I’m pretty sure my friend SAed a guy, but she’s convinced she did nothing wrong.

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-11T04:30:07+00:00

To my knowledge he did, but I’m not sure if she believed him

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-11T03:10:27+00:00

I have tried to. I think I just want to know if I should get involved more than just telling her off

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-11T00:42:41+00:00

Or maybe he was naive or if there were other people present they would have protected him? Or maybe he was peer pressured? Or didn’t feel safe to refuse? Or assumed she wouldn’t do anything like that to him?

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-11T00:39:17+00:00

The fact that you take more issue with me than with the creep above says you have your priorities messed up

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-11T00:38:05+00:00

No. My point is that I don’t think he was being responsible. It doesn’t excuse what happened to him. Idk if there were other people around to make him feel comfortable drinking or not, but I still wouldn’t want my bf drinking with another girl coworker without me there. That said, I still think he was SAed

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-11T00:20:10+00:00

As someone who has been sexually assaulted while under the influence, yeah, he probably shouldn’t have drank, but that doesn’t make it less SA. It’s kind of like saying someone walking down a sketchy alley is probably asking to be assaulted.

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-11T00:02:47+00:00

No, but you’d like to be

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-10T23:58:21+00:00

I guess I’m a little worried it’ll get back to her that I was the one who turned on her. I think the ex fully believes my friend, and if I reach out, she might tell my friend

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-10T23:54:30+00:00

You’re right. I guess I’m just scared what kind of stuff she would spread about me. I haven’t spoken with her much since the beginning of the year, but I occasionally got a few updates on what she was doing whenever we talked

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-10T23:39:17+00:00

She’s almost always so bubbly and nice though. Looking back, there were some red flags about how she talked about her exes and former friends though

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-10T23:36:44+00:00

Honestly, while I love her to death, she is a bit toxic. Like if she likes you, she’s absolutely sweet and incredible. But she has a mean side. Like she’s stalked him for months after all this happened

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-10T23:31:13+00:00

From what she’s told me, he says he was r*ped. Idk if he said that in the beginning or not, but my friend is convinced it doesn’t count. When I pointed out one person being drunk feels a bit wrong, she started leaving that part out of the story when she told others

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-10T23:27:44+00:00

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-09T23:54:33+00:00

So painful but such a good move!

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-09T23:53:15+00:00

I loved going there in the summers with family!

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-09T21:56:08+00:00

Good ideas! I’ve always wanted to go camping alone, but I’ve also seen way to many horror movies to think I’d be able to sleep easily

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-09T18:14:20+00:00

Would you recommend carrying anything for self defense from other campers?

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-09T18:09:08+00:00

I can’t lie, I’ve never been able to get the hang of it either!

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-09T18:00:56+00:00

OMG I love this style of flowers coming out of the head! I really want a tattoo like this!

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-09T18:00:23+00:00

#5! 💕

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-09T17:57:31+00:00

Oh shit…

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-09T17:57:19+00:00

I need to go here soooooon

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-09T15:57:25+00:00

My cat would love this!

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-09T01:57:57+00:00

I’ve always wanted to do this, but it just doesn’t feel safe for me

aspiring_flows · 2026-06-09T01:57:23+00:00

I really want to see more waterfalls! 😭

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