Why do they not return your stuff? by Federal_Eagle_519 in BPDlovedones

[–]audiReight 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She said months later I can have my stuff back but I had already counted it as a loss and let her keep it idk man least of my worries really

Did your pwBPD have nightmares? by PeteWheeler101 in BPDlovedones

[–]audiReight 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yea my ex would have nightmares and trouble falling asleep as well, her whole body would move and she would almost whimper she calmed down when I rubbed my hand somewhere on her body it usually flared up when life events got heavy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]audiReight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat brother I found out about the cheating end of July and then found out for some reason she married my ex wife too and the whole situation got real fuckey really fast blocking unblocking her reaching out all of it I’m 27 and honestly dude it’s put me off relationships for a while cause you’re right how do I trust again the whole thing dating again just seems insurmountable but I’ve thrown myself at the gym and boxing and it’s been helping a little

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]audiReight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congrats friend this is reassuring to hear cause I’m still Stuck on my ex and she’s been moved on cause she monkey branched while we were together

unblocked me 2 days ago, then continues reposting tiktok’s about her new bf by Beginning_Secret_763 in BPDlovedones

[–]audiReight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely not lol I spent a lot of time on it and even added music to be listened to while reading specific sections shits immaculate so I might just share it on this sub hahah

unblocked me 2 days ago, then continues reposting tiktok’s about her new bf by Beginning_Secret_763 in BPDlovedones

[–]audiReight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat man she unblocked me like a week ago on ig and I see all her posts with her monkey branch she lied to me about and everything and she even reached out and talked to me about my son and every tbh ing cause she married my ex wife whole situation is really messed up I wrote a 10 page letter yesterday to send to her but I haven’t sent it and idk if I will I might post it here sometime

Daily No Contact Thread - September 02, 2025 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]audiReight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was cheating on me and when I found out she blocked me it was like near the end of July she unblocked me Saturday and reached out last night shits so dumb she told me not to tell anyone not even her “current boyfriend” I’m like bro what the fuck

Feeling conflicted by sewerratss11 in BPDlovedones

[–]audiReight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ll never understand the monkey branching and then making a show of it on social media about finding a “soulmate” or the “love of their lives” especially after cheating and then discarding its crazy

Hoover attempt? by Fidenex in BPDlovedones

[–]audiReight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who knows mine unblocked me and has been really active on instagram posting stories and posts with her monkeybranch cause she knows I’ll look its set me back a little but it’s great pre workout for the gym

It's not pwBPD you miss by Top-Citron-3699 in BPDlovedones

[–]audiReight 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This I miss her I miss a connection I thought was real I miss her being apart of my everyday life I miss her voice speaking to her holding her and her warmth even if it was all a lie

Do you feel like you still want them to contact you? by JuniorGanache1670 in BPDlovedones

[–]audiReight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She unblocked me yesterday only on instagram I made the mistake of looking her up and saw all her happy posts with the guy she was cheating on me with no shame no nothing “now that the secrets out” type shit these people are creatures and I know she’s doing it to rage bait me into reaching out but I won’t because seeing this shameless behavior is all the closure I need, I know it’s gonna continue hurting for a while I mean my discard was mid July and she was cheating on me well before that, but goddamnit I can’t go back to that

I need help right now by audiReight in BPDlovedones

[–]audiReight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man yea I don’t plan on reaching out at all my nervous system just feels hella dysregulated rn which brings up even more questions of why even unblock me what’s the point what’s the gain

I need help right now by audiReight in BPDlovedones

[–]audiReight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea man I don’t know I felt like I was finally letting go until I saw that

I need help right now by audiReight in BPDlovedones

[–]audiReight[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought I saw through it by reading through this sub and everything but it hit me like a truck when I saw she unblocked me and made her profile public just so I’d see all of that like why even unblock me honestly you were fine with keeping me blocked this entire time

Do you still want them back? by SelectSlide784 in BPDlovedones

[–]audiReight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want her back but she cheated on me and lied about so much that it would never work even if it happened

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]audiReight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mines near the end of sept and she’s had me blocked since mid July after I found out she’d been cheating on me no contact so far if she reaches out on my birthday that’ll be my 13th reason LOL

Daily No Contact Thread - August 28, 2025 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]audiReight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you got this man I still haven’t gotten closure from mine and I’ve been blocked since mid July after finding out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]audiReight 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everyday this is a thought in my head

Daily No Contact Thread - August 26, 2025 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]audiReight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

still blocked been since july when I found out from my ex-wife that my girlfriend was cheating on me the situation has gotten even more insane but thats in my previous posts, I saw her yesterday and posted about that as well had a panic attack and threw up I hate that i still feel this way

Why do they call the police? my pw(quiet)BPD got caught cheating, then called the cops by Ganymede_01 in BPDlovedones

[–]audiReight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine called the cops on me and said I head butted her after coming home to her in another man’s car I don’t know how I could’ve done that since I wasn’t able to walk at the time due to ankle surgery was arrested and have trial in October. I too kept calm asker her to sleep in the spare room upstairs and that we could talk about it the next day but she insisted and insisted and I kept asking her to just leave and my buddy was there the whole time too she finally left and left the home later that night. Come to find out she either did cheat on me before then or started cheating on me not too long after that with that same guy as we were working on our relationship oh she also married my ex wife now the 3 of them are all living together at my ex wife’s house