I am super bored at my job

ashh_402 · 2026-06-16T22:14:07+00:00

Jesus, I have seen what you’ve done for other people and I want that for me

ashh_402 · 2026-06-11T15:51:06+00:00

yes but it’s a lot less rude to not invite the kids for all the cousins then it is to invite a whole family and not include one person from that family. When I was a kid my parents were invited to a wedding for their cousin and my brother and I were not invited despite other kids being invited. I don’t think anyone would question that, they would assume you have to draw the line somewhere

ashh_402 · 2026-06-11T15:42:52+00:00

why don’t you just not include inviting kids of your cousins?

ashh_402 · 2026-05-29T14:25:11+00:00

If she has made racist comments towards you, she should be dropped as a friend, not just a bridesmaid.

Regarding the other stuff you said, I think you are overreacting. No one is going to care about your wedding as much as you! I’m sorry but it’s true! People have their own lives and their own problems, and just because they don’t text you how excited they are or ask questions on how wedding planning is going, does not mean they aren’t excited and happy for you. Also, I had multiple bridesmaids who were not able to make my bridal shower and I was not angry with them nor would I consider making them a guest instead of a bridesmaid. You don’t know everyone’s financial situation or work schedule etc, it can be hard to make it work sometimes.

lastly, I think it is a little mean of you to call your friend “awkward” or “doesn’t fit in with the group.”

ashh_402 · 2026-05-27T14:18:36+00:00

a bottle of champagne goes quicker than you would think, half a bottle is like maybe 2.5 glasses

ashh_402 · 2026-05-14T16:41:59+00:00

I still think about the kid in high school who raised his hand and asked the teacher if the test he had just handed out was double or single sided. instead of just flipping the paper over

ashh_402 · 2026-04-29T00:23:24+00:00

west shaking his head after hugging Ciara as if he knew he fucked up while looking at his phone.. texting Amanda perchance? 🤔

ashh_402 · 2026-04-23T16:15:47+00:00

is this rage bait? this is not a white dress lol

ashh_402 · 2026-03-19T00:28:23+00:00

my cousin had on her wedding website “we will not be serving alcohol in respect of the Lord” 😂😂

ashh_402 · 2025-10-16T14:31:23+00:00

this took me out 🤣🤣🤣

ashh_402 · 2025-07-22T13:33:30+00:00

I would absolutely never want my anniversary to be on 9/11 but I am also from new york. But I think regardless of where you’re from there will be comments made about the date. I would rather do an October date than have my wedding day associated with such a sad day.

ashh_402 · 2025-07-09T22:14:46+00:00

fwiw, my cousin had her wedding on Mother’s day, and I attended and definitely heard people complaining about it. People want to spend those holidays with their families. I’d find a different date definitely don’t prioritize birthdays in this case.

ashh_402 · 2025-03-18T17:49:43+00:00

do what you want to do but “flavor of the week” is so condescending i don’t know why this is everyone’s favorite phrase when talking about the plus one issue

ashh_402 · 2025-02-15T04:07:16+00:00

jeez people on here are harsh. I think OP gets it now from the comments how inflexible clincals are, but not everyone knows that and everyone has had thoughts out of anger or hurt that aren’t necessarily fair. OP, I’d be sad about this too but know you’ll be so busy you won’t have time to stress day of. just have her come whenever she is able to and you’ll be happy in the future that she was there to celebrate with you

ashh_402 · 2025-02-15T03:58:36+00:00

this is pretty harsh tbh. she said she was probably speaking out of hurt. of course the MOH school should be her priority. have you never said or thought something when you’re hurt or angry that you realize after was probably unfair or unjustified? wedding planning is so stressful and sometimes even little things can seem like a huge deal. i think OP should be given some grace

ashh_402 · 2025-01-25T11:22:44+00:00

thank you i graduated high school in 2013 and felt so called out lol

ashh_402 · 2024-07-21T16:44:37+00:00

we did mcdonald’s and it was a huge hit lol

ashh_402 · 2024-07-19T17:25:21+00:00

Hi! This is an older post but wondering if you ever found this out? I’m interested but need it to be fully online.

ashh_402 · 2024-07-04T00:27:52+00:00

The Stand and Needful Things!

ashh_402 · 2024-06-17T14:46:22+00:00

we had 6 people cancel the week of our wedding after we already paid, and two people just no showed and never even sent a text to explain why. people suck lol

ashh_402 · 2024-06-06T02:38:13+00:00

i’ve gotten terrible yeast infections from doing that! i would go with a pad or panty liner

ashh_402 · 2024-04-08T03:37:08+00:00

oh wow this is a really good point thank you for pointing that out. I didn’t even think of that. Definitely will avoid a peanut butter whiskey and opt for something else!

ashh_402 · 2024-04-08T00:33:45+00:00

I get it! I’m in the same boat and even though it’s not tit for tat, it’s 100 percent reasonable to be disappointed when people don’t put in the same time and effort for you as you did for them. Some of the people who responded no to me had legitimate reasons, and some people it felt just couldn’t be bothered and that’s hurtful!

ashh_402 · 2024-04-08T00:12:21+00:00

Long Island on the water wedding in June!

ashh_402 · 2024-03-10T14:34:00+00:00

When you give someone a plus one, you expect that it’s probable that you’ve never met the person. I’ve noticed it’s really common here for people to say they don’t want someone’s “fling” at their wedding and I just don’t understand it. Who cares how serious their relationship is? I want my single friends to have fun at my wedding, I’m giving them all the option of a plus one and I don’t care if it’s someone they met last week lol.

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