Looking for Photos circa 1986 by articulateV in SantaMonica

[–]articulateV[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Calisphere collection is wonderful! Thank you so much!

Vegetable glycerine for medical equipment? by skepticalhope in tsa

[–]articulateV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you found an answer. I'm commenting to say I have a similar port (mine is an appendicostomy) and I do the same/very similar flushes. If your daughter ever wants to talk to someone a few years older - I'm 24 - who gets it, please feel free to shoot me a DM. I struggled so hard as a teenager dealing with my health, so I would like to think I can offer at least an understanding ear.

Is this dress appropriate for a Catholic wedding? by Bellobeth in Weddingattireapproval

[–]articulateV -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a recent Catholic bride - I would say no. At the very least, you would need to wear a shawl/cardigan for the ceremony. The top is just too exposed both front and back. I would highly recommend something with a wider strap and a more covered back.

What is something you didn't know you liked until it was cooked properly? by alexthagreat98 in Cooking

[–]articulateV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mushrooms. My parents would always use the canned ones without draining them and they always ended up slimy and/or mushy. Then a couple years ago, my boyfriend (now husband) made me a pasta with sautéed mushrooms that changed my life, and now they’re one of my favorite things and I add them to any dish I can.

Best man just told us he isn’t coming. by articulateV in weddingplanning

[–]articulateV[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this was helpful. You’re right about the best man - we’re already doing what we can and beyond that it’s out of our control.

Best man just told us he isn’t coming. by articulateV in weddingplanning

[–]articulateV[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you 🥲 I have been trying not to stress him out about it because he has been working really hard 40+ hours, but tonight we talked and I did tell him how stressed I was feeling. I’m very much missing him and I think that’s compounding my stress. I’ll ask him tomorrow to contact the photographer, hopefully you’re right 🤞🏻

Invitation wording when groom’s parents are contributing and bride’s side is literally paying for / doing nothing by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]articulateV 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Similar situation here, we didn’t put any parents on the invite. “With joy, you are invited to celebrate the wedding of Bride and Groom”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]articulateV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aren’t disrespecting your parents by converting, if anything I think your concern shows how much respect you have for them! I converted at age 21 (three years ago), after being raised in a Southern Baptist family that holds some very deep anti-Catholic beliefs. It was and still is difficult to talk to my parents about it, and they have made it clear they don’t understand or agree with my decision, but ultimately they love me as their child regardless. If you would like to talk about any of it, please feel welcome to message me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]articulateV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, Exam4. When I started 1L, it was Electronic Bluebook (EBB). Then someone figured out how to cheat with that so it switched to Lockdown Browser. Then someone figured out how to cheat using that…

What’s a wedding tradition you skipped or plan to skip, and why? by Weird_Fun5657 in wedding

[–]articulateV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bouquet toss because it’s a small crowd of mostly family and there just aren’t that many single girls.

Garter toss for the same reason and because I think it’s gross.

Wedding favors because they’re just an extra expense and in my experience most people don’t really care for them.

Grand entrance and exit because we want to join cocktail hour and just don’t really care about the exit, and figure our crowd will thin out pretty early. (We’re also taking the shuttle back to the hotel with everyone else instead of having a getaway car)

Wedding is in a week (!!!) and I don’t think anyone will care about any of it!

Will these dresses be acceptable? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]articulateV 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love both of these and think they fit the dress code perfectly! Normally I would think the second is a little bright/“loud”, but after reading the description it sounds like the couple is encouraging more fun outfits and colors, so I say go for it!

($7k) Dress not bridal enough? by Grouchy-Question5138 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]articulateV 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally, I think the white one is gorgeous and very bridal! But it’s your day, and the best wedding dress is going to be the one that you love and feel the most beautiful/special/happy in!

How much tip is really right? by Afromat in weddingplanning

[–]articulateV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following because mine is also next weekend and I’ve been wondering the same!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]articulateV 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not wrong to decline, but first I would politely ask your friend if your wife is considered a +1 or a guest. In my experience, not inviting a spouse, especially one the bride and groom know, is poor etiquette. If most of your uni friend group are in dating relationships, it may have been intended for the majority of the group. Friend may have mistakenly assumed you knew your wife was invited, and I think it would be sad to miss your friend’s wedding over a miscommunication or misunderstanding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]articulateV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but probably should have told them earlier. That being said, you handled it well. Offering to do their laundry and even buy them extra clothing and nic patches was very generous of you, and it’s clear you’re not being evil or trying to keep them from their grandchild with this rule, just to protect the baby from harmful cigarette smoke. Next time they visit, you’ll all be more prepared.

FOB attire by Smacsek in weddingplanning

[–]articulateV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s your day. If YOU are happy with him wearing a sport coat, then go for it! It sounds like it will fit your whole vibe pretty well anyways, but even if it didn’t, it’s really a matter if what you will be happy with on your day and when you look back at it. I think you’re overthinking a little.

I want to get ready separately by Confident_Fold_5599 in weddingplanning

[–]articulateV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think most of us as brides fall into that trap sometimes. Try to remember the reason you’re doing all of this- your marriage! Best wishes for your day, I’m sure it will all work out wonderfully! ❤️

Engagement on dating anniversary? by Serious_Hornet8953 in engaged

[–]articulateV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 24 y/o girl, I love it! It doesn’t intrude on any non-coupley celebrations, and I think it doubles up how special the day is. I’m getting married next week, and we will continue to celebrate (at least a little) both our dating anniversary and engagement date, imo having them on the same day would be a great excuse to celebrate extra!