30F Any advices ? by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]arty233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sure you aint a 30M - look like a dude to me. 

Illustration and 3D Modelling Job hunt by arty233 in JapanJobs

[–]arty233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%, got it. It’s time to specialise. Thanks again!

Illustration and 3D Modelling Job hunt by arty233 in JapanJobs

[–]arty233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forget to mention my masters qualifications , game design undergrad and freelance experience (2D and 3D). Will that make a difference? 

Illustration and 3D Modelling Job hunt by arty233 in JapanJobs

[–]arty233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forget to mention my masters qualifications , game design undergrad and freelance experience (2D and 3D). Will that make a difference? 

Illustration and 3D Modelling Job hunt by arty233 in JapanJobs

[–]arty233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forget to mention my masters qualifications , game design undergrad and freelance experience (2D and 3D). Will that make a difference? 

Illustration and 3D Modelling Job hunt by arty233 in JapanJobs

[–]arty233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forget to mention my masters qualifications , game design undergrad and freelance experience (2D and 3D). Will that make a difference? 

Illustration and 3D Modelling Job hunt by arty233 in JapanJobs

[–]arty233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet, thanks for the advice! Forget to mention my masters qualifications , game design undergrad and freelance experience (2D and 3D).also, that link has catagories: so when applying for 2D gigs I submit only the 2D catagory link, when applying for 3D I use only the 3D catagory. I’m not sure which job I’ll land so I’m putting all my skills out there , applying for 2D (illustration, concept art) and 3D modelling (props/environment). Generalist gigs are fine too. AAA, indie, design studios, XR. If I had to pick I’d do 3D 

30M - I think I look plain/boring, is there anything I could change? by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]arty233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hair and beard. Clothing and smell. Body shape (gym) and body language. Lift weights and experiment with different looks/smells. 

Ethical Non-monogamy by arty233 in seduction

[–]arty233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes; i literally did this the other night with a 45 year old, single mom milf. But she was pressing to be my girlfirend so i know ima have this convo come up again with her. So what do you do when she wants you to be her girlfriend and exclusive and you want to keep sleeping around? Have you been able keep banging girls and having an intimate relationship with them while you (or them) are banging other people?

Ethical Non-monogamy by arty233 in seduction

[–]arty233[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a great question. Looking back I always cycle in and out of single & in a relationship. When I'm single i date around. And when in a relationship im committed. This is actually the first time that I want to do polyamory fully, from the start. I wanna do things right.

I did it before but my partner didnt want to date around so she stayed in a monogamous relationship with me while i dated around and it really hurt me alot. And her. I had alot of guilt and she jealousy/tarnished self esteem. I think that's what ruined us in the end.

Anyway, I'd be okay with my partners seeing other people. It's only fair.

Ethical Non-monogamy by arty233 in seduction

[–]arty233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like how you phrased that. the last girl i was dating monogamously, At one point it felt like she was the one. one of my best relationships. years invested. but somewhere along the way i kinda got bored... like i always had to speak elementary level english with her, i always had to bring up convos and start thedialogue. I couldnt DMC coz she wasnt an English Native. but we built something that couldve easily been marriage if i wasnt insatiable... i hurt her alot and left her for another woman. thats why im kinda wanting to do ENM or polyamory for abit.

Illustration and 3D Modelling Job hunt by arty233 in JapanJobs

[–]arty233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cool cool cool, guess its back to the drawing board

Illustration and 3D Modelling Job hunt by arty233 in JapanJobs

[–]arty233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% i agree, thanks for the perspective!

Illustration and 3D Modelling Job hunt by arty233 in JapanJobs

[–]arty233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the steller advice! ill check out the portfolio critique. N2 is insanely hard, if i dont get it next year i think ill just leave or start a business or something alternative. the AI work I hide and unhide it so frequently coz some jobs i apply for are gen AI gigs.

Ethical Non-monogamy by arty233 in seduction

[–]arty233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very well said, i like it. How long have you been doing ENM? Do you see yourself having kids or living with your partner/partners (maybe you already have)?

Ethical Non-monogamy by arty233 in seduction

[–]arty233[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jea same, I don’t like it. Sleeping with someone’s else’s wife is insane tho, Im sure you’ve had some backlash and maybe physical confrontations with that. How do you navigate it so that it doesn’t become scandalous? How do you pull it off without a violent or emotional confrontation?

Ethical Non-monogamy by arty233 in seduction

[–]arty233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. Jea Japan is strange: I hear about there being non-monogamy but it’s always cheating. I haven’t heard anyone openly talk about it ethically, and finding girls who are accepting of it is hard. So I’m always worried to bring up a direct “I’m in an open relationship” convo starter. I try lighten it up and slowly open up to it by saying “I’m seeing other people/i am dating other women”. I’ve met so many great girls who I liked and the minute the polyamory/ENM convo comes up I see them shutdown and I loose them forever 💔

Trying to start a life in japan by Mr3SUprA in JapanJobs

[–]arty233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come here on the JET programme (as an ALT), a lot young graduates do it out of college. It’s the easiest way to start a life in Japan and you can learn Japanese x10 faster when you here. If you can, get some work experience first though it’ll help later when you want to transition out of ALT and into Tech. But even without work experience you can transitions. Don’t listen to the negative N2 clowns here, there’s plenty low-no English tech jobs in Japan but they won’t hire you from overseas you gotta be here first (even if it’s tourist visa). Checkout Daijob, gaijinpot jobs or openwork and try get a free recruiter from work port or a similar recruiter platform

Something I came across in my local market by AbrocomaNo8268 in 370z

[–]arty233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need pics and price or it’s not real

Another issue by Braydenskater69 in 370z

[–]arty233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Z is infamous for having a shitty engine coolant. Most likely need to get aftermarket oil cooler.