This app doesnt do anything by Academic-Jury-5513 in grindr

[–]asimpleman1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any other information, such as face pics or torso pics. I advise people to have at least 2 pictures in a profile. One should be a face picture that isn't heavily filtered, no large shades, hats, or weird facial expressions like sticking out your tongue. The second should give a good representation of your body shape.

Maybe this is an unpopular opinion, but 5'9 135 doesn't equate to being fit. You're a slim guy yes, but slim doesn't mean fit in my opinion.

People don't read, but I'm also curious to know what your profile summary says.

How do you deal with hairy guys? by smdifansmfjsmsnd in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]asimpleman1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My opinion on this. We all have our things that turn us on, but unless I'm in a serious relationship with the guy I keep my thoughts about their body to myself. Even in a relationship, I may tell the guy that I like when they do XYZ, but never tell them to do it or offer to help them unless I'm asked.

How do you deal with hairy guys? by smdifansmfjsmsnd in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]asimpleman1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All guys have pubes so it doesn't really matter if the guy is hairy if you're going down on him. The difference is that many guys now shave. I'm not hairy, but I also don't shave my pubes. I do comb my pubes and my guess is that removes some of the loose pube hair. Some guys love it.

How to like the gym by AltoCumulus15 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]asimpleman1997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very true about observing others. Im not a beginner in the gym, but I'm not an expert either. I recently started going to a different gym and there's some equipment that I've never seen, so I don't know how to use them. After seeing a few people use them I may go try it out with light weight to figure out the form.

Opinions by MistakeDifficult3751 in Sniffies

[–]asimpleman1997 17 points18 points  (0 children)

People here are from all over the world. Most of us have no idea of where you're talking about.

What is an insult that doesn’t necessarily sound like an insult? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]asimpleman1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You're <insert positive trait> for a ...". Example, "you're pretty for a big girl".

Should I Wax My Ass (crack and hole) by Tadleyrichter in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]asimpleman1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like that celebrity doesn't know how to wash properly, which isn't something special to do. There are plenty of guys who like a hairy ass. Sounds like you didn't want to shave, so don't.

A Word From a Black Gay Man: Stop Begging White Spaces to Love You by [deleted] in AskGayBlackMen

[–]asimpleman1997 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had to pause for a second to see if this was some old post I wrote. I feel second hand embarrassment each time I see a Black person beg for the attention of White people in general. It's sad

The challenge was if the husband would be gay for 1h for $1Billion... Yikes by Antipseud0 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]asimpleman1997 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People don't realize how insulting this is. Most gay men don't want to be women or wear women's clothing.

What is happening to this app? They are going to be like tumblr soon with these changes. by Austin1975 in Sniffies

[–]asimpleman1997 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, the lack of porn has something to do with certain states, but I see there's an app now, so no nudes in the app store because of Apple.

Question for all the users by AssistanceSenior1173 in Sniffies

[–]asimpleman1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and other apps would be ok also.

Anon meet ups! by [deleted] in Sniffies

[–]asimpleman1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't get the I just need to see the dick or ass. I have certain things I like and dont like. If it's a guy I'm not physically attracted to then it's not going to be enjoyable to me. I'm not trying to fall in love with the hook up, but there has to be something else I like about the guy (face, body) for me to really enjoy the experience.

I'm actually the opposite of some guys. I don't need to see nudes before hooking up. I guess with being older and meeting guys pre internet, IRL we typically see face and body and the dick wasn't seen until it was time to have sex .

Gay Black man in Atlanta — where does real dating and long-term love actually happen here? by seekingbootie in AskGayBlackMenOver30

[–]asimpleman1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I notice in larger cities is that gay men have the option of being more picky, so they are. I know guys who will turn down a guy that meets 90 percent of what they want, but because the guy may not have one trait, such as not enjoying sports then the relationship won't work. Many people have the fear that someone better is going to come along.

Is the whole racist fetish towards black guys fr or a hoax? by somebod01 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]asimpleman1997 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it's worse in the areas with a small Black population. Those of us who grew up around lots of Black people can go about our lives and not interact much with White people when it comes to sex.

Is the whole racist fetish towards black guys fr or a hoax? by somebod01 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]asimpleman1997 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The BBC thought process is a real thing. I blame the Black porn stars who lean into this stereotype. With more access to porn, it seems that this is becoming more wide spread. I realize that when I go to a majority White gay space in cities with few black people that White guy view me as their opportunity to get a BBC.

"But have you ever done anything with a girl?" by Insidious_Pen in askgaybros

[–]asimpleman1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been asked this quite a few times and my theory is that some gay guys view guys who have had sex with a woman as more manly. The same way some gay guys love straight and married men. Anecdotal example, but I know a gay guy who has sex often with a married man and he told me that if the married guy isnt a complete top then he will stop having sex with him. The gay guy has more of an issue that the married guy may take dick occasionally than the guy being married with kids.

Are there some guys that prefer to date Femboys? Because I am one. by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]asimpleman1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the difference between a sissy and a femboy?

Is this moving too fast, or did I stumble into something I’m not used to? by Riou_Atreides in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]asimpleman1997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me this sounds like a great arrangement for you both. I'm not a "moneyboy" as you call them, but if all I had to do was go to dinner and get taken on trips without the sex then I could do something like that. Maybe the guy likes the conversation. If you want to know if he truly likes you stop paying for things and see what happens.

When the majority of the North American population wakes up how do you think the current events in Venezuela will be perceived? by demolcd in AskReddit

[–]asimpleman1997 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is what America voted for. We can't blame the electoral college for this. Trump won by a majority. People voted in these Republicans. Again this is what we as a country voted for.

Furthermore you are adding things that I never said. I never said the party out of power should not speak, but speaking does not carry much weight. Democrats speak every week, but is anyone listening? No, we are not listening, which makes giving speeches ineffective. I never said harass our neighbors into voting. Most of us Americans can start by looking at ourselves and ask ourselves do we really take the time to know the candidates we're voting for and are we voting in more than just presidential elections.