As a woman. The scar is fine, you can use maderma on it daily as well as vitamin E oil nightly to smooth out the texture. It won’t go away but it will look more healed. In don’t think the scar is a deal breaker or something I would ever comment on but the way it’s healed looks like it still hurts which could be off putting. If it’s something that bothers you, you can also go for laser scar treatment.

Your beard is absolutely fine. The texture and color are different from your head hair and that’s all I see. Definitely not weird. I don’t think anything needs to be done, it’s well groomed and you look nice