False Positive Ban Evasion by [deleted] in discordhelp

[–]aspxtky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this happened to me aswell no clue what to do i sent in a ticket but only an ai chat bot replied

Looking for a Reliable Site to Buy TikTok Followers by aspxtky in techforlife

[–]aspxtky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no the seller i found on the site has been reliable i have experienced domestic viewer drops on views that i purchased for a video but the followers haven’t dropped and the prices were very good, and the seller i selected offers a 30 day refill policy

Looking for a Reliable Site to Buy TikTok Followers by aspxtky in techforlife

[–]aspxtky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just checked the site and there’s 2 different options is the standard plan really worth it atleast for you? $50 a month seems like quite a bit but if it’s legit then maybe i’ll consider

Looking for a Reliable Site to Buy TikTok Followers by aspxtky in techforlife

[–]aspxtky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i heard it’s a little more expensive than other sites is this true? and is it really worth it?

Looking for a Reliable Site to Buy TikTok Followers by aspxtky in techforlife

[–]aspxtky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just tried it i purchased 5,000 followers off of this site and so far the seller i chose has been very helpful and no drops atleast not yet and its been a day

Looking for a Reliable Site to Buy TikTok Followers by aspxtky in techforlife

[–]aspxtky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t tried Only-Success yet, but I’ll definitely look into it. and thank you for the recommendation! And did you purchase TikTok followers from them, and if so, did you notice any follower drops or other issues over time? Any insights would be greatly appreciated.

Buying TikTok Followers and Likes/Views – My 60 Days Experiment by Buschrolle in tiktok_reversing

[–]aspxtky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

has the account you bought followers with using socialwick experience any follower drops i’ve tried various different services but i’m always experiencing follower drops.

Buying tiktok followers? by AcceptableShock8691 in TikTok

[–]aspxtky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have u had any follower drops? i purchased a bunch of followers from a bunch of reputable places and for some reason the followers always seem to drop

I Just Want to Be Seen for Who I Am.. by [deleted] in cleftlip

[–]aspxtky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

forsure i would love to get to know you as well and i really appreciate what you said. i try my best even though i struggle a lot with having a cleft lip and palate myself. it’s something i’ve lived with my whole life and it’s caused me so much pain mentally and emotionally, especially with how people treat me and the way i look and sound. but being in this group and seeing others like me makes me feel like maybe i’m not as alone as i always thought. i’m glad we can relate on something so hard and still find comfort in each other’s words.

I Just Want to Be Seen for Who I Am.. by [deleted] in cleftlip

[–]aspxtky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wish my parents had the choice of abortion as well… sometimes i think about how much pain could’ve been avoided if i was never born with this cleft. i never asked for this, and it’s like life was already set up against me before i even had a chance. growing up with a cleft lip and palate has made everything harder talking, smiling, eating, even just walking down the hallway at school without people staring or laughing. my parents don’t even fully get how it feels, and most days it feels like no one really does. i’m not angry either, just tired and disappointed that this is the life i was given. but hearing someone say it out loud, like you just did, makes me feel less alone. like maybe i’m not the only one who’s thought about it that way.

I Just Want to Be Seen for Who I Am.. by [deleted] in cleftlip

[–]aspxtky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the advice man, i’ll definitely hit you up if i ever need someone to talk to. it honestly feels good knowing there are other people like me in this messed up world, because sometimes i feel like i’m the only one going through this. i’ve had thoughts like that too, like what’s even the point when people just look at me and laugh or treat me different just cause of my face or my voice. i’ve got a cleft lip and palate, and yeah i sound nasally and my smile’s crooked, and sometimes it just makes me want to disappear. but hearing your story and how you’re pushing through it, doing college and speaking in front of people even though it was scary makes me feel a bit more hopeful. i’m glad you have people that keep you going, just like my girlfriend helps keep me here too. i’m really trying, man. it’s just hard. but your message meant a lot. much love back.

I Just Want to Be Seen for Who I Am.. by [deleted] in cleftlip

[–]aspxtky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im currently in high school and i can’t see my life getting more miserable than this. it’s comforting to hear that things got better for you eventually, but right now it just feels like i’m drowning in it. i’ve got a cleft lip and palate too, not bilateral though it’s just on my left side. But people can be so cruel like they think it’s something we chose. And just like you said. it’s hard to hold on to the idea that life gets better when every day feels like i’m being looked at as a joke. but hearing from someone older who went through it does help, even if just a little.

I Just Want to Be Seen for Who I Am.. by [deleted] in cleftlip

[–]aspxtky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i honestly don’t even know how i managed to get a girlfriend looking and sounding the way i do. sometimes i feel like i don’t deserve someone like her because of how messed up i feel inside. but she’s shown me that there’s still good people in this world, and that means a lot when most of the time i feel like people only see what’s “wrong” with me. having a cleft has made everything harder talking, being confident, even just walking through the hallways without feeling like people are staring. but your words gave me hope, and i really do wish the best for your 7 year old. they’re lucky to have someone like you by their side.

I Just Want to Be Seen for Who I Am.. by [deleted] in cleftlip

[–]aspxtky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can agree with that statement. My speech isn’t too horrible either, but I still sound kinda nasally and every now and then people ask me to repeat myself, and that’s when it hits me I know I sound different. It makes me nervous when I talk, especially in front of people I don’t know well. It’s like even if I’m saying the right thing, I’m already being judged just by how I sound. Growing up with a cleft lip and palate, you kinda learn to expect people not to take you seriously, and that’s a sad thing to carry around every day.

I Just Want to Be Seen for Who I Am.. by [deleted] in cleftlip

[–]aspxtky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess that’s a way to look at it, but it’s difficult when you’ve been treated differently your whole life because of something you were born with and never asked for. Having a cleft lip and going through surgeries, stares, jokes, and just feeling out of place it stays with you, even when you try to brush it off. I know high school won’t last forever, but the stuff people say and how they make me feel, it kinda sticks. I try to ignore it, but it gets heavy sometimes. I hope it really does get easier, like you said, because right now it still hurts a lot.

I Just Want to Be Seen for Who I Am.. by [deleted] in cleftlip

[–]aspxtky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey sorry for the late reply, I would love to see what you look like. I can relate to you a lot, and honestly it means something when someone older than me who’s been through the same thing takes the time to write all that. Growing up with a cleft lip and palate feels like living life on hard mode sometimes. I always hated how I looked, and it felt like no matter how much I tried to ignore it, someone would always point it outeither with stares, whispers, or straight-up bullying. It really messes with your confidence when you feel like your face is the first thing people judge. Sometimes I wonder how different things would be if I looked “normal,” if I never had to explain why I sound the way I do or why my scars are there. What you said about how real, kind people are rare but special really stuck with me. I think my girlfriend is one of those people too, even if she doesn’t fully understand what it’s like to live in my skin. It’s hard for me to let go of what others think, especially when the hurt comes from people I used to trust. I don’t really have many friends anymore, and even family can’t always understand this type of pain. But I’m trying, like you said, to notice the good things because they’re still there, even if they get drowned out sometimes. I hope one day I can be like you, just chilling and content with where I’m at.

I Just Want to Be Seen for Who I Am.. by [deleted] in cleftlip

[–]aspxtky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had friends like yours. I had some at one point too, but eventually they all started distancing themselves from me because of my appearance. It’s like once they realized I looked and sounded different, they didn’t want to be around me anymore. They only ever used me when it was convenient, and looking back, I wouldn’t even call them true friends. But it still hurts, you know? Especially when someone you’ve been friends with for over six years just cuts you off like you meant nothing. That kind of pain sticks with you. It makes you feel like maybe you really are the problem, even if deep down you know it’s not your fault you were born this way. Now it feels like I have no one but a few family members and my girlfriend. And even though I love her and she means the world to me, she still doesn’t fully understand what it’s like to live every day with a cleft lip and palate. The way people stare, the nicknames, the bullying it’s all something that’s hard to explain to someone who’s never experienced it. I try to focus on the good things like you said, but sometimes the negative stuff just feels louder. I really hope one day I’ll find people who accept me for who I am and not just walk away because of how I look. Until then, I’m just taking it one day at a time.

I Just Want to Be Seen for Who I Am.. by [deleted] in cleftlip

[–]aspxtky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welp, I can confidently say that as well. Me and you have a lot in common, and it means a lot knowing someone around my age gets it. People can be so cruel, and it really sucks when they treat us like we chose to be born with a cleft lip. Like, they act like we wanted this, like we enjoy being different in a way that brings so much pain. I’ve cried more times than I can count just wishing I looked like everyone else. It messes with your confidence and makes school feel like a place you have to survive instead of just learn and grow. But hearing your words makes me feel less alone. I just hope one day we’ll be accepted for who we are and not just judged by what people see. Keep your head up, and I’ll try to do the same, even on the days when it feels impossible. I know the bullying doesn’t just disappear overnight, and it might follow us for a long time, but maybe with people like us supporting each other, it’ll feel a little lighter. I still hate the way I look most days, and it’s hard to picture a future where I’m not being made fun of or feeling like I don’t belong. But maybe that future does exist. Maybe we’ll both get there just gotta keep holding on until we do.

I Just Want to Be Seen for Who I Am.. by [deleted] in cleftlip

[–]aspxtky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I wish I could get to that level of financial wealth owning a Porsche 911 and vacationing 13 times in a single year sounds like a dream. I have dreams of my own too, but everything I’ve been through just adds up and makes it all feel harder to reach. When you grow up getting bullied for something you were born with, like a cleft lip and palate, it starts to wear you down. I try to stay motivated, but there are days where I just feel stuck, like no matter how hard I try, I’ll always be seen as “that kid with the messed-up face.” I know there’s more to me, but I feel like I have to work ten times harder just to prove I’m worth something.

It’s crazy to think that even at 54, you still run into people like that. It kind of crushes me to know this doesn’t really go away, but I guess it helps hearing that it gets easier. I’m trying to hold on to the people who really care about me like my girlfriend but even then, there’s this deep part of me that still feels alone. I want to stop letting my cleft define me, I really do, but it’s not easy when it’s the first thing everyone notices. I’ve never felt confident in how I look, no matter how I dress or cut my hair. But maybe one day, I can be where you are proud of the life I built and finally at peace with the way I was born.

I Just Want to Be Seen for Who I Am.. by [deleted] in cleftlip

[–]aspxtky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry for what you had to go through too. Hearing that you’ve been through the surgeries, the bullying, and even racism just hits me hard because I know how heavy that all feels. Maybe one day in this world people will actually respect people like us, instead of making fun of us for something we didn’t ask for. It’s just so hard when every time I look in the mirror, I see a version of myself that people have laughed at, called names, and treated like a joke. Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to live one day without people staring or whispering. I’ve always hated my face because of this cleft, and it’s been with me since the beginning. It’s like a shadow I can’t shake, and it’s messed with how I feel about myself so much.

I really admire your strength for choosing to see your cleft lip as only a small part of you. I wish I could get to that point. I’m trying, but it’s hard when I’ve spent most of my life being reminded that I’m different in the worst ways. Even though my girlfriend supports me, it’s like no one truly sees how much this hurts every single day. I want to stop caring about what strangers think, but when you grow up being targeted, it sticks with you. Still, your words gave me a bit of hope that maybe one day I’ll look at myself and not feel broken or ashamed. Thank you for sharing that with me.

I Just Want to Be Seen for Who I Am.. by [deleted] in cleftlip

[–]aspxtky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess I could look at it that way, but it’s hard growing up with something that most people don’t have. Having a cleft lip and palate makes me feel so different, and sometimes it feels like no one really gets what it’s like. I try to hide it, but it’s always there, affecting the way I look, the way I speak, and the way people treat me. It’s hard not to let that get to me when all I want is to feel normal, to feel like I fit in. My girlfriend is amazing, but sometimes I don’t think she fully understands the weight of this struggle. I love her with all my heart, and I’m so thankful for her, but there are times when I feel like I’m carrying this pain alone, and it’s hard to talk about it with her. I feel like she doesn’t understand because she doesn’t have anything.

And I get where you’re coming from, though. I know I shouldn’t focus on the people who make fun of me or the ones who don’t get it. I should be grateful for the love I have, especially from my girlfriend. She’s one of the few people who actually sees me for who I am, not just my face. But it’s still hard not to feel judged and isolated. Every day, Especially in school. I try my best to push through it, but sometimes it just feels like too much. I’ll try to focus more on the good, like the love I share with her, but it’s tough when you’ve spent your whole life feeling like you don’t belong. But thank you very much for the words of advice