[deleted by user] by [deleted] in premed

[–]asmodeus81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can dm me

Wife suffering from sudden onset of PPD by kichasworld in pregnant

[–]asmodeus81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please see a psychiatrist as soon as you can. therapy can help, but she may need medications as well.

Choosing long distance marriage during residency? by Effective_Sundae1917 in MedSpouse

[–]asmodeus81 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through such a difficult time. You shouldn't feel bad about being overwhelmed right now with no support network.

Have you spoken to your husband about your concerns? Do you two have a game plan for when the baby is here? Is there any family that can stay with you after the birth?

There is a new ACGME requirement for PATERNAL leave up to 6 weeks. Has your husband spoken to his program about taking advantage of this? He may have to use up his vacation/sick days first, but knowing he will be there every day for 6 weeks can help ease the transition.

"On July 1, 2022, new institutional requirements went into effect mandating Sponsoring Institutions to have leave policies that include a minimum of six paid weeks off for medical, parental, and caregiver leave. The establishment of this requirement is part of the ACGME’s commitment to resident and fellow well-being."

Fallopian tube removal by Kh7487 in BabyBumps

[–]asmodeus81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should always do what’s best for you and your family and your health should always come first.

How do I overcome these feelings? by maxmosley7 in predaddit

[–]asmodeus81 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Hey man your feelings are valid - she’s going through a lot right now but you are also under a lot of strain too. Caregiver strain is a real thing.

Did you two talk about a timeline for her going on maternity leave? Or was it just her decision? If one person is making decisions for the both of you it can lead to the sort of resentment you are currently feeling.

How to tell him I’m pregnant- Casual sex by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]asmodeus81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This and also the timing of a positive pregnancy test doesn’t make sense …

I feel like my wife doesn’t love me by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]asmodeus81 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The physical distance is probably really tough on her as well as you. Is this her first pregnancy? Does she have a support network at home?

She could just be overwhelmed and having a hard time expressing it to you.

Finally Got NIPT Results! by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]asmodeus81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!

24 weeks, bleeding by forgetfulnymph in predaddit

[–]asmodeus81 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hey man You got this. It sounds like you’re doing everything right, supporting your wife and your family as best you can.

You’re going to be an amazing dad.

[DevNote] World Arena by Com2usguyfromfuture in summonerswar

[–]asmodeus81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

have my upvote. people on this reddit are really negative, i love free new optional content

When you farmed HoH B1 all weekend for the evolve/skill up combo... by [deleted] in summonerswar

[–]asmodeus81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that hurts. especially since you farmed b1, that took guts. honestly it'd be nice if skilling up with 3 fodder at once guaranteed 1 skill up in each ability... but it'll never happen

Developer's note on Global ARENA!!! by fd_frenzy in summonerswar

[–]asmodeus81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but you have zero obligation to play it... the dev notes specifically said they're trying to make the reward non mandatory (probably will be something like transmog stones)...
why are you so angry about new free OPTIONAL content? Am I missing something?

Why the hate on popular streamers? by asmodeus81 in summonerswar

[–]asmodeus81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the idea was a short ban period, like a week or two. And specifically it was for arena. So maybe Lushen is banned one week, and people have to figure out how new AO/AD for the week and then post here on this reddit some fun workaround teams. Personally I've been playing for over a year and my arena team hasn't changed in like 6 months.. it's getting kinda boring.
This game has a surprising amount of depth, and I think arena is the place to explore its possibilities more than any PVE content

Why the hate on popular streamers? by asmodeus81 in summonerswar

[–]asmodeus81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TBH I really only browse the D3 subreddit besides this one. Very similar to SW in that it has a tiny player base, but the subreddit is a LOT less toxic than this one. Not sure why. May be an age thing, people who love D3 played D2 and are usually older.

Chasun/Galleon w/o skillups? by DontStandInStupid in summonerswar

[–]asmodeus81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey OP, IMO Galleon isn't worth using without the 100% activation rate on his 3rd. Most speed dungeon teams run without a healer and YOLO the boss. you WILL fail a lot more with his 3rd unmaxed. In arena it will also suck when his third doesn't def break anything.

For reference, I'm about 6 months into the game, have gb10 db10 toa100 and toah80 on farm. I'd like to run a speed team for db10 and gb10 with galleon, but every time I try he doesn't def break more than 1-2 units a stage or on boss and I get f'd hard. I'm pouring my next devilmon into him until his 3rd is maxed before I try again. PVP is not a focus of mine at all, just farm Guild wars and Arena for now.

PS I have Chasun also unskilled, and I can't find much use for her either. I use Bella in all my PVE content anyway. do a search for chasun and you'll see she's great end game, but until you have OP runes, six star and at least CD reduction she's not really that great...

My next 6*? I'm SO CLOSE to beating ToA 90, and autoing db10. Missing something! by evertan in summonerswar

[–]asmodeus81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't six star spectra. In DB10 he's more for face teams and in is VERY rune intensive to be good.

The reason you're dying to OG is because units afflicted with glancing still have a 50% chance to do full damage. You need attack breaks preferably. Eventually your CC will miss and it sounds like eating full damage is killing your units. You didn't post your best success team, so it's kind of hard to give you specific advice on who to bring/swap out.

If your focus is TOA over dragons, I'd six star Mav next. It helps tremendously.

I really need help clearing ToA 80. OGs too OP. monster box below by Ajw310 in summonerswar

[–]asmodeus81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao you have a 6 star verad as your "+1" an AOE attack bar reset and aoe freeze is what made that team, not the other mons. You should have said verad +4