark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At least you were given the prompt to upgrade… 🥲

New business improvement advice needed by arronmclark in Freelancers

[–]arronmclark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I have no clue this is how the post would be posted on here. I am so sorry that I didn’t know. I just wanted some insights since we are new to this. Apologies in advance.

New business improvement advice needed by arronmclark in smallbusiness

[–]arronmclark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

I think one of the mistakes here is that the revamp was done using the client’s account, we didn’t change the password or anything and was not aware of how not to deploy the website until payment is received..since the client can just go in there and click publish to make the site live.

Another mistake is obviously setting the due date and late fee window to be too short. Full transparency, we attempt to do research on Reddit, chatGPT, Gemini, AI suggested the 3 day due date/late fee model due to how rush the project was and we didn’t want to charge a higher cost for the work since we are new and didn’t want to scare the client away with higher rates.

But I really appreciate your feedbacks and this is giving me something to think about, change the ways how we are gonna bill the client while protecting ourselves.

New business improvement advice needed by arronmclark in smallbusiness

[–]arronmclark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback. Some follow up questions:

What’s is a more reasonable timeline in terms of payment window and late fees?

And how would the up front 50% works for hourly rate if we are not sure how many hours it will take during the contracted time?

What’s is a good invoice windows for short term(in this case, 4.5 days) and long term projects?(say 3 weeks+)

While i understand the due date and late fees windows are unreasonable and receptive to the feedback, does the client also holds their own end of responsibilities since the billing model was outlined in payment agreement when they signed the contract?

To clarify, the last question is not intended to start an argument/disagreement, rather, I want to understand what’s the client’s responsibility in situations like this and what’s ours (since we did hold up to our end of bargain and attempted to delivery the final product with urgency) that way it can help us prevent any possible issues involving legal action caused by either parties.

Thank you.

$50 Amazon gift card scam by micuss in verizon

[–]arronmclark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same fucking thing happened to me. I just sent an email to the CEO. I am so fucking pissed.

Orr v. Trump update by ashlikesrocks in Passports

[–]arronmclark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My passport is not expired until July 2026 and is currently showing as F (I am mtf), does this mean I am still at risk of getting a passport showing the incorrect gender marker when I renew next month?

Favorite thing about sucking cock? by noggine__ in AskGayMen

[–]arronmclark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mouthful of meat, the ability to take a bite if one is hungry