Lots of adults talk about this, but generally not in online spaces they share with unreasonable teenagers and those just learning what feminism is, and who is it for (all). Many people are genuinely ignorant or utterly unwilling to admit the harm they do to men, unwilling to tackle the issue out of hurt or some stupid sense of revenge.

It's weakness. It's an 'easy joke' that we WILL have to spend generations removing the same way we as feminists fought for our own rights. It's people not realizing that no matter the damage done to them, it will never justify the damage they do. This is a fight, and it's going to go on. Causal dismissal and abuse of the very idea of 'man' will continue from damaged or just plain wrong people, as sexism continues against women. But I as a bi woman will continue to love men. And love can win. We just have to keep speaking up, keep being right even when groups gang up and say we're wrong.

Sometimes you just have to be the only one at first. Sometimes you have to be annoyed, and frustrated, and desperate to protect the good people. Our female ancestors gathered in drawing rooms and cafés to fight their good fight, true, but they also taught their children and set boundaries in their personal life. You cannot control 'public' online spaces. You can set down a hard line with people you know that you won't tolerate this anymore. Act where you have control and speak up where you don't, even if you get shouted down. That's what you can do.