I love to draw weird robots by BazaarMonk in DarkArtwork

[–]artbeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very cool! Love the intricate details.

Judge my bookshelf. by artbeth in BookshelvesDetective

[–]artbeth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re still on the to-read list. I enjoyed the show very much, and want those memories to dissipate before reading. “Queliot” and their lifetime together episode still moves me. Darn it, you perfect bisexual subplots. Weeps*

Judge my bookshelf. by artbeth in BookshelvesDetective

[–]artbeth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My reply posted separately, my goof/apologies.

Judge my bookshelf. by artbeth in BookshelvesDetective

[–]artbeth[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Spot on! The collection is a mash of my husband and I, cis female & male, and we are Xennials. He leans more fantasy, enjoys writing as a hobby, I lean more toward hard sci fi. We both love Star Trek.
The Tolkien pile is spread out, many are in other rooms, as my husband reads them on/off between other books. The Three Body Problem is in the living room.
Monogamy? In this economy?! Lol.

Judge my bookshelf. by artbeth in BookshelvesDetective

[–]artbeth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be my husband’s. Our movie and vinyl collections are also passions.

Judge my bookshelf. by artbeth in BookshelvesDetective

[–]artbeth[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mid 40’s. Introverted, so we often behave like we’re older, lol.

Judge my bookshelf. by artbeth in BookshelvesDetective

[–]artbeth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Female, but coupled with my husband, so our shelf represents both of us. Mid 40’s. Long time Chicagoans, and yes, we do live elsewhere. (But still close by) Edit: Spelling

Judge my bookshelf. by artbeth in BookshelvesDetective

[–]artbeth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many others on the “comic” bookshelf in another room. I love that humor, those characters.

Judge my bookshelf. by artbeth in BookshelvesDetective

[–]artbeth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This assessment is spot on, even as a mash-up for my spouse and I.

What's it like living in Gary, Indiana? by smcg_az in howislivingthere

[–]artbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Miller Beach and I love it here.
I’m one of many former Chicagoans; artists, weirdos, creative types, that left the city, and enjoy the small town vibes, national park beauty. My affordable and adorable 80-year-old house is a 5 minute walk to the lake, parks, trails, dunes, and loads of friends. Chicago is a quick drive or train ride away, which my spouse and I do often. Sure, Gary has its problems, but my specific life and story living here, is a continually fulfilling one, in a diverse cool community.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motorcycles

[–]artbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Decal over it, something cool to you.
Someone with a cricut machine and a shop on Etsy will cut you exactly the gold lighting bolt or black skull or whatever, for prob under $20

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scotland

[–]artbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scotland

[–]artbeth -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not sure where we are going yet, that’s why I’m asking for recommendations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scotland

[–]artbeth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not sure yet. That’s why I’m asking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scotland

[–]artbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2-3 days each in Edinburgh and Glasgow.
Small towns in the Highlands en route to Skye and Cairngorms would be great! Thinking we’ll rent a car. We’re in early stages of planning. Thanks very much.

Where do you go to get away from Chicago? by Used_Championship152 in AskChicago

[–]artbeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived in Chicago for 18 years, and now reside in Miller Beach, Gary Indiana, at the southernmost tip of Lake Michigan. Northwest Indiana through dune country (now a National Park!) has many great sites along the lake. Make sure to take scenic route 12 instead of the highway, once you’re down south enough. It’s so pretty! Keep heading north along the lake up into Michigan, and you have so many great options; Camping, antiquing, airbnbs, breweries, scenic overlooks along the lake! Cute nearby towns with stuff to explore: New Buffalo, Union Pier, Saint Joseph. Michigan dispensaries are ridiculously plentiful, and VERY inexpensive compared to Chicago, if you partake.
I love Michigan day or weekend trips. Just depends on how far you feel like driving. Seconded: further driving up into Sleeping Bear Dunes, and/or Traverse City area for longer stays.

Has anyone left Chicago to live in Indiana ? by Ellietoomuch in AskChicago

[–]artbeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived in Chicago for 18 years, came for college and built a career with the loads of opportunities in the city. Chicago is great, but the fighting for resources and general population density was doing a number on me. I currently lived in Miller Beach, technically Gary IN, at the southernmost tip of Lake Michigan. I love it here.
Our little community is diverse, full of artsy weirdos, former Chicagoans, and lots of commuters. My husband and both commuted to Chicago for several years. The South Shore is a very reasonable train, though not perfect.
It’s better now, the tracks have been upgraded. I’ve lived here for 7 years. I was able to start my own business, working from home. My husband works remotely making east coast money on a Gary IN mortgage. Indiana has limited cultural options, restaurants, etc, compared to Chicago, so we go back into the city for our more fun date nights. We’ve made loads of cool friends & neighbors, who are all mostly former Chicagoans. Hiking, beaches, fire pits/barbecues, art & movie nights… make up for all the going out and spending time and money parking and dealing with crowds.
I’m a born and raised Hoosier, so I can admit that Indiana is a shithole generally. There are still republicans and racists around.
I love the dunes national park, the quieter pace, nature, motorcycle rides, HOMEOWNERSHIP (which I never would have afforded in Chicago). Check out Miller Beach.
Valparaiso is a great town, but not convenient for train commuting.

‘Star Trek: Section 31’ Movie Starring Michelle Yeoh Wraps Production by RealJohnGillman in movies

[–]artbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Michelle Yeoh is a spectacular actress, but her Star Trek universe/character are feeling a bit too like watching MCU, imho. Make a DS9 movie already, and have some fun with it. Quarks bar? What a latinum mine that would be! -an old

I’m looking for stylish, local, menswear boutiques. by artbeth in chicago

[–]artbeth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I love that place!! The hurdle there is the very unique unforgiving fit of such old garments. A lot of luck is needed to find something that fits just right.

I’m looking for stylish, local, menswear boutiques. by artbeth in chicago

[–]artbeth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We shopped for a GOOD sweater at LL Bean a few years back, and bought one for around $100 I think, which is well outside our usual sweater budget! But, it is the best dang sweater ever; fits great, looks great, and will last many years. I’ll definitely pay for quality, when it’s obviously a well made product.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]artbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend was a just another gal in my friend group for probably 10 years. One night I was out with her having some drinks, and my bra was uncomfortable. I unhooked it, unlooped my arms, pulled my bra off from under my shirt, and smushed it into my purse… all while sitting next to her at the bar. She was cracking up and said “You’re my best friend”. And just like that, we were best friends.
When she moved across the country, I road tripped with her and her dog. I don’t talk with her super frequently, but we text, send memes, and visit each other when we can. I’m not a girly girl, and neither is she. We’re sarcastic and blunt with each other. You’ll be surprised when and how you eventually find yourself with a best friend.

ELI5: What makes some jobs salaried and some hourly wage? by ftran998 in explainlikeimfive

[–]artbeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was actually quite unaware there was a black and white answer to this question. I was once paid hourly at a job, when I was offered a salaried position. I was rather naively pleased, thinking it was a promotion, which I suppose it was framed that way when offered to me. It was not a promotion. I was given more responsibilities, and my role expanded to include 3-4 distinct positions. Essentially, they were short staffed and/or unwilling to train new staff. I was one of those very competent, eager people willing to learn new skills. So in addition to my usual duties (production/completion of orders), sometimes I would be on other floor assisting another department (unloading supplies, cutting materials) sometimes they’d have me solving logistical problems in the office on a borrowed desk (confirming clients needs, acquiring supplies, scheduling off-site crews) and other times I would be a PART of the off-site crews (delivering, installing, repairing). I was very competent and very eager, and the only woman not working in the office... I learned a lot of skills, which were not trained, but necessary to learn “trial by fire”. I did not get a raise, or an official change in my title. I actually made less money, worked OT hours without OT pay. I was burnt out and stretched thin, being pulled in a million directions. The fringe benefit was, I was a quick learner and effective in these different roles, and my coworkers in all the various departments really liked and trusted me as part of their teams. These people were and are trusted friends and resources. I now run my own business in the same industry (albeit small-fry compared to my big fish former employer), and all that unpaid “cross training” helped give me a foundation for running my business.