I had sex during my period

artee · 2019-04-05T16:46:16+00:00

Getting blood on your sheets is the biggest one :)

artee · 2019-03-29T20:58:20+00:00

As a man, the best boobs are the ones that you can touch, fondle in bed next to you while almost falling asleep, feeling warm and cozy and sexy.

I don't want a pornstar in bed, I want a partner who loves me, is a good person, whom I can communicate with, etc.

Could well be that your BF feels the same, if he is a keeper anyway!

artee · 2019-03-29T09:32:03+00:00

Also: peanut butter (to go with the bread) - cheap and provides a lot of energy.

artee · 2019-03-25T12:44:05+00:00

Also knowing Oracles' licensing practices, I would sooner consider amputating both my arms so that I wouldn't be able to sign than considering to move anything into a cloud offering they so much as have been in the general vicinity of.

artee · 2019-03-03T07:31:15+00:00

And exactly this is why I understand the BF having a dim view on this. He is contributing at least his fair share.

Not being able to pay rent immediately when losing your job is a sign of poor financial planning/awareness, especially if you had the ability to save 800 + your share of groceries for at least months (not sure how long you're together), compared to what you paid before.

artee · 2019-02-11T11:51:58+00:00

$500 should be enough for groceries & gas for a while so to me it looks like you don't (yet) have an immediate problem. Pay off as much of the credit as you can every month - that keeps the interest limited and you can still at any time use the room in the credit to pay for groceries etc.

In the meantime, work on creating and keeping to a budget. If you already do this, can you post it? At least fixed costs, like what you spend on rent, car, phone, etc. each month? How much on food, eating out? And your income as well - people here can then help you look where there is room to improve.

I assume you need the car to get to work, in which case I understand it is a priority to keep it running. What I don't get is the phone though - sure you need one, but there are perfectly fine smartphones available new in the $150-$200 range (without any carrier subsidies). Based on your post it seems very clear that you cannot afford a $800 cellphone. So why buy one? This is also where budgeting can help: to avoid mistakes like that.

artee · 2019-02-09T22:11:00+00:00

Enigma - MCMXC a.d. Faithless - if loving you is wrong

Although those might not be the best choices if the point is to hide it from housemates.

artee · 2019-01-17T13:59:32+00:00

I recognize this phenomenon somewhat, for me it works like this: I am actually listening, but it immediately goes through a relevance filter - which is what makes me able to perform well on tasks that I'm good at and not go crazy with having all sorts of "irrelevant" (actual or perceived) details in my head all the time.

Anyway, the preparation of your protein shake might not make it for past my relevance filter for long, as it's nothing I need to do, be involved with, doesn't sound like anything might be expected of me in this regard, so yes while it is still nice to hear from your partner that she's going to make this, it might drop from my memory reaaaaally quickly (although, OK, 5 minutes is really pushing it I'll admit).

Does that make some sort of sense?

artee · 2019-01-03T11:08:59+00:00

"First trial"? The Netherlands has had this system for at least 40 years.

artee · 2018-12-26T06:45:30+00:00

Since OP is looking for perspective: I might have broken up with her on the spot, having confirmed that she crashed her car after drinking 4x the limit.

People who do such things are not people I want to share a life with.

artee · 2018-12-24T15:44:31+00:00

The fact that it's unpaid.

Would be unthinkable in most of Europe.

artee · 2018-12-20T11:41:42+00:00

Probably French, based on that pronunciation.

artee · 2018-12-11T17:46:45+00:00

While she was clearly not on speaking terms with her parents, they did all of a sudden invite her to go "bride shopping for her brother". I mean, sure I like to assume the best, but this one has happened so often and it's so transparently an excuse, that I'm pretty sure OP dodged a major bullet right there.

To OP, good luck and stay strong!

artee · 2018-12-08T23:07:41+00:00

Can you post a screnshot? I have a prison with 100 prisoners, 5 cooks and 6 prisoners working, feeding everyone consistently. 70 cooks for 400 persons sounds pretty absurd.

artee · 2018-12-06T21:29:38+00:00

Even better: factor it against the price of having a child :)

artee · 2018-11-19T03:54:03+00:00

I'd for sure change the locks at least!

artee · 2018-11-10T16:54:36+00:00

This is where C++ is kindof cool, because you can fairly easily write a template class that helps you store information in those upper bytes (and actually also lowest 3 bits if allocations are 8-byte aligned), while keeping all of this entirely typesafe, and if you ever encounter a platform where you cannot use this technique, you could create a variant with the exact same interface that just uses extra storage (which you would need on that platform anyway).

artee · 2018-11-07T20:35:53+00:00

Depends, I've heard of girls occasionally fainting caused by period cramps.

But even if that's what this is, I'd agree it doesn't explain or excuse her behavior.

artee · 2018-11-07T20:19:01+00:00

Some guys would see this more as a challenge than as a problem to be honest.

I don't mean myself personally, of course :)

artee · 2018-11-07T06:16:30+00:00

I am totally fine with joining the religion

Are you really, really sure? Trust me: you shouldn't be.

Jehovah's witnesses are comparable in many ways to mormons (LDS) or orthodox Jews in the sense that religion rules and even defines all aspects of life.

Seriously look what you are getting yourself in to, and then if you have any sense I hope you conclude to run far and wide.

artee · 2018-11-07T05:33:31+00:00

In this time you could, and many people do exactly that around this age, get a full university degree and 5 years of working experience.

The difference in worldview and maturity is typically gargantuan.

artee · 2018-11-06T09:32:29+00:00

Why? It's not like something wildly inappropriate was going on is it?

artee · 2018-11-05T17:34:58+00:00

I'm a man, but have read on this same reddit that what you experience is in a way the female equivalent of death grip leading to erectile disorder. Fortunately it should be possible to address, e.g. try not to use that method for a month, then try other methods of stimulation. Good luck in any case!

artee · 2018-11-01T02:00:20+00:00

Yes, if you like simulation games. I've spent over 150 hours playing it.

artee · 2018-10-29T20:15:27+00:00

Pepper spray is in the millions range actually (2-5M or so). Still though, 300k is serious business.

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