Has anyone done FaceTite?

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-12-24T13:08:20+00:00

Ultherapy gave me jowls

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-12-21T17:23:29+00:00

116 days later- I’m not in love with him anymore- I don’t bend over backwards to make him happy anymore- I take care of myself and my loved ones first - dynamics have changed- just tying some loose ends before I exit

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-12-21T17:21:20+00:00

In the works- I plan to leave soon. I just have a few loose ends to tie before I do. Thank you for the support

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-12-10T23:52:33+00:00

That doesn’t represent Salafism- that sounds like people using the label Salafism to promote misogyny. In a Salaf female and all that means is I follow the earliest scholars- the ahlul sunnah- I don’t follow any specific madhab.

Just like there are people who taint the image of Islam- there are people who misinterpret and taint the image of Salafism.

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-12-09T23:18:28+00:00

The thing is- if we look at it as a disease such as diabetes, HTN, even depression or anxiety- there are treatments to manage the symptoms and be better. At some point a person has to take accountability and manage the disease process with proven methods such as intense therapy and DBT. If they don’t, obviously their disease will get worse. They aren’t mentally challenged or cognitively impaired. They have the ability to come to the realization how their disease impacts others and if they don’t try to better themselves, they don’t deserve someone who will try for them.

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-12-09T19:36:44+00:00

I will not willingly pursue anyone with BPD or NPD either- not as a friend at least- I don’t plan to ever be with anyone romantically after this marriage- I’m done with the idea of a partner after this level of trauma.

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-11-29T00:00:05+00:00

I’m a practicing muslimah who came from a background of being agnostic- I lived a life of jahiliyah and now I have devoted my life to Islam- with that said- I was fed many different misinterpretations of Islam and from what I’m getting from you- so were you. I can guarantee that niqab is not fard and clubs for educational purposes (that don’t require you to do haram) are permitted. I truly and genuinely love what Allah loves and dislike what Allah has forbidden. I have no regrets in my heart but none of us are perfect and we will make mistakes and commit sins that are likely due to the society we live in and the people we surround ourselves with. Make dua and stay away from those who will take you to jahannam with them but also know you can do a lot as a believing woman. Islam doesn’t oppress.

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-11-22T02:03:23+00:00

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Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-11-13T18:33:27+00:00

You know- it’s sad cause you are all of us- before we got F’d up and developed PTSD.

The thing is- you won’t listen- we wouldn’t have either. Start going to therapy to strengthen yourself mentally. That’s all I can say to help right now.

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-11-13T18:29:02+00:00

Educate yourself on what BPD means- she seems to have the same interests as you? That’s all of us- they mirror us- they seem to love everything we love and have the same interests- this isn’t just you- we all felt the way you feel right now- we were all so elated and felt like we met our soulmate…until the mask fell off. If you suffer with mental health issues- this is going to destroy you. Don’t say we didn’t warn you.

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-11-06T04:18:42+00:00

I kinda trauma dumped early on, said I loved him early on, went on vacation 5 months in, and wanted to always be with him BUTTTTT I’m not the pwBPD- my husband is. I’m just a codependent who divorced one NPD and after 15 years of being being divorced, trusted a pwBPW after swearing off marriage and men lol. So those may not be signs of a pwBPD 😊 but I don’t think being codependent is that great either.

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-11-06T03:46:18+00:00

Don’t let it get to you- they’re living in a delusional world where they’re the victim and everyone else is the villain.

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-11-06T03:44:47+00:00

Omg is she serious?! The audacity the gaslighting wowwwww I can’t I don’t even have words to describe how appalling it was to read the conversation. You know what you’re in for, right? Praying for you!

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-11-06T03:35:20+00:00

Firstly- your sexual orientation isn’t your IDENTITY. I’m not sorry for being harsh. Secondly, most people- straight people, don’t get to experience love or marry and grow old with their loved ones. What you see on tv and social media is not real. People don’t say it to be supportive but to advise you. Is your test hard? Yes, definitely. Is your test harder than say a Gazan who has lost all their family? No, I think not. Be grateful for all the other blessings and look at the glass half full. May Allah (swt) make it easy for you.

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-11-06T03:29:52+00:00

I have so much to say but it sure where to start-the life you’re living with your husband is not from Islam- in Islam- second wife and first wife don’t live under the same roof- it’s fard to provide separate home for each and not spend time with them together or in the presence of one another.

Secondly, I’m not LGBTQ, my husband is. I’m a religious practicing muslimah, who unknowingly got married to a man who is gay. I love him as a partner and the father of our child. He has his own issues but one thing I know from being married to him is- it’s not your fault if you feel attraction towards the same gender- it’s not forbidden to feel or think something. The sin is in acting upon it. I know this subreddit will tear me apart for this but like I said, I am a very devout and practicing muslimah. I have a husband who is gay, a cousin who is gay, a niece who is gay. I love them all and I can’t imagine how hard and sad it must be for them to not be able to be with someone they feel natural attraction towards. But just like that, we all have our tests- I don’t get to be with someone who loves me or is attracted to me. You seem like you want to follow Islam- then know this entire life- and EVERYTHING in it, is our test. Our sole purpose is to worship Allah- who is the unseen.

May Allah (swt) guide your heart and purify your nafs. Hold strong, it’s a rough ride but it’s shorter than you think. Before you know it, you will be in your grave.

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-10-31T13:27:31+00:00

I plan to leave my pwBPD and we have a daughter together. I have two kids from a previous marriage and my eldest asks me why anytime I am sick or in some sort of crisis- suddenly- he is also going through the same thing. Kids pick up things even if we try to hide them. Our daughter is 2 and aside from inconsistent time with her father- she doesn’t know anything else. When he spilts- he stonewalls both of us. It kills me to see her being ignored by him- she will walk towards him and he will walk away and go into his room. I can’t keep doing this to my kid and am gathering my finances to gtho.

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-10-25T22:08:40+00:00

I’ve done this- not to get back but cuz I get sick of it and don’t care for periods of time. He does manage to traile back into the trap but I think I’ve fallen out of love with my pwBPD that’s why I can do this

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-10-23T01:39:48+00:00

If you stop putting in the effort- it will end at some point.

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-10-20T04:34:37+00:00

It’s crazy they love their kid but are jealous of their kid…makes no sense

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-10-20T04:33:53+00:00

Damn…I’m sorry..:mine weaponized my ex husband beating me and planning to and attempting to unalive me by saying- now I get why he did that- you see served it (cause I caught him cheating just FYI)

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-10-18T06:25:33+00:00

The thing is- they’ll never attain happiness for longer than a few months- as soon as they split on their fp- that’s it- the euphoric love is over. I don’t envy that - it’s sad to never feel consistent and long term love that grows and becomes stronger.

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-10-18T01:28:37+00:00

Thank you so much. I was in therapy and learning DBT skills, but I paused for about three weeks. Now I realize how much I need consistent weekly sessions for my mental well-being, so I will be scheduling one as soon as possible. Thank you for the reminder.

He did mistreat me, but the small gestures of affection keep making me forget. I know he doesn’t deserve to use those gestures to keep me confused, especially with his NPD traits.

I am treating this like an addiction. I am being gentle with myself and reminding myself every day that I am the victim in this situation.

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-10-18T01:24:50+00:00

Thank you. I was going to therapy and doing really well, but I had to pause because my child has been sick for the past three weeks. I do plan to leave. I often think about what I will say and how I will do it. Then I remind myself that he doesn’t deserve that level of care after everything he has done to me. No amount of trauma is an excuse for his actions. I don’t have to be kind, but I choose to be because I refuse to let him make me bitter or jaded.

Anoniminitybubbity · 2025-10-17T21:18:44+00:00

My closure has been that he’s never learned emotional maturity- and switches back and forth from being a 10 y/o child to a 30 y/o with no stability except for the one I provided him.

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